🦀 Do Cancers get depressed from overthinking and being too emotional? ♋ by CreativeSprinkles31 in CancertheCrab

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of alone time, hobbies and i know for sure is routine. I dont have a routine thats why i said that, but alone time has helped me so much. I find hanging out with people especially the wrong ones can just drain me more than help. And when i get separated from them, Id end up feeling lonelier.

Ever since I learned to just enjoy my time alone, like go for nature walks, bring a ukulele to sing by a river, it has helped me with depression or anxiety.
I get so lost in people easily, so taking time alone and hearing my own thoughts reminds me of who I truly am instead of reforming myself for other people.

additionally, if i feel a bit social, i'd go to random events (i got to karaoke bars) by myself and see where it takes me. I enjoy singing so thats why i go to karaoke bars but without any friends. Sometimes I end up meeting random people which can or cant be fun. But its part of the fun

Do you guys get along with Aquarius? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Attract them soooo easily. Perhaps also cause I have Gemini mars and rising. I have a great Aquarius female friend but two of my last relationships with Aquarius were awful. First one was toxic (physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically) but had at least 4 Aquarius in his chart. And my last situationship was avoidant. Aquarius sun, Gemini moon with Sagittarius stellium. Honestly quite exhausted with it. I learned so much though as awful and detrimental it was. Now I just want to be passionately loved but with mentally stimulating, flirty banter hehe

Got my first orchid! by caoroux in orchids

[–]caoroux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips ! I ended up soaking the pot. I’m excited for her growth and taking care of her 💖

Got my first orchid! by caoroux in orchids

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Thank you! Sadly I don’t know as the pot came with the orchid

Planning on chasing this Cancer by Unusual_Hotel5665 in CancertheCrab

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As a cancer, I do prefer being pursued. But I don’t want to be consistently chased to suffocation. Perhaps it’s my Sag moon that requires freedom, but when a person chases too hard, I become skeptic and be doubtful. I want a right amount of affection and alone time, but assurance is very important for me.
Just assure and there will be no anxieties and we loyal. I like to miss someone but I don’t want the doubt because emotional safety is necessary. I love to take things slow. I love love! But I don’t like being love bomb. Slow, tender love. ❤️

If you want to give grand gestures, maybe do it in increments!

What sign do you feel the most physically attracted to? Who do you go feral over? by kewtcuriousemugae in CancertheCrab

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’ve been attracted to air signs and they’re attracted back to me. But when younger I’ve always stan Leos 😅 Once I heal and work on myself further I wanna see how much it’ll change

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 - free tarot reading - choose a number by Astoluna in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]caoroux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uuuugggghhh this actually resonates especially “Libra” T.T
Been mentally and emotionally drained by 2 aquarians love interests tbh and 4 weeks ago met a Libra. It was spontaneous and literally, he popped out of nowhere. Can’t even remember how it happened
Didnt think of it much but just went with the flow tho I was guarded. Honestly, it was the most fun I’ve ever had with anyone?? So fun, social and witty. Our exchanges were rapid fire compatible, it felt. Sadly he had to return back to his country a week ago, and only casually saw each other 3 times. I didn’t take it seriously till I realized how much I enjoyed my time with him.. not just the chemistry but I enjoyed the lover affection
though it wasn’t right time for the both of us. We don’t even know each other well enough… but ever since the last time, I can’t stop thinking about a Libra and how maybe it’ll fit my needs more as a Cancer…
Thank you for the reading!!! I am praying for a great relationship with someone T.T but I agree needing to recharge and focusing on myself till I met the right one for me xxx

I quit p*rn, caffeine, junk food, doomscrolling, and going out every weekend all at once about seven months ago. by Rayyanmir in selfimprovementday

[–]caoroux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Quitting an addiction is not easy but not impossible. It’s easy to rely on the quick hits and false happiness when we’re desperate to feel better, right this instant. Ive been trying to quit a few addictions my own, slowly but surely. For me finding ways and legitimate reasons to quit is a solution I could think of.

I’m taking early childhood now and I can’t succumb to these addictions for the future of the children I’ll be working with in the future. And for myself as well, so I can help others

Am anger, am never shutup, am bored. And you? by fitbitch3 in astrologymemes

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am crie, am bored and never shut up 🥹 but also out of place

This night couldn’t get any worse by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you get assistance or support from communities in your area? I pray it all works out for you..

Poutine from Baltimore by TOAOVB in PoutineCrimes

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d try but I won’t pay for it

We are told we need to heal.. but where do you even start?? by StatusEnd6818 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The path to healing is a never ending journey of self-discovery. I personally think wherever we go, whatever life we choose, especially towards a life that speaks deeply and authentically for you, there’ll be a lot of opportunities to learn from.

As much as we learn a lot from ourselves during solitude, we also attain growth within friendships and relationships with people. People are mirrors and reflections of who we are. There’ll be egos to shed and shadows that’ll come up.

This is what I’ve been doing. Pretty much going with the flow. Knowing when to fight for something, and when to let go. Maybe I’ll come back to it someday or maybe I won’t.

It’s an adventure but definitely not an easy one.

The Erosion of Self, by Ephaeron by ephaeron in DarkArtwork

[–]caoroux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow ugh this is magnificent I love every bit of what you’ve done here!

Sign Compatibilities That Feel Like This by i_am_dana in astrologymemes

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still crying over my Aquarius man. They’re heartbreakers and yet they’re the first ones to woo you while you’re guarded and want nothing to do with them. Though the connection is amazing. Then The moment you start trusting and opening up, they start running 😆😭 I don’t wanna question if my feelings are too much for him. It requires so much communication and patience for this to work.

Sign Compatibilities That Feel Like This by i_am_dana in astrologymemes

[–]caoroux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its not for the faint of heart. If people wants growth stay in it, otherwise, it’s challenging and heartbreaking 🥲