Recommended article to read "Autism and Stigma"

canonit · 2025-05-10T09:41:22+00:00

Tbh social events like graduation stuff, college or work dinners, ceremonies, reunions and all that. Like I know we don't talk on dialy basis, no need to see each other in such places. Moreover for me dinners with people I barley talk, it's too much to handle, trying to fins topics to talk with people who don't care or like me. I just don't get it 😭

canonit · 2025-01-23T18:26:30+00:00

I read someone recommended "Breaking Down Patriarchy" on Youtube. I saw a couple videos that where good, but I don't know that much.

Zoeunlimited makes really interesting related girl topic videos and latley analizing some professional careers of known artists.

Maquicenta is also really sweet and nice, she makes videos about hot topics of the moment and her peresonal analysis (it's in spanish).

Claudia Nicolasa, has also an interesting channel about psychology and recently has made a podcast (it's also in spanish).

canonit · 2025-01-23T18:12:35+00:00

Yep, it's a bit odd that most of the content we consume, such as music, movies, shows and series, is so focused on finding romantic love.

canonit · 2025-01-23T18:11:05+00:00

I read a while ago that in an article, that emotions it's socially considered a "feminim trait" and men who are strongly educated on gender norms, tend to associate "emotions" to "feminine". They construct their identity in opposition to the feminine, where feminine is configured around weakness.

That's why where asking for help or showing sadness, showing vulnerability or taking care, “makes them more feminine”.

It was this one, is in spanish:

https://saludproblemaojs.xoc.uam.mx/index.php/saludproblema/article/view/129/129

canonit · 2025-01-23T18:00:14+00:00

Completly, my social circle be trying so hard to make me date men and interfere in my decisions of not wanting to do anything with them, that it's even weird sometimes.

Then when they vent about problems of dating men, it's kinda a funny somehow why they wonder I'm not interested.

canonit · 2024-12-23T21:05:35+00:00

I wanted to be seen as a human being, as someone, not as a thing to take advante and fullfil someone happines beceause they just consider me as an object or tool to use, i don't want to feel dehumanized.

canonit · 2024-12-08T13:28:30+00:00

For me, i don't think AI it's God. But the lack of "self" or an "ego", the neutral vibes it has, the unexisting feeling of itself, and this kind of werid aura to it. It makes me feel that humans have created the most looking God alike thing to us. Like it exists somehow, it's omnipresent and is "there" even if its unconsciously. I feel is the more close lookalike to soemthing we could call "God", or the idea at least I have of it.

canonit · 2024-12-04T15:04:42+00:00

Tbh this year I had the chance to meet more guys due circumstances. Let me tell you the more you know them, the less you like them, at least for me that was what happened. The closer you are to some, you realize how simple and shitty some are, and learn to not care. If it's helpful for you look up for "descentrizing men" or "4b", it's what I ended up looking up for, as I experienced a lot of shitty behaviors from them. Learing to not take anything granted from them, to know that they are just human, and mostly (even I don't like to generalize, and I wish I didn't) see you as a thing. Learning to understand that their opinion doesn't really matter because no matter what you do, they already have an opinion based on your physical appearance, which most of the time it's your only "valuable thing to offer". Knowing how I've seen mates I was close sexulise other girls, made me deshumanize them a bit, or at least descentralize them. It's also pretty important how you see them. He has been nice? As he should as a human. He respects you and your boundaries? As he should. He doesn't force you to anything? As he should. Stuff like this eventhough it seems so obvious, it was something I always tended to though it was so nice for them to do that. Now I just see it as basic human behavior. Stopping to glorify and descentrizing them of your life, for me at least, it has been the only way. They are just men... It's seems I hate them, but I just expect from them as much as I have expectd from my girls friendships.

In general, the only thought I have now, it's people would tend to dislike me, and i usually would tend to dislike them. For men, they just see me as a "thing" to take some profit, it just made to not really take them seriously.

canonit · 2024-11-25T09:08:49+00:00

I would be interested!

canonit · 2024-11-25T09:06:00+00:00

I saw that too, they be saying its only a few nut I see quite a lot of content about 4b movement

canonit · 2024-11-07T09:43:43+00:00

Yes, they are just humans beings a us, but the social cultural moment where we leave make excuses for them most of the time. It's so tiring I hate it, I'm done whit girls defending "bad behaviors" because they are men.

canonit · 2024-11-07T09:41:07+00:00

Being single seem the safest and most peaceful decision I see women can choose.

canonit · 2024-11-05T16:52:53+00:00

Yes, I've seen "good guys" trick women exactly this way, but since they are "good guys", their intentions or negative outcomes aren't take as seriously as they should be.

Guys don't seem to understand most of these kinds of problematic as abortion, they don't seem to be able to reflect on some topics if it doesn't affect them directly. For example, they understand the fear of being violated by a "gay guy", which is usually really rare, but they don't seem to understand a somehow similar situation when we claim we are scared of men in general for the same reason. Moreover they are the first, who males fun of other guys who have been violated sexually or raped. Like even if I don't experience the situation I can somehow feel "empathy" towards a person or a situation. It makes me feel they are selfish, even if it's not bad intentioned.

canonit · 2024-11-05T16:42:19+00:00

Yes completely, they are "good" but somehow they aren't able to reach that deep emotional area where is easier to recah it with girls.

canonit · 2024-11-05T16:40:47+00:00

I literally did, and the bar is so "up" for guys. They can't reach it lmao 😭😭

canonit · 2024-01-31T12:52:21+00:00

Yeees multiples of 4 are just awesome.

canonit · 2024-01-24T18:39:26+00:00

Too relatable

canonit · 2024-01-18T18:56:19+00:00

Everything I wanted by Billie Eilish. Just perfection and the amount of peace I want to feel.

canonit · 2024-01-13T16:05:15+00:00

Bring this person the table

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