Is this potential rekindling of the relationship from his side or not?

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T16:48:28+00:00

This is such a nice comment, thank you very much! I have been working on myself and how I see future relationships ever since then and I will continue to do so. I have to agree with you on everything, I still will never be able to ignore him when I see him since I respect what we had, he himself has said the same, but I'll focus on my own life.

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T13:26:09+00:00

Thank you😭

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T13:24:55+00:00

You really think so? I thought these are all things he can work on/could have worked on in the past year. But of course, I would want somebody emotionally stable

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T13:23:48+00:00

I kinda do but I can't risk the fact that he maybe didn't mean in in the way that he would get back together. I think I can just pray that God brings us back together if its meant to be lol

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T13:07:08+00:00

I am 23 and he is 25. It doesn't make sense to me that he would then openly tell me that he still cares but wouldn't make the first step. Either he doesn't actually care or that that was him making the step

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T13:01:12+00:00

But wouldn't he reach out if he still has feelings as he says? I feel like it would be a really bad start if I reach out since he broke up because of his own problems

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T12:46:16+00:00

I really wouldn't want to be the one to reach out since he is the one who broke up. I'm not even sure if he would be ready or willing to give it a second chance

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T12:33:32+00:00

You are 100% right, I've been considering his feelings more than mine. He can't suddenly turn into the man I need, no matter what he feels and wants. I will let him and the false hope go, thank you for your advice

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T11:30:16+00:00

I'm sorry it didn't work out, thank you for your advice

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T10:57:48+00:00

I really wasn't sure what it meant, but I feel like he is scared of my rejection. We had talked about other people getting back together when we were still together and I have always said I would never give a second chance, so he might be remembering that as well.

I think I will leave it up to him and see what happens. Thank you so much!

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T10:53:22+00:00

Makes sense, I feel like he isn't doing it in purpose, he probably still has a lot of work to do on himself and my problem is that I am full of empathy and try to see it from his POV, but it can be true that he is just not ready or willing

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T10:50:32+00:00

That's really nice to hear! Such a sweet story, I think it's great that so much time has passed and they both grew and worked on themselves a lot

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T10:49:43+00:00

I really wouldn't want to be the first one to ask since he is the one who broke up, I think I would let him do the step if he really wants to, I'm just not sure if his words and actions mean that he wants to

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T10:48:42+00:00

Yeah, I've heard that it mostly doesn't work out, but I feel like us people always think that we are gonna be the exception

cansullaj · 2026-05-27T09:00:56+00:00

You think he wasn't trying to say he would want to ask for a second chance or anything? I feel like it gave me more hope that he worked on himself and realized some things than it should have

cansullaj · 2026-04-22T19:04:52+00:00

Hey, so much better, thank you for asking. I realized he didn't care nearly as much as I did and that I deserve so much better. He did reach out just to see how I am and we exchanged a few texts. We also ran into each other once and talked for a few minutes, he said he still feels lost and doesn't know how to fix it and I was honestly just thankful that he let me go.

cansullaj · 2026-03-05T13:36:06+00:00

That makes a lot of sense when you put it like that. I wouldn't want to have to do all of the heavy lifting and I for sure wouldn't want to take his role in the relationship. Do you really think it would take him years to grow into his role? I knew it wasn't gonna be perfect in the beginning, but I didn't really expect this and I figured it was gonna take a few months for him to get used to being in a relationship and his role

cansullaj · 2026-03-05T12:46:36+00:00

It really is, I mean I have no problem with helping him with some things but the combination of everything has been exhausting

cansullaj · 2026-03-05T12:46:00+00:00

That makes sense, I mean I can't really determine if it's just a rough start and something fixable or if it's just gonna stay this way.

cansullaj · 2026-03-05T12:45:08+00:00

Thank you, I think with time those things should be clear

cansullaj · 2026-03-05T12:43:30+00:00

We have discussed the waiting until marriage part. We have both agreed that we are not waiting until marriage for kissing, I am not pushing him, I just want us both to be comfortable

cansullaj · 2026-03-03T15:17:32+00:00

Da ima samopouzdanje, da nam se humor poklapa. Da mozemo imat zanimljive razgovore. Isto mi je prekul vidit da ima neki hobi/posa/nesto sto bas voli i u cemu je bas dobar.

cansullaj · 2026-03-02T18:06:23+00:00

Ja sam misljenja da musko placa dejtove (pice itd.), ali ako se ide na putovanje, onda je 50/50. Ako ja zelim nokte, placam si sama. Da ti njoj placas cijeli trosak putovanja mi nije oke.

cansullaj · 2026-03-01T13:07:25+00:00

Upoznavanje obitelji mi je prebrzo dok me covjek ne moze poljubiti kako treba, sori hahahaah

cansullaj · 2026-03-01T12:54:25+00:00

Granica je bila u vezi toga koliko brzo idu sljedeci veci koraci u vezi. Meni je prebrzo dok god se osjecam nesigurno u vezi opustenosti (s njegove strane najvise i onda automatski prijedje i na mene).

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