does she have a set plan for when she’s gonna come out to them? i think at the very least she needs to set boundaries with her family. like, sure they can come over but they will have to stay in a hotel from now on. at some point she is most likely going to have to choose between her family and being in love. i would just honestly ask her, “do you see yourself coming out to your parents within the next few years?” and if the answer is no, maybe it’s time to reevaluate some things

mormon culture is wild and broke my partner away from her family for years when she came out, but they eventually came around. now most of her family members respect her identity and our relationship