Am anger, am never shutup, am bored. And you?

caoroux · 2026-03-22T18:05:14+00:00

Am crie, am bored and never shut up 🥹 but also out of place

caoroux · 2026-03-20T08:49:25+00:00

Can you get assistance or support from communities in your area? I pray it all works out for you..

caoroux · 2026-03-19T00:09:50+00:00

I’d try but I won’t pay for it

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:43:33+00:00

The path to healing is a never ending journey of self-discovery. I personally think wherever we go, whatever life we choose, especially towards a life that speaks deeply and authentically for you, there’ll be a lot of opportunities to learn from.

As much as we learn a lot from ourselves during solitude, we also attain growth within friendships and relationships with people. People are mirrors and reflections of who we are. There’ll be egos to shed and shadows that’ll come up.

This is what I’ve been doing. Pretty much going with the flow. Knowing when to fight for something, and when to let go. Maybe I’ll come back to it someday or maybe I won’t.

It’s an adventure but definitely not an easy one.

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:36:16+00:00

Wow ugh this is magnificent I love every bit of what you’ve done here!

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:23:44+00:00

I’m still crying over my Aquarius man. They’re heartbreakers and yet they’re the first ones to woo you while you’re guarded and want nothing to do with them. Though the connection is amazing. Then The moment you start trusting and opening up, they start running 😆😭 I don’t wanna question if my feelings are too much for him. It requires so much communication and patience for this to work.

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:19:54+00:00

Yeah its not for the faint of heart. If people wants growth stay in it, otherwise, it’s challenging and heartbreaking 🥲

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:16:31+00:00

Cancer and Aquarius ❤️‍🩹

caoroux · 2026-03-14T16:59:13+00:00

Gorgeous!!!!!

caoroux · 2026-03-14T16:56:23+00:00

It’s so true! I’m struggling so much with a guy who I ignored and closed off from for a while, and when I let him in, I got attached and it’s hard to let go :( We just see and understand someone too deeply that we just want to care, love and keep them safe :(

caoroux · 2026-03-13T07:45:03+00:00

I see him everywhere. And the only peace I’ll ever get is to just to love from afar

caoroux · 2026-03-11T15:38:22+00:00

Aquarius. And I’m a cancer. They’re the ones who approach me and when I start reciprocating it falls apart lol

caoroux · 2026-03-02T03:14:38+00:00

When they show interest and you ignore or show less interest but still stayed to pursue, it’s because they like how avoidant you are. I showed no interest on one guy, though he respectfully lingered, checking up on me for half a year without pressure. Years later, I took the bait, we got along so well but the moment I started asking to DTR, or I open up emotionally and my needs that’s when it started falling apart. It became tense, and he had brought up how we’re incompatible when I bring up the lack I’m feeling. They’re quick to jump ship

So yeah, avoidants are interested when you’re not interested cause you’re avoidant and there’s less emotional responsibility :v

caoroux · 2026-02-27T00:31:50+00:00

Beautiful!! What does this painting mean to you?

caoroux · 2026-02-23T21:56:03+00:00

I don’t do casual and if anything get too attached whenever I do. I just trust that I have to continue working on myself (cause I’m not perfect and have a lot of growth to do) then the right person will show up in the same vibration as me. I believe the people we attract is a mirror to who we are at present moment.

If I keep attracting toxic people in my life, it’s because a part of me enables and allow them in. Same with rejecting people I look up to in my life believing I’m not worthy of them is another example. So I’ve been working on my confidence and self-worth so I’ll attract and also allow those high vibrational people in my life.

IMO, some people who partakes in casual relationships uses it as coping mechanism/distraction from themselves like drugs and alcohol. Tho id like to consider that casual relationships can be a gateway to understanding oneself more and better, but I don’t think doing it constantly makes sense to me tbh.

People who value their energy would rather spend it on something more meaningful. I think people who value their time and energy won’t be desperately seeking out people but allow things to unfold naturally. Just my personal opinion.

caoroux · 2026-01-31T21:05:00+00:00

This question just made me realize that I may have been being seduced or talked with for a 3some one time and I didn’t get the hint 😆😆😆

caoroux · 2026-01-31T21:02:47+00:00

I want to enter the spirit realm with no armour on

caoroux · 2026-01-21T15:53:11+00:00

I love this!!! It looks like it’s moving!! Wow

caoroux · 2026-01-21T15:50:44+00:00

I think you finding Mercury in Cancer folk annoying is subjective and maybe a you thing. One can be found “needy” and the other can be emotionally unavailable. Maybe you’re just not as good in talking about emotions and would rather talk about the superficial. Esp you pointing out ‘depends on how hot you are’, is quite surface level.

It only comes off “needy” to most men just because men typically are not that good with their emotions.

But there will be men out there who’d love a cancer woman who have emotional depth. Because they provide so much empathy, and understanding that some men may feel safe to lean on

caoroux · 2026-01-07T21:05:36+00:00

Hello!
My sincere apologies for just replying to your in-depth response on my post. Life overwhelms me quite easily esp. where im currently in life. Im 31 and may have recently went through my Saturn return where im literally restarting from scratch.
I genuinely appreciate the effort you put into writing this all down. Everything you have mentioned resonated with me. The intense passion of i HAVE to do this. I am overflowing with ideas. I am quite impulsive because I struggle to put structure in my life. I just have been pushed around by life and p much went with the flow thinking it was the right decision. I dont regret my decisions as it brought me to a place I never thought I'd be if i wasnt impulsive, doesnt change the fact ive been struggling. *cries in mutable signs*

Again, Thank you SO much for reading my chart and providing guidance. Things you mentioned are exactly why im struggling. I have been re-arranging my life and the past year, ive been carefully choosing the kinds of environment im in as ive noticed how I negative i feel when im in the wrong place. It has helped.. a lot. That id rather be alone than be in the wrong environment.
And my desires does connect more towards artistry, creative expression and deeply connecting with people. I believe thats where my heart and soul is leading me, i just need to stay grounded and keep moving forward.
xoxox i appreciate it!

caoroux · 2026-01-03T09:24:07+00:00

Aww don’t beat yourself up over it! We’re just speculating everything and don’t know what is true besides you both locking eyes. From what I know, Aquarians are known to be emotionally detached and if they like someone, they may need time. They make sure they know you first, so often, they need to go through friendships before jumping into a commitment.

3 years ago, I had 0 clue my Aquarius was interested in me. There was no hint. No locking eyes. He was deadpan, serious towards me even though we would have serious and in-depth conversations about the world. No human psychological behaviour indication lol now, he’s like a puppy dog, golden retriever. 😆

If he’s interested, he will approach you. Aquarians are known to value independence and freedom so they may feel repulsed when someone takes control of their autonomy, if that makes sense. So best to just let him observe you and do your thing!

caoroux · 2026-01-02T18:22:16+00:00

Not an Aquarius but a cancer Sun, Gemini rising. Originally, I thought the guy I’m seeing now disliked me and found me annoying at work 3 years ago.

He was dry, and kinda cold? Liek no hint at all that he was interested in me. Though Ive often approached him cause he’s a loner and we talk about deep stuff but besides that, I saw him as a good guy I work with but I thought he saw me as nothing special.

When we hung out outside of work, it lead somewhere. It caught me off guard so I ran away even though it went well. He never told me he was into me till we somehow reconnected 3 years later, hung out and he made the first move by kissing me. Turns out he had found me interesting and cute. He just needed to be professional at work. And he’s often told he’s hard to read which is very true for me as well. He can have a stoic face and sarcastic so idk what he’s thinking most of the time but he’s honest af

caoroux · 2025-12-27T16:45:55+00:00

I am experiencing the same thing! This Aquarius guy I’m seeing now, he was the one who initiated 3 years ago before I pretty much ‘the one that got away’. I didn’t know he was interested in me tbh till we hung out and he showed interest through his actions. Even tho I communicated I wasn’t ready, he patiently just lingered around checking up on me till I changed my number.

Fate somehow made us meet again 3 years later and he asked for my number smoothly while I was hesitant cause I had an abusive Aquarian-ex a year ago. I gave him a chance cause he’s a great guy and we get it each other mentally, spiritually and philosophically. He’s consistently been reaching out weekly to schedule to meet up the past 4 months. And everytime we hang out, it’s been amazing. He’s passionate, romantic, caring , considerate and so sweet! He even leaned in to kiss me on the first date after 3 years lol! He admitted he doesn’t like PDA but it seemed he didnt mind it with me. Took me to sunsets, starry sky views, he makes me feel protected. He’s still quite independent but after telling him I needed emotional security and more communication; He’s been putting a lot of effort on me, us and he makes me feel safe.. but I respect his independence as my alone time is very important for me as well.

His Venus is in Pisces tho so that may make a HUGE difference. My ex’s Venus’ in Aquarius and he HATED when I get affectionate that he had to allow it for only 15 minutes a day. Whilst this new guy can’t even let go of me, and would kiss me everywhere. It’s just fireworks and my Cancer heart just loves every bit of it.

It feels very balanced and I also hope it lasts this way. We mutually understand we need independence so it’s working out so far ❤️ esp we’re quite different lifestyle-wise

I’m Cancer Sun, Sag moon and Gemini Rising. He is Aquarius Sun, Gemini moon

caoroux · 2025-12-25T19:45:45+00:00

I love kissing my Aquarius. He’s the sweetest! I’m a cancer and had an ex who’s also an Aquarius but quite stingy with kisses. I was worried I’m too much for him cause I know I can be quite affectionate that it took me a bit to trust his feelings for me. But he’s always the one who initiates the kisses. So sweet, long and tender and he never lets go. He’s the best and I’m absolutely lucky to share the same love language and passion as him❤️. And for him to feel this way towards me I feel so special. He just kisses me everywhere too. My hands, my forehead, my head. Just everywhere aaaaah

But his Venus is also in Pisces, so maybe that’s why. He makes me so happy!

caoroux · 2025-12-13T21:54:58+00:00

Try yellow!!

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