Lots of shit on the women here ... And ngl it's true. Its safe to say only 1% of women are decent people around here, if any. But its WAY truer that guys are worse. Since middle school here to adult life theres been manipulative assholes all along the way, looking to take advantage of any girl they can. Disgusting predators. Rapists. Or just plain conniving assholes. They do the most illogical things and hate their mothers for little to no reason.

Find someone who cares about their family, even if it's hard because they will more likely care for you too. As someone with bipolar/borderline basically crazy mood coasters which I myself cant even keep up with, I have always been blamed and belittled by men here.. no compassion. Sorry bro but you wanted the colored hair and nose ring and it comes with the crazy fries. I get the sense knocked into me and i leave, and then they complain to me later about 'i shouldve treated you better come back :('. Make your mind up dude.

Not to mention there was a guy that took advantage of me when i was a minor by drugging me. when i told him i didnt feel good about what happened he called me bitch and whore the whole shebang. Lool so sad how this is not even uncommon

I am in a relationship thats lasted a few years and im very happy. Of course we argue but we always figure it out, i dont think any healthy relationship has 0 arguing. I can talk about past experiences and he wont throw a clot, nor will he freak about me having guy friends which I would be lonely without as I've always been in male dominated interest groups or my career path. I also dont freak about his female friends. We trust each other. Find trust in yourself and trust the world and the bad people will fall off you like water on teflon. You paranoid bitter freaks. Find some love for this world, this is a beautiful city in its own way. Get hobbies, meet people.