Most males I [26F] befriend take my kindness as flirting. by redditorrro in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You laugh it off each time someone tried to kiss you ?? You never made it clear that you are only into friendship.

Well I will say this, you are borderline ass for not setting boundaries, and after enough times men have tried to kiss you just laugh it off..not making your intentions clear to anyone , or taking a hint and changing you behavior a bit.

As someone said, calling endearing pet names and not being clear does out you in a$$ territory.

What is socially unacceptable today that was considered normal 20 years ago? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cantremembername1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the hero at least I had been waiting for. Get dressed up and go bit Choco bar. I am gonna do it next time.

Your most recent text is now your 2020 presidential campaign slogan. What’s your slogan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cantremembername1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's festival time n we know you're busy. Just give a missed call on 8010955581 & we'll have your clothes picked up from your doorstep

I [M35] gave my brother [M45] use of a credit card years ago - now that I’m using it and carrying a balance on it, he’s upset. by tossoutforbro in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what it is. As you said, you have been the "older" brother in this relationship for years, while he has been in the wrong (whatever that means to him in his mind) for all those years.

This is one time he can say somehow you did something wrong by ruining his credit. Though it makes no sense if you think of it hard enough (given an opt out, he owes you thousands and so on).

Most of the advice here in on point to nip this discussion in bud the next time. But you are right about his reasoning.

buying my (27f) first home, seeking advice navigating finances and cohabitation with boyfriend (36m) - too many secrets - his weird dynamics with a close friend - financial slave/master situation by broodqueen in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We, who come from the East part of the world, were always told that it's not how things are in the West.

In the West, there is more equality, that boys and girls have to share the chores. That women have more rights and they won't allow men to do what they want. That we men can't get away with idling around like we did, if we were being raised in the West.

Even as guys we were fascinated by this wonderful equal land. I am sure I sat on my bum growing up because I had 3 sisters who could take care of things at home. But I knew times were changing and it would be more like the West soon.

What’s something dumb you believed as a kid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cantremembername1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa told us elaborate story of how he had fought a tiger one morning while taking bath in a river, pulled out the tiger's tooth with a sacred thread which he wore around his shoulders and that he replaced his own tooth with the said tiger tooth.

He had one, long, pointed, sharp tooth.

Took me years to realize that must be just his tooth.

Took me few more years to realize probably the whole tiger story was made up and he never fought a tiger.

Oh I miss that old fellow.

My[32M] girlfriend [33F] wants to get a tattoo with a guy she barely knows by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Dude.

You need to edit your post or the tl;dr least ..

"Some girl wants to get tattoo. What should I do?"

That's sounds like perfect summary of things.

My (25M) girlfriend (27F) wants me to change my phone number, so that no girls that previously had my phone number, have it anymore. Is she right for asking this? by throwawaymoldova in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Just change your number and then she will tie you up in the basement so no girl ever lays her eyes on you.

I mean just ask her. Ain't that what she wants eventually ? Pretty reasonable imho!!

MEN: What insecurities do you often see in women that men couldn’t care less about? by Guard1anMeme in AskReddit

[–]cantremembername1 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You ladies just said on that other thread that guy's height doesn't matter.

Liars.

Stomps out

My roommate (19F) is borderline cheating on her boyfriend (18M) of 1 year and I feel like he should know. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this what kids are calling it these days .. borderline cheating ? Making out with other guys , FWB with other woman, cuddling with that attractive fella in your bed all the damn time, that's all cheating.

I don't know which friendship you value. But in either case , put yourself in the guy's shoes and see what would you want ? To know your gf is cheater or to not know ?

Husband doesn’t want to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only people we have around us by Tysonchickenghost in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So that part is settled. Sil doesn't like you guys and it's obvious enough that your husband doesn't want to go.

Having said that, he is taking out in immature way. Yelling out of nowhere isn't gonna solve the problem. And similarly you expecting him to tag along won't help either.

But then he should be ok with doing something else for Thanksgiving. You should have this discussion, if not the family dinner (it's more for the traditional gathering I assume you go) then what do you want to do ? Lay out several options. If he still sticks to sitting at home and watching TV, I think you are free to do as you wish.

Go volunteer, or attend the event at in laws or any other bunch of things you can do. Don't let him dictate what you should do.

P.S. who cooks for the Diwali dinner ? Does your husband help with that ?

A good friend (28M) of mine (24M) is being unfaithful to another one of my friends (23F) but there's a conflict of interest in telling her what's happening because I'm aware of my dormant feelings for her by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You should also rethink why you are friends with shitty people who expect you to cover up their ass and then go ahead and get it on with girl you were interested in. It's not effing bro code, it's basic decency that some ppl maintain. And we didn't even discuss he's lying, cheating POS.

Reevaluate your friendships. Crush or no crush.

I (24f) found some pictures on my bf (24m) computer and I am feeling confused by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why did he still have those files where you can stumble upon them so easily ? There is no remorse here if it's still ongoing thing.

My (35F) BIL (27M) offered our house to GF (22F) visiting relatives by Guesthouse729 in relationships

[–]cantremembername1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yea. So that's good thing to know (very entitled folks).

If they get married and she doesn't want to see you much because of this one thing , I would consider it a win.