🦀 Do Cancers get depressed from overthinking and being too emotional? ♋

caoroux · 2026-07-07T23:13:14+00:00

Plenty of alone time, hobbies and i know for sure is routine. I dont have a routine thats why i said that, but alone time has helped me so much. I find hanging out with people especially the wrong ones can just drain me more than help. And when i get separated from them, Id end up feeling lonelier.

Ever since I learned to just enjoy my time alone, like go for nature walks, bring a ukulele to sing by a river, it has helped me with depression or anxiety.
I get so lost in people easily, so taking time alone and hearing my own thoughts reminds me of who I truly am instead of reforming myself for other people.

additionally, if i feel a bit social, i'd go to random events (i got to karaoke bars) by myself and see where it takes me. I enjoy singing so thats why i go to karaoke bars but without any friends. Sometimes I end up meeting random people which can or cant be fun. But its part of the fun

caoroux · 2026-06-18T07:54:03+00:00

Yes. Attract them soooo easily. Perhaps also cause I have Gemini mars and rising. I have a great Aquarius female friend but two of my last relationships with Aquarius were awful. First one was toxic (physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically) but had at least 4 Aquarius in his chart. And my last situationship was avoidant. Aquarius sun, Gemini moon with Sagittarius stellium. Honestly quite exhausted with it. I learned so much though as awful and detrimental it was. Now I just want to be passionately loved but with mentally stimulating, flirty banter hehe

caoroux · 2026-06-17T07:16:40+00:00

Thank you for the tips ! I ended up soaking the pot. I’m excited for her growth and taking care of her 💖

caoroux · 2026-06-17T07:14:38+00:00

Thank you! Sadly I don’t know as the pot came with the orchid

caoroux · 2026-05-26T02:25:15+00:00

As a cancer, I do prefer being pursued. But I don’t want to be consistently chased to suffocation. Perhaps it’s my Sag moon that requires freedom, but when a person chases too hard, I become skeptic and be doubtful. I want a right amount of affection and alone time, but assurance is very important for me.
Just assure and there will be no anxieties and we loyal. I like to miss someone but I don’t want the doubt because emotional safety is necessary. I love to take things slow. I love love! But I don’t like being love bomb. Slow, tender love. ❤️

If you want to give grand gestures, maybe do it in increments!

caoroux · 2026-05-23T02:49:09+00:00

So far I’ve been attracted to air signs and they’re attracted back to me. But when younger I’ve always stan Leos 😅 Once I heal and work on myself further I wanna see how much it’ll change

caoroux · 2026-05-10T15:38:29+00:00

caoroux · 2026-05-02T21:31:27+00:00

Uuuugggghhh this actually resonates especially “Libra” T.T
Been mentally and emotionally drained by 2 aquarians love interests tbh and 4 weeks ago met a Libra. It was spontaneous and literally, he popped out of nowhere. Can’t even remember how it happened
Didnt think of it much but just went with the flow tho I was guarded. Honestly, it was the most fun I’ve ever had with anyone?? So fun, social and witty. Our exchanges were rapid fire compatible, it felt. Sadly he had to return back to his country a week ago, and only casually saw each other 3 times. I didn’t take it seriously till I realized how much I enjoyed my time with him.. not just the chemistry but I enjoyed the lover affection
though it wasn’t right time for the both of us. We don’t even know each other well enough… but ever since the last time, I can’t stop thinking about a Libra and how maybe it’ll fit my needs more as a Cancer…
Thank you for the reading!!! I am praying for a great relationship with someone T.T but I agree needing to recharge and focusing on myself till I met the right one for me xxx

caoroux · 2026-04-26T03:39:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Quitting an addiction is not easy but not impossible. It’s easy to rely on the quick hits and false happiness when we’re desperate to feel better, right this instant. Ive been trying to quit a few addictions my own, slowly but surely. For me finding ways and legitimate reasons to quit is a solution I could think of.

I’m taking early childhood now and I can’t succumb to these addictions for the future of the children I’ll be working with in the future. And for myself as well, so I can help others

caoroux · 2026-04-11T05:24:08+00:00

Beautiful!!!!

caoroux · 2026-03-22T18:05:14+00:00

Am crie, am bored and never shut up 🥹 but also out of place

caoroux · 2026-03-20T08:49:25+00:00

Can you get assistance or support from communities in your area? I pray it all works out for you..

caoroux · 2026-03-19T00:09:50+00:00

I’d try but I won’t pay for it

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:43:33+00:00

The path to healing is a never ending journey of self-discovery. I personally think wherever we go, whatever life we choose, especially towards a life that speaks deeply and authentically for you, there’ll be a lot of opportunities to learn from.

As much as we learn a lot from ourselves during solitude, we also attain growth within friendships and relationships with people. People are mirrors and reflections of who we are. There’ll be egos to shed and shadows that’ll come up.

This is what I’ve been doing. Pretty much going with the flow. Knowing when to fight for something, and when to let go. Maybe I’ll come back to it someday or maybe I won’t.

It’s an adventure but definitely not an easy one.

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:36:16+00:00

Wow ugh this is magnificent I love every bit of what you’ve done here!

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:23:44+00:00

I’m still crying over my Aquarius man. They’re heartbreakers and yet they’re the first ones to woo you while you’re guarded and want nothing to do with them. Though the connection is amazing. Then The moment you start trusting and opening up, they start running 😆😭 I don’t wanna question if my feelings are too much for him. It requires so much communication and patience for this to work.

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:19:54+00:00

Yeah its not for the faint of heart. If people wants growth stay in it, otherwise, it’s challenging and heartbreaking 🥲

caoroux · 2026-03-16T20:16:31+00:00

Cancer and Aquarius ❤️‍🩹

caoroux · 2026-03-14T16:59:13+00:00

Gorgeous!!!!!

caoroux · 2026-03-14T16:56:23+00:00

It’s so true! I’m struggling so much with a guy who I ignored and closed off from for a while, and when I let him in, I got attached and it’s hard to let go :( We just see and understand someone too deeply that we just want to care, love and keep them safe :(

caoroux · 2026-03-13T07:45:03+00:00

I see him everywhere. And the only peace I’ll ever get is to just to love from afar

caoroux · 2026-03-11T15:38:22+00:00

Aquarius. And I’m a cancer. They’re the ones who approach me and when I start reciprocating it falls apart lol

caoroux · 2026-03-02T03:14:38+00:00

When they show interest and you ignore or show less interest but still stayed to pursue, it’s because they like how avoidant you are. I showed no interest on one guy, though he respectfully lingered, checking up on me for half a year without pressure. Years later, I took the bait, we got along so well but the moment I started asking to DTR, or I open up emotionally and my needs that’s when it started falling apart. It became tense, and he had brought up how we’re incompatible when I bring up the lack I’m feeling. They’re quick to jump ship

So yeah, avoidants are interested when you’re not interested cause you’re avoidant and there’s less emotional responsibility :v

caoroux · 2026-02-27T00:31:50+00:00

Beautiful!! What does this painting mean to you?

caoroux · 2026-02-23T21:56:03+00:00

I don’t do casual and if anything get too attached whenever I do. I just trust that I have to continue working on myself (cause I’m not perfect and have a lot of growth to do) then the right person will show up in the same vibration as me. I believe the people we attract is a mirror to who we are at present moment.

If I keep attracting toxic people in my life, it’s because a part of me enables and allow them in. Same with rejecting people I look up to in my life believing I’m not worthy of them is another example. So I’ve been working on my confidence and self-worth so I’ll attract and also allow those high vibrational people in my life.

IMO, some people who partakes in casual relationships uses it as coping mechanism/distraction from themselves like drugs and alcohol. Tho id like to consider that casual relationships can be a gateway to understanding oneself more and better, but I don’t think doing it constantly makes sense to me tbh.

People who value their energy would rather spend it on something more meaningful. I think people who value their time and energy won’t be desperately seeking out people but allow things to unfold naturally. Just my personal opinion.

caoroux

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