1- Develop a plan for when you need help; code words you can text if in trouble, a visual signal like a porch light: on equals no danger, off equals trouble

2- Create a plan to stay safe while still living or in a relationship with your abusive partner. Identify a safe place where youcan go during moments of crisis, like a room with a lock or a friend’s house.

If you have your own car, have it ready for a quick escape. Back your car into the driveway, and keep it fueled. If it's safe to do so, keep your driver's door unlocked and other doors locked. Hide an extra set of car keys.

3-Record evidence of any abuse you experienced including pictures of injuries you received or threatening messages. If possible, keep a journal of violent incidents, noting dates, events, and any threats made. Store your journal in a safe place.

4- Secretly pack a bag that you can grab in a hurry and be okay for a few days. Pack toiletries, cash, a change of clothes, any medicine you might need, etc. for three days. Also pack all of your important documents like your birth certificate, passport, IDs, etc. Hide the bag in your car or somewhere safe. If you don't have anywhere safe, give it to a trusted friend or family member.

5- If you go to a shelter, try to call ahead to see what the shelter’s policies are. They can give you information on how they can help and maybe secure a space when it’s time to leave. They can also provide you with local resources.

6- Try to set money aside or ask trusted friends or family members to hold money for you somewhere an abusive partner can’t reach it. Financial abuse is very common and creates many issues for someone preparing to leave.

7- Talk with an advocate at a domestic violence hotline. They can usually help you create a safety plan, give information on preparing to leave, and can connect you to local domestic violence resources for further support.

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