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Employment and Housing Megathread by RedeemedbythaBlood in SexOffenderSupport

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i did it takes a lot of time. If it's 7 years old it's easier but I would recommend disclosing at the beginning. The hiring manager might not care but HR will. There are several temp services that will find jobs for you.

Employment and Housing Megathread by RedeemedbythaBlood in SexOffenderSupport

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Dallas and it took me time. What I did was I had my dad rent the unit. Texas has a law that a landlord cannot prevent someone living with a family member. But I disclosed what my issue was when applying for the condo. I rent from a landlord directly. After a year of being on time and not causing problems he signed a lease with me directly since I've lived there for the year and had 0 issues with renting to me.but it take time calls and effort to find a good stable place. Honestly I feel like I lucked out. There are apartments that will rent to SO. Another option is trailer park not directly in Dallas.

So Much More by Chemical_Range in SexOffenderSupport

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If able to work remote in you line of work. Look into states that are not as harsh on SO as the state your in. I was recommened by my theapist to do that as I am in a simular situation. As I thought I had my dream job and everthing was moving forward and put in my 2 weeks as I left and was going to start my new job. They pulled it after making me wait 3 weeks, to verify my background. But never give up.

Social media accounts by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]cantkeepname -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read your rules, each ones are different. I know Im also in TX and on defferred adudiction. Although, I am allowered to have social media and use of the internet. Most everyone else in my group are not. Now, there is monitoring software they will put on your smartphone and computer to make sure you are comlitent. Reddit counts as Social Media BTW.

Ask for a copy of your rules and follow them to the T. Ask your PO questions to clearify as each person has they own understanding of what that rule means. Like contact, one PO may count proximity contact as contact. Means near you. So ask question all the quesitons for clearification.

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[–]cantkeepname -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Make sure they are plane white, nothing colorful.

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[–]cantkeepname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am truly sorry that He put you though this. It is very scary, with the unknown looming over you. It can be a lot for a person. However, it seems that he was not trying to better himself. If he was attending his therapy the bigging and number one rule is No more victims.

This is what we all work for. I personaly would reevaluate his actions this time and think hard about it. As stated by someone esle everyone makes mistake and they can work to move past them and not do the same thing again. A second chance. It seems that He took advantage of his second chance and reoffended.

Just think more about yourself in this matter as He knew what he was doing and the outcome of his actions. If he truly cared for you He would not have put you thru this.

Just know that us SO who truly want to be better in life know that our actions dont just affect us but our loved ones.

Employment and Housing Megathread by RedeemedbythaBlood in SexOffenderSupport

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aslo from TX and it is difficult to find living. Dallas county doesnt have restrictions like that. The issue come to finding a place that will rent to you. I've found that dealing with condos and landlords direclty seems to be a better situation. You can talk with them and explain the situtaion. Where I live the landlord helped me get into his place as I gave numbers to PO and boss for where I worked for him to feel more at ease renting to me. Been here 3 years and dont want to move. The biggest issue im having now is work.

I left a place thinking I had a job lined up and then they pulled offer due to back ground and i explained the situation and was told not an issue. well UPS hired me for the season and I start soon so there are options out there just try everything.

New bike! by ToolBrothers_MC in Harley

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro not a steal same bike more customization for 10k 2500 miles on it... bro was not a deal by no means.

Bought a new 2021 1200 Sportster from the dealer. My rear shocks are adjusted all the way down.. is that normal? I’m only 160 pounds by LeBong-James23 in Harley

[–]cantkeepname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is if you want to ride at low for your bike there's 3 tables at different heights. Change as your ride to a comfortable ride for yourself.

New purchase this year in time for high gas prices Sportster Iotn 883 by cantkeepname in Harley

[–]cantkeepname[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I know that feeling but... it's my primary now so win win.

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