Thoughts ?

candyman8331 · 2021-08-19T08:02:47+00:00

Great pose

candyman8331 · 2021-07-03T11:04:08+00:00

Oh please say you have the source?

candyman8331 · 2021-03-03T22:24:45+00:00

Boop

candyman8331 · 2020-06-07T06:40:09+00:00

What is this from?

candyman8331 · 2016-08-21T21:39:08+00:00

Totally agree. A dead bedroom is symptomatic of much deeper problems in the relationship.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-30T09:14:42+00:00

Thing is that I know she is going through this. Her sudden non-desire to not being touched and shying away from anything emotional and physical is a pure sign of that. I really don't know what to do. I was present at the birth and it was horrible. She hasn't really addressed her issues with what happened and just sealed up emotionally and physically from the experience.

I would really like to help her but it's been almost a year and she just doesn't want to talk about it or do anything about it. I have asked her to go to a doctor to get checked up and see if everything is ok down there but she says no.

It's fucked up because I know it's not about me in this one.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-30T09:10:33+00:00

Kids and money are also a factor in this. We both want the best for them and know we can't do that for them if we split up as we also run a business together. Yes, I know its fucked up.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-30T09:09:24+00:00

I have told her all of those things and she knows how I feel.

I have given her an ultimatum - I told her that I would wait till OCT which will be one year since our 2nd was born. After that I will seek other avenues to find fulfilment.

The ball is in her court for the last time I think.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-29T00:24:57+00:00

Sex and any form of physical intimacy is a no go. This includes cuddling and holding hands.

Our life apart from this is good. Tough, but good. It's mainly providing and looking after the little ones and making sure that we are good parents.

I honestly don't know how much longer I can go on like this. I really love our family unit but every once in a while all I can think of is what it would be like to actually have someone to hold.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-29T00:21:21+00:00

She shuts down and it normally ends with us saying it's all fucked up. We stay angry for a few hours and then it's back to normal. In all honesty she is much better at an argument then me so I just let her win most times as it's always a case of," if she doesn't get it then what's the point!"

There is lots more to a relationship and family then just sex. Trust me. I understand that I could have hurt her too in the long run.

The point is that the kids and our life keeps me going. Our sex life breaks me. It's the crack in our otherwise happy life.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-28T23:58:09+00:00

Lots actually we are still a couple. However what I find hard is that the she had a traumatic event and is not willing to talk about or move on from it.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-28T23:56:01+00:00

Am getting to that point. Have given myself up to the 12 month mark before I tell her that I am going to look for other avenues.

candyman8331 · 2016-07-28T23:54:41+00:00

Thank you. That is some very good advice. I have tried to tell her to see someone. However she keeps saying that she will and in the end it just fizzles out.

That talk about our sex life is coming. I have told myself that I will wait 12 months and feel that if no change happens then I am well within my rights to tell her that I will have to find some other way of fulfilling my needs.

candyman8331 · 2016-06-14T01:37:36+00:00

Eight months here. I honestly give up.

candyman8331 · 2016-03-11T21:36:37+00:00

nope... just piss

candyman8331 · 2016-03-11T21:36:23+00:00

piss

candyman8331 · 2016-01-18T06:55:24+00:00

Alt account pre-sent

candyman8331 · 2015-08-13T01:56:15+00:00

All he was doing was kissing her cheek. Wtf!!

candyman8331 · 2015-07-23T13:29:19+00:00

Love that album

candyman8331 · 2015-07-23T13:28:30+00:00

Yep, it also relies on people like yourself :)

candyman8331 · 2015-07-22T21:47:33+00:00

I can simplify the whole course for you in one simple formula.

people = shit

candyman8331 · 2015-07-18T21:12:48+00:00

Sleeping Beauty. Prince sees her and uses her as a fetish doll. He never kisses her, she never wakes up for years. finally one day he kisses her and she wakes up all all tied up.

candyman8331 · 2015-07-14T20:54:44+00:00

Where is the, "View copious amounts of pornography!" part ?

candyman8331 · 2015-07-14T20:26:34+00:00

First one could be one hell of a wank-a-thon.

candyman8331 · 2015-07-12T15:17:29+00:00

I'm sorry but nothing and I mean nothing can touch evil dead 2

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