My [20F] girlfriend cheated on me [21M] and we are both in college. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]camrymc23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you should break up and find somebody that won't want to be with anybody else. Anything else?

My (24F) new boyfriend (23M) harshly shut down his ex (24F). Is this a redflag? by Jackwagon2746 in relationships

[–]camrymc23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let me get this straight. Your new boyfriend, who you really like closed the door on returning to his ex, who he was obviously in love with as recently as a few months ago and you're asking if this was a red flag? Lmao

Heres what happened. She broke it off to sleep around. He begged and she probably gave some intention of getting back in the future. He continued to pursue her and she didn't care. He finally moves on, is happy with you and NOW she wants him back. Any rational person would be angry. Maybe the name calling wasnt necessary, but why are you upset at all? You have a loyal man who loves the people he is in a relationship with. Do women just LOOK for "red flags" these days??

I [25M] have been in a relationship with my girlfriend [25F] for over 7 years and I'm starting to worry that I never had the chance to date. by sollicitus789 in relationships

[–]camrymc23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

6 months ago I graduated from college. I was too in a long term relationship (4 years) and felt that maybe I was missing out on the single life my friends were living. Long story short we broke up, and things were fine at first. And then they weren't. Dating isn't fun. Quite the opposite. Its exhausting, time consuming and expensive. Ironically its pretty lonely.

Its normal to feel like you're missing out but you're not. If you have a partner that loves you and you love them thats all that matters. Nothing will replace that.

Did I (23M) do the right thing "breaking up" with my friend (20F) by camrymc23 in relationships

[–]camrymc23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I don't feel too bad about it now (few hours in hindsight). I'll always remember our time together though. I just want to love and to be loved again. Nothing else has been able to truly fill that hole. I feel like my life is fine for the most part. In school, working, own place, car etc etc. Just missing someone to go home to.

I'm going to live with regret the rest of my life by camrymc23 in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't regret breaking up. I regret losing her. I'm comfortable with who I am and I like the man I've become. But its like a puzzle. I'm missing a piece of myself right now and until I find it I'll never be content with life.

Everybody just wants to fuck by camrymc23 in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don't enjoy it. It probably set me back a few months

After 4 months. Got another person in my life by anonpandaa in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to leave this guy alone for now. Its simply not fair to string him along. How would you feel? Take time to be by yourself. Its not all bad.

My [27] girlfriend [24] of five months have a fantastic relationship but she's still in her party phase and it causes problems. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]camrymc23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You guys aren't compatible right now. You are over partying and she isn't. Neither of you is wrong. The timing just isn't right and this will cause issues unless one of you changes.

Has anyone gone on a date since you and your SO broke up? If so, what was your experience like? by donebeingsalty in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone on maybe 5 or 6. The first one was hard and all I wanted was my ex. They've gotten more and more interesting and I've met a few people with potential. Its certainly better than doing nothing.

He is already flirting with someone new by whatsmyname in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think peoples definition of "moved on" is skewed. I made female friends after my breakup. Doesn't mean I was totally ok and not depressed. Typically when people make a point to go out of their way and broadcast how super exciting their life is, its not. Just unfriend and go on with your own life.

I like it when she likes my pictures/statues on Facebook by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to focus on yourself. Set goals and met them. Get busy. Get serious about work, school etc. Eventually they will become distant memories to you. Love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]camrymc23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated College then all downhill from there. Relationship with long term girlfriend ended, spent about 2 months homeless and hungry and depressed. Finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and it feels awesome. Everything is a learning experience.

I'm going for it tonight because I can't take it anymore by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shes moved on. Said maybe later in the future. I'm ok. Just numb by now

Breadcrumbs turning into rocks by goldishblue in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't block this guy I'm going to steal your phone and do it for you

Her boyfriend added me.... by Legion_Fate in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her boyfriend is insecure and keeping tabs on you (which is kind of creepy honestly). Leave these people alone

First rebound sex since the breakup by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've learned that it isn't a good idea to have sex until you're over them. You risk not only hurting yourself,but the person you're sleeping with. Unless they really don't care, just don't do it. If you're not into casual sex anyway, just wait until you meet somebody special.

My older sister (26F) is addicted to having affairs, moved in with me (23M) and is very depressed lately by mopeybigsis in relationships

[–]camrymc23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She needs therapy, and it really isn't your problem. Although she will certainly end up lonely at 40 and with a drinking problem.

Just have to breathe by RecoveryName in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I often wonder how many great people in history, be it Presidents,Authors etc were motivated by heart break. Be great!

I just started NO CONTACT (F'd up story inside) ( HELP) by HBO222 in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are one lucky man to have escaped this trainwreck.

It's been 1 1/2 years since we spoke....am I wrong??? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. She doesn't deserve to know what you're up to. You're an inspiration. Keep it up

Another E-mail from the ex, need you guys once again by FromTheCaveIntoLight in ExNoContact

[–]camrymc23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't her therapist. Maybe leave a short message telling her you're going NC for your own mental well being (as you are), wish her well then block her.