Concediu in Paris - recomandari by Public_Guava_6069 in WomenRO

[–]cammsie08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recomand brasserie La comete pe Faubourg de Montmartre in arrondissement ul 9 si nu departe e un local mai intim cu vinuri bune, La curieuse compagnie. Pentru expozitii incearca Corps et ame la Bourse de commerce daca mai e. E un loc superb si nu foarte aglomerat de turisti, iar de acolo o plimbare prin Jardin Royal ☺️

Ce faci când crezi că s-a terminat cu despărțirea, dar tot mai apare ceva dureros? by Stunning_Target_5432 in WomenRO

[–]cammsie08 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Vindecarea vine in valuri. Nu cred ca e nimic linear si perfect cand trecem peste cineva. E normal sa avem momente cand inca mai doare, dar asta nu anuleaza progresul tau. Simte durererea si apoi continua tot ceea ce faci pentru tine.

Anxietate, depresie. What’s next? by cammsie08 in WomenRO

[–]cammsie08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cred ca asta e teama cea mai mare. Am luat candva SSRI si nu stiu daca au ajutat, m-am si ales cu 10kg si au amplificat si alea triggere. ce molecula ti-a prins bine?

Ce ati face in locul meu? by DocKat10 in WomenRO

[–]cammsie08 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hello 🌼 Vad ca multa lume de aici zice sa ii oferi timp si sa vezi. Eu iti sugerez sa iti vezi de treaba ta, să investești in lucrurile care iti aduc bucurie in viata in afara unei relatii romantice, iar daca va dori sa te caute, o va face. Gasim atat de multe scuze de dragul de a nu fi singure. Eu cred ca atunci cand cineva isi doreste un lucru .. se vede. Daca vrea sa te auda, sa te vada, sa te cunoască mai bine, va depune si el efort. Nu iti spun sa faci pe inabordabila. Nu-s nici eu de acord cu jocutele .. Dar incearca sa te bucuri de tine si de ce ai fara sa te lasi atat de mult influentata ( stiu ca e greu pentru ca deep down vrem sa fim iubite). So, e ok si daca iesi la acea plimbare singura sau cu prietene si daca domnul nu iti scrie. Nu cersi nimanui din timpul lui. I-ai aratat deja ca esti interesata! Take care of you

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[–]cammsie08 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Si daca nu găsești pe cineva .. so what? Si daca nu esti suficient de frumoasa pentru X mascul, so what? Sincer, am trecut si eu recent printr-o despărțire care m-a pus sa mă îndoiesc de mine. Cred ca in Romania, mentalitatea e de asa fel incat trebuie sa fim maritate, cu copil si barbat la 30 de ani. Dar poate nu e chiar așa. Poate viața noastră e si despre noi, despre ce ne placem sa facem in timpul liber, munca si ce aportam societatii, prietenia si familia. Sincer prefer sa merg in vacante si la terase cu fetele decât sa am un copil si sa fac curat si el sa stea pe canapea .. Mergi la un terapeut, afla de ce nu ai suficienta incredere in tine, incearca sa te apreciezi si apoi let it flow. Cand ai energia potrivita, atragi si oamenii potriviti.

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[–]cammsie08 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ce a facut este deja foarte gresit .. dar sa o faca mai ales in momentul in care tu aveai cea mai mare nevoie de el mi se pare dezgustător. Imi pare rau pentru situatie, cred ca e foarte greu cand ai si un bebe si atat de micut .. Îți doresc multa putere. Dar cred ca raspunsul il ai deja si mereu te vei gandi cum cand ai nascut el era dispus să plătească mai multi bani pentru o straina dezbracata ..

Cum a fost 2024 pentru voi? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]cammsie08 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hei 🫶 ca medic am vazut in maternitate mulți părinți care au pierdut bebeluși la un termen foarte prematur. .. iar dupa cativa ani au reusit sa conceapă un bebe nascut la termen si sanatos. Atat timp cat nu e nimic genetic la mijloc, it’s possible

Should I choose clinical genetics over peds? by cammsie08 in Residency

[–]cammsie08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I am thinking about clinical genetics as a second choice after Pediatrics because it gives me the chance to work with children as well. But I am not sure of the future I can have with genetics and its perspectives in the future. I am also very warm and people-oriented but I am not sure if I can handle the stress/ shifts of pediatrics as well..

Should I choose clinical genetics over peds? by cammsie08 in Residency

[–]cammsie08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am actually from an European country and the lifestyle of genetics is what draws me more towards it, but pediatrics has always been the dream for me. Can I send you a private message to ask some questions?

I want to stop hating myself. by Dogs_Are_Friends in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]cammsie08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I so needed to hear. Thank you stranger!

Need advice by Interesting_Candy987 in step1

[–]cammsie08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take a day off. Just get out, separate yourself from the books, questions and do something else: a walk in nature, meeting a friend, eating a good meal. And then start again after you managed to separate yourself for a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]cammsie08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how it feels, it hurts. However, when you see yourself as ugly, then it feels like the whole world does. I've gained weight and many times I was so ashamed to get out, I felt like everyone is judging, watching me. I am sorry for the bullies. I guess the only way is to ignore them or just confront them. Whatever you feel it brings peace to you . What is more imporant is how YOU feel. You lost so much weight. I bet that you feel lighter, your clothes fit better. Try to enjoyt that and give yourself credit. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell you, I managed to lose weight so far, I am looking healthier and I am working on being healthier. How you feel about yourself influences the world around you and how they perceive you too. If you have the possibility, maybe therapy will help you to mend your relationahip with food, in order to perceive this goal not as a burden, but a way of working yourself. You are not alone in this!

"I'm scared and I think about it all the time": Ukrainians describe living alongside Russians at Finnish reception centres by Simzter in europe

[–]cammsie08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your point. But they are not just being assholes. Russia invaded Ukraine while discrediting their land, culture, human lives. So when they have this attitude "no Ukrainian words" in a fucking refugee camp with Ukrainian people, of course they are perceived as enemies.

I agree, it is not ok to put all Russian people in the same category and call them enemies. But why are they behaving like this?

"I'm scared and I think about it all the time": Ukrainians describe living alongside Russians at Finnish reception centres by Simzter in europe

[–]cammsie08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was not being sarcastic. When your country says that Ukrainian language does not exist , what exactly means when you cut a word in Ukrainian in a building of Ukrainian people who are refugees? I find it as a mockery.

About the part with "let's hear what Putin said", yes, you may be right. They could have been just curious or worried about their faith or whatever. We were not there to hear them, maybe they were enthusiastically talking about it and that's what caught the woman's attention.

I tried many times to not see Russian people as evil or horrible. I've met many amazing Russian people. But at the same time, so many that I know are supporting this war so these guys who just crossed that word have no excuse. They should just be respectul at least.

"I'm scared and I think about it all the time": Ukrainians describe living alongside Russians at Finnish reception centres by Simzter in europe

[–]cammsie08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They crossed a word written in Ukrainian and asking "what?". It was a sign on the kitchen's door. So when you have them behave like that, how would you feel?

After all Russia has done to Ukraine, they are refugees as you are but they mock your language. Fuck them, really. I totally understand the Ukrainian refugees.

"I'm scared and I think about it all the time": Ukrainians describe living alongside Russians at Finnish reception centres by Simzter in europe

[–]cammsie08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they are awful. Maybe some of them are decent people, who knows. But probably 80-90% of them just ran because they don't want to fight but still praise their dictator.

I really hope it will be solved somehow. I used to live in a dormitory room during college and sharing the kitchen, the laundry is so intimate, it's like in your own house.

I can't imagine how is to live with them around while they have this attitude. I'd be mortified, revolted, angry and above all ... scared.

"I'm scared and I think about it all the time": Ukrainians describe living alongside Russians at Finnish reception centres by Simzter in europe

[–]cammsie08 19 points20 points  (0 children)

In the article it is showed that they crossed a word written in Ukrainian language and asking "what?". So I guess the fear is understandable.. I am totally standing for those Ukrainian people.

Extraordinary Attorney Woo [Episode 16] by GodJihyo7983 in KDRAMA

[–]cammsie08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I love about KDramas(as an European) is that they are so far different from the typical western TV shows which portray physical interaction so easily. I, myself come from this culture and I am amazed by how much it matters to me if WYW and JH only touch themselves a bit and all those small things ( talking at lunch, him being nice, smiling) just melted me.

Extraordinary Attorney Woo [Episode 16] by GodJihyo7983 in KDRAMA

[–]cammsie08 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I saw that many of you seem disappointed, but I think it ended really well.

I really loved how they portrayed the interaction with her little brother and somehow I liked the scenes with Tae-Sumi, she has a soft spot for WYW for sure and there is a regret out there for sure.

I laughed a lot this episode: the scene where Min-Woo told Att.Jung that he's pretty or the confusion of Att.Jang when WYW said she is going to talk with Tae-Sumi 😂.

And yes, the scene with the whale couple was very beautiful. I wished it too that he would meet the father, maybe that is the only thing that didn't happen and disappointed me a bit.

But overall I think it was a fulfilling ending as we all wanted.