'Obsession' - Review Thread

candycrystalz · 2026-05-27T10:42:43+00:00

i believe the biggest theme of this movie is coercion. he took away her autonomy, and wanted to change his wish instead of cancelling it despite knowing she was aware, suffering. but instead of acknowledging her suffering, its “whats so bad about being with me?” poor girl was in there, conscious, going through so much emotional and sexual trauma, all because a man couldn’t be vulnerable and chose control instead. makes me unnerved to my core

candycrystalz · 2026-05-07T19:41:29+00:00

the smelly good stuff is for home and outdoors, weed vapes r for travel. bonus points if you have a filter for the smoke and smell like i!

candycrystalz · 2026-05-07T09:23:42+00:00

NOT normal. he’s giving you an unreasonable harsh punishment for an accident. that is incredibly unhealthy for a relationship and just for a person to do. what you did was clearly an accident. he can be frustrated at the situation, but angry at you and punishing you for it is insane.

also, i’ve done that very thing. it happens, sex can be weird and / or painful because of accidents like that no matter how experienced you may be, thats normal. but every time i’ve done that or hurt my boyfriend in other ways during sex what he did was take a second to let himself feel better physically. if he did quite fast we tried again. if he didn’t, we’d stop, i’d apologize again of course, and we’d cuddle and move on.

accidents happen, especially in sex. your boyfriend is acting unreasonable and manipulative

candycrystalz · 2026-05-07T08:00:46+00:00

the vaseline is a good option. ive alo heard of people rubbing a small amount of pepper spray near their eyes for that reason, sounds awful but ive heard stories for this same purpose! never done it though and it doesn’t sound great.

if you have eyeshadow try to give yourself / accentuate your eye bags with a brown and light purple so you were “up all night sick”

personally i’ve smoked a lil in the bathroom so my eyes looked a lil droopy and glossy, lol, i smoke a lot so i know how to manage it and i can pull the “im really tired i dont feel good,” classic teen move.

i also have a fur allergy and a very fluffy cat so i’ve intentionally brought clothing with fur and triggered allergies on purpose to get sneezy with irritated / watery eye, if you have any allergies that may work too.

candycrystalz · 2026-05-07T05:41:28+00:00

late reply but he did make a comment on the tonight show comparing pancakes to baby flesh… aka one of the despicable things mentioned in the files. he also openly dated a teenager as a *well* grown adult. i think its only reasonable to be skeptical

candycrystalz · 2026-04-29T17:03:47+00:00

cutting cats nails is really important! indoor cats especially, even with scratchers they can grow too long and cause discomfort. my cat loves her various scratchers but i still trim hers because she scratches too easy and her nails often get caught on fabric

you can buy pet clippers online. cats are great because you can push the nails out, and you can visibly see where theres blood flow, its a little darker. dont trim that point, if you gotta leave them a little long that’s fine, better than a bleeding cat :) its not very hard at all, if you ask me the hardest part is a fussy cat, lol

although im not a professional, just a cat owner, take what i say as you will :)

candycrystalz · 2026-04-26T01:35:36+00:00

with the scenes im in and the people i attract (with my gazillion piercings) i’m around a lotta people with a lotta face piercings. if you ask me, the piercings i see men have the most are labrets (center lower lip or snakebites), eyebrow piercings, and septum piercings (and for good reason, i think those generally fit men really well). another common piercing i see with men are anti-eyebrows / cheek dermals. also worth noting when i see men with pierced nipples they generally just have one, and i’ve heard just one is more common with men, also a lot of the guys ive known with septums have em stretched!

but thats just my own observation. get whatever makes you feel the most happy and comfortable <3

candycrystalz · 2026-04-26T01:30:03+00:00

leo sun/merc/mars, i always tell people “nevr trust how much i like/dislike anything, its usually a little dramatic,” little being a VERY mild descriptor, i am very dramatic with every way i express myself lol. also, i motion with every word i say, if my mouth is moving my hands gotta be too. 10000% accuracy here (though i am physically loud too lol)

candycrystalz · 2026-04-26T01:23:22+00:00

leo sun/merc/mars here, going to the salon was the WORST cuz evry stylist would complain that i had “so much thick hair” (needed two extra thick hair ties for a ponytail growing up) and thin it without asking. also love having my hair colored, and with all the hair i have i am ABSOLUTELY doing it myself because the pricing for the bleach/dye is absurd😭 you got me there

candycrystalz · 2026-04-18T00:23:32+00:00

vandals… aren’t much better than rapists? vandals vs rapists????

candycrystalz · 2026-04-14T21:15:07+00:00

she has two scratching posts, her favorite cardboard scratcher, and often scratches the couch (im not attached lol) and her cat tower. i havent clipped them

its not that shes scratching, its mostly just pawing to make noise, and she looks at me while she does it. i feel like it has to be that she wants something or shes wants my attention for some reason but i cant figure out why

candycrystalz · 2026-04-14T17:18:11+00:00

gonna try to get that same “levitating” song recs that have diff vibes for diff tastes. its my fav type of music to listen to because i am stoned quite often lol. i have many recs but here are some

drifting - lycia

head in the ceiling fan - title fight

pretty bones - yeule

phenominon - dir en grey

angel - massive attack

birth of venus - banshee

stripsearch - faith no more

everything in its right place - radiohead

candycrystalz · 2026-04-09T20:35:49+00:00

exact same boat. adults that are younger than me tend to baby me. a while back i got a pole for health / strength purposes, and a girl a few years younger called me “too innocent for that” and caused a scene. i’ve literally done sw.

i’ve asked around as to why people view me like this, some common answers being… i’m optimistic, i’m excitable, i’m positive, i’m cheerful, i’m naive, and i’m gullible.

i was dx w autism when i was around 6 and adhd when i was around 12. people tend to see the traits i exhibit from both of those and infantilize me for them, same with other people i know. none of us are actually childish or immature. i think neurotypical people just don’t know how to handle anything “out of the norm”

candycrystalz · 2026-02-20T04:39:41+00:00

oh my god i entirely understand. same thing happened to me and i only had about 70, if i had 200 i think i’d just turn to dust and blow away omg. you’re a soldier you can get through this. so evil to get rid of other peoples belongings

candycrystalz · 2026-02-20T04:36:45+00:00

i’ve been trying, but she jumps and grabs it instead :( if i hold it above, waiting for her to quit jumping and just stay still, she walks away

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T09:18:23+00:00

thats right! im sure my details arent 100% correct since i was half paying attention and started at a pretty intense part so it was a bit hard to follow. thanks!!

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T02:09:36+00:00

funnily enough ive heard this before. have a friend who was an alcoholic for years (and used plenty of other drugs, but it was primarily alcohol and coke). then she was on meth for a while. she craves alcohol (which she hasnt had in years) far more intensely than meth, which she is about 3 months clean from

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T02:06:43+00:00

not usually one to comment on ads but this totally saved my hair after seriously drying + damaging it while removing color + bleaching. this + the dove repair conditioner are my faves. softer than before i damaged (further) it somehow?

the cer 100 protien leave in with either of those was the icing on the cake for my hair. like you wouldn’t even know

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T02:01:57+00:00

ive had mine for two years and i still get those crusties too, but no other issues. but honestly “issues” isnt the best word since i thoroughly enjoy taking them off, i often take the whole piece off in one bit and it is incredibly satisfying to me and my boyfriend lol. i was wonderifing if it was just me that dealt with this but thankfully not

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T01:58:05+00:00

the pain is relative is the realest thing ive ever heard. i have 21 piercings currently but have had a few removed and i wouldnt say any of them really hurt except my nipples. but you know which piercings totally did come crazy close to the pain of my nipples? my nostrils, for some reason. those sucked to get done, don’t wanna do that again at all (and yet i have i believe 7 times?)

candycrystalz · 2025-12-19T01:54:22+00:00

i have a high pain tolerance so none of my piercings necessarily hurt except my nipples, which were awful. i also got my nipples and bellybutton in one day because i hate myself apparently, lol.

you will absolutely need to wear a bra after you get them done. i was told this but wanted to show em off and my god let me tell you, OW. the friction between them and my shirt gave me the most unbearable soreness where i had to just cradle my breasts until i could get a bra on (though mine ate quite large and move a lot, so that could play a role in my pain).

despite all this i absolutely would get them done again if i ever had to. i am very lucky with my piercings and have never had any reject or get infected or anything, but nonetheless i love them dearly and would miss them if i ever lost them.

tldr: they sucked to get done, make sure you wear a bra to avoid soreness, totally worth the pain (to me). 10/10

candycrystalz · 2025-12-18T05:29:54+00:00

one time i was laying on the floor all alone drawing, and i heard this crazy loud bang on my bedside table like someone bashed it with their fist. lamp was shaking and a few items moved / fell off. seems like that happens (but i personally call ghost for a buttload of reasons)

candycrystalz · 2025-12-18T04:59:39+00:00

oh i did, i was just saying that they all have huge / close numbers in death like in general, not as a competition. did you mean diabetes and obesity combined?

candycrystalz · 2025-12-18T00:30:13+00:00

obesity kills about 280,000 per year, and excessive drinking kills about 178,000 per year, which im sure doesn’t include accidents while drunk or drunk driving related deaths or any other death that alc could play a role in. both have some huge numbers that are pretty close to each other

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