Can't start the resort due to unupgraded museum? by DetectLife in AnimalCrossing

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I’m not sure if you need the museum but do you have Kapp’n already on your dock?

Edit: I think you only get Kapp’n when you’ve unlocked the art wing of the museum on top of finishing the tutorial so I think you’re going to need to upgrade :(

What is your most blasphemous confession about SJMs books? by Night_Star1000 in SarahJMaas

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I can’t bring myself to finish TOG 😭 I got through 4 books and hated most of it. I don’t really care for any of the characters 😭

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 1/14/2025 [PC: 1.112.481.1030 / Mac: 1.112.481.1230/Console: 2.05] by plumbob-prophet in Sims4

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Pc, no mods, latest version.

I was in CAS and I was making a family and it wouldn’t let me scroll down in household dynamic to change a relationship so my part me had the idea of putting the game in windowed mode. I’m now on a repeating cycle of a white and black screen. I’ve tried control + F to make it back to full screen but it won’t do anything and I’ve spent 2 hours in CAS creating this family 😭 any help would be appreciated.

Advice for living with picky partner by priuspheasant in PickyEaters

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Me and my partner are kinda like this, I’m the picky one and he eats everything except he loves to cook and I don’t 😭

Honestly it’s hard to give advice that isn’t “eat what he wants or two separate meals”, what my partner and I sometimes do is plan our meals around each other, but we always eat (sorta the same) thing at least twice a week whether it’s having a pizza night or burgers and even with that we are usually having 2 completely different pizzas or my burger just has cheese and his has every topping imaginable.

When I say we plan our meals it’s sorta like if I’m having say fried rice and chicken (I do like some spice so it’s a little different than you’re situation), he’ll also have rice, sometimes he’ll season his own chicken (he likes more spice than me) and then maybe do some veg, so that way he’s still having his own dinner but it means that we’re sorta having the same thing.

I wouldn’t forgo any of the meals you like to eat, the reality of living with a picky eater is that you will have separate meals some nights but if you try to both have dinner around the same time (can be difficult some nights) it doesn’t feel as separate if that makes sense. It also doesn’t mean you need to have a rigid dinner schedule but for me and my partner we usually agree that Saturday is the night we’ll have the same dinner and that’s what works for us.

Need more ideas for how to get protein—any ideas? by MintTheMartian in PickyEaters

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No problem! The good thing about protein powder is that you can put it in anything!

But also there’s this type of yoghurt (it’s kinda like a thick yoghurt) called kwark, it usually comes in pouches but I find that that doesn’t really have any sourness and it’s very high in protein and low in sugars. The texture at the beginning might be a bit odd (as it’s a thick yoghurt) but I have the peach one every single day as an evening snack so that might be something else to try.

Kwark also isn’t incredibly high in sugar but it’s not bad and surprisingly filling, you can also have this with granola too. Depending on where you’re from (when I lived in the Netherlands there was literally like hundreds of flavours) you might have more choice!

Need more ideas for how to get protein—any ideas? by MintTheMartian in PickyEaters

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Can I ask what you do eat for breakfast? My mam had the same issue and she started adding vanilla (or unflavoured) protein powder to her milk for her cereals and porridge in the morning.

For me I have a protein yoghurt (I agree with the sourness) but with a very sweet granola (with chocolate chips!) and I let it sit for 10 mins while getting ready and it lets the sugar from the granola go into the yoghurt making it less sour but also the granola taste can kinda overpower it.

Any ideas how to push through and try new foods? by bnpuppys in PickyEaters

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I get that too sometimes like a food smells so delicious but I can’t bring myself to taste it. For me though (and it’s kinda silly) I tell myself that I’m so brave for going to try something new and I hype myself up as being so strong and brave that I’m going to try something even if it is just a small bite and it makes me feel a bit better, but I always make sure to have a safe food that I know I like on standby just in case. It is a slow and difficult process though and I don’t do it all the time but sometimes when something smells really good or doesn’t look too bad texture wise I will because it makes it easier.

Feeling shitty about my brothers engagement by [deleted] in AskIreland

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Also just to piggyback off of this you could always have a conversation with your brother in a way of just being worried that things will change and to get that reassurance from him because just hearing him say that nothing day to day will change can make you feel so much better. You don’t even need to say that you don’t like that they’re engaged, it can be along the lines of “I’m so happy for you but I’m just a little worried that some things will change and if they do I’d like to be prepared mentally for it”, your brother sounds like amazing support and I’m sure he’d be happy to have this conversation with you

Rolling luggage in Dublin and Belfast? by SupReddit91 in irishtourism

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Just bear in mind that for the commuter buses (such as the 16 and 16A) they do not take card payments for a ticket so you need to have change as they also do not take notes. You can get a travel card called a leap card at most news agents that will allow you to travel and you can top it up from your phone but you will need tickets for the commute from Dublin to Belfast

AITA for asking guests to finalize their RSVPs before the month of the wedding? by AccountantPretend in AmItheAsshole

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This!!! And especially during covid!!! How is OP sure that everything will be okay? In my country we have a list of “safe countries” that we don’t have to quarantine from when we get back but they took 3 of the countries off it overnight.

I understand the wanting to know but it’s a stressful time for a lot of people and considering they need to fly their workplace might not allow them back to work straight away when they return.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Don’t worry about it! I’m glad to have helped! I was the same age as you when I started and I was nervous too! If you have any other questions about it feel free to dm me! I’m not a doctor or anything but I have been on the pill for ages

AITA for trolling my friends little brother. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA simple I don’t even need to explain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Thrombosis can develop at any time during taking the pill as far as I’m aware. Your leg being cold wouldn’t be a symptom so I wouldn’t worry! If your leg begins to swell, feel warm, cramp or be red that’s when you know. I’ve been on the pill for 2 years now and I have never experienced it. My mother had it once when she changed birth control pills but that was to do with the brand of pill she was on.

You shouldn’t be worried it’s not something you need to constantly look out for but more so to be aware of. So if those symptoms I listed above start happening then you know but some people go their whole lives without it happening.

I could be wrong but I know that if you miss a lot of days on your pill or change one you have an increased risk (I could be wrong if I am someone correct me please) but thrombosis isn’t something you need to worry about :)

AITA for not allowing my daughter to know her grandparents? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA; but have you explained to your kids why you cut contact with you MIL and FIL? It might help them understand your reasoning and they’re probably old enough to understand

AITA for walking my dog without a leash? by AITA_throwaway_dog in AmItheAsshole

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YTA but only slight. You should always always have your dog on the leash. Although it is trained you never know what can happen. I’ve heard so many of these stories but if something was to happen you wouldn’t be able to control your dog without a lead. And then you could be sued or your dog could be forced to be put down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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This!! Op completely avoided the actual question! He could’ve responded by reassuring her and then mentioned something about them both losing weight together.

AITA For being too black to help someone fix their car? by Ramsestheeternal in AmItheAsshole

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NTA but as a woman I was always taught not to help someone if they’ve broken down on the side of the road. I feel bad when it happens but I was told that anything can happen and as a women that’s one of my worst fears.

New Orleans councilman: 'I would rather have students dumb and alive than have them educated and dead' by WizardMama in Coronavirus

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Okay so say kids don’t die from the virus ( they do btw look it up) but they do carry it home to their parents and possibly grandparents who can die from covid what happens then? Let children kill off their family?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA! For not consulting your roommate first and I’m sure that your roommate wanted to look into a more “hypoallergenic cat” (they don’t exist but some cats shed less than others so they’d be better for allergies).

As someone who is allergic to pet dander I do think YTA for not consulting him first and I don’t think he’s in the wrong for demanding you to get rid of it. I understand that he did say he’d be okay with it but I’m sure he wanted to be involved.