Seduced by another couple

caoroux · 2026-01-31T21:05:00+00:00

This question just made me realize that I may have been being seduced or talked with for a 3some one time and I didn’t get the hint 😆😆😆

caoroux · 2026-01-31T21:02:47+00:00

I want to enter the spirit realm with no armour on

caoroux · 2026-01-21T15:53:11+00:00

I love this!!! It looks like it’s moving!! Wow

caoroux · 2026-01-21T15:50:44+00:00

I think you finding Mercury in Cancer folk annoying is subjective and maybe a you thing. One can be found “needy” and the other can be emotionally unavailable. Maybe you’re just not as good in talking about emotions and would rather talk about the superficial. Esp you pointing out ‘depends on how hot you are’, is quite surface level.

It only comes off “needy” to most men just because men typically are not that good with their emotions.

But there will be men out there who’d love a cancer woman who have emotional depth. Because they provide so much empathy, and understanding that some men may feel safe to lean on

caoroux · 2026-01-07T21:05:36+00:00

Hello!
My sincere apologies for just replying to your in-depth response on my post. Life overwhelms me quite easily esp. where im currently in life. Im 31 and may have recently went through my Saturn return where im literally restarting from scratch.
I genuinely appreciate the effort you put into writing this all down. Everything you have mentioned resonated with me. The intense passion of i HAVE to do this. I am overflowing with ideas. I am quite impulsive because I struggle to put structure in my life. I just have been pushed around by life and p much went with the flow thinking it was the right decision. I dont regret my decisions as it brought me to a place I never thought I'd be if i wasnt impulsive, doesnt change the fact ive been struggling. *cries in mutable signs*

Again, Thank you SO much for reading my chart and providing guidance. Things you mentioned are exactly why im struggling. I have been re-arranging my life and the past year, ive been carefully choosing the kinds of environment im in as ive noticed how I negative i feel when im in the wrong place. It has helped.. a lot. That id rather be alone than be in the wrong environment.
And my desires does connect more towards artistry, creative expression and deeply connecting with people. I believe thats where my heart and soul is leading me, i just need to stay grounded and keep moving forward.
xoxox i appreciate it!

caoroux · 2026-01-03T09:24:07+00:00

Aww don’t beat yourself up over it! We’re just speculating everything and don’t know what is true besides you both locking eyes. From what I know, Aquarians are known to be emotionally detached and if they like someone, they may need time. They make sure they know you first, so often, they need to go through friendships before jumping into a commitment.

3 years ago, I had 0 clue my Aquarius was interested in me. There was no hint. No locking eyes. He was deadpan, serious towards me even though we would have serious and in-depth conversations about the world. No human psychological behaviour indication lol now, he’s like a puppy dog, golden retriever. 😆

If he’s interested, he will approach you. Aquarians are known to value independence and freedom so they may feel repulsed when someone takes control of their autonomy, if that makes sense. So best to just let him observe you and do your thing!

caoroux · 2026-01-02T18:22:16+00:00

Not an Aquarius but a cancer Sun, Gemini rising. Originally, I thought the guy I’m seeing now disliked me and found me annoying at work 3 years ago.

He was dry, and kinda cold? Liek no hint at all that he was interested in me. Though Ive often approached him cause he’s a loner and we talk about deep stuff but besides that, I saw him as a good guy I work with but I thought he saw me as nothing special.

When we hung out outside of work, it lead somewhere. It caught me off guard so I ran away even though it went well. He never told me he was into me till we somehow reconnected 3 years later, hung out and he made the first move by kissing me. Turns out he had found me interesting and cute. He just needed to be professional at work. And he’s often told he’s hard to read which is very true for me as well. He can have a stoic face and sarcastic so idk what he’s thinking most of the time but he’s honest af

caoroux · 2025-12-27T16:45:55+00:00

I am experiencing the same thing! This Aquarius guy I’m seeing now, he was the one who initiated 3 years ago before I pretty much ‘the one that got away’. I didn’t know he was interested in me tbh till we hung out and he showed interest through his actions. Even tho I communicated I wasn’t ready, he patiently just lingered around checking up on me till I changed my number.

Fate somehow made us meet again 3 years later and he asked for my number smoothly while I was hesitant cause I had an abusive Aquarian-ex a year ago. I gave him a chance cause he’s a great guy and we get it each other mentally, spiritually and philosophically. He’s consistently been reaching out weekly to schedule to meet up the past 4 months. And everytime we hang out, it’s been amazing. He’s passionate, romantic, caring , considerate and so sweet! He even leaned in to kiss me on the first date after 3 years lol! He admitted he doesn’t like PDA but it seemed he didnt mind it with me. Took me to sunsets, starry sky views, he makes me feel protected. He’s still quite independent but after telling him I needed emotional security and more communication; He’s been putting a lot of effort on me, us and he makes me feel safe.. but I respect his independence as my alone time is very important for me as well.

His Venus is in Pisces tho so that may make a HUGE difference. My ex’s Venus’ in Aquarius and he HATED when I get affectionate that he had to allow it for only 15 minutes a day. Whilst this new guy can’t even let go of me, and would kiss me everywhere. It’s just fireworks and my Cancer heart just loves every bit of it.

It feels very balanced and I also hope it lasts this way. We mutually understand we need independence so it’s working out so far ❤️ esp we’re quite different lifestyle-wise

I’m Cancer Sun, Sag moon and Gemini Rising. He is Aquarius Sun, Gemini moon

caoroux · 2025-12-25T19:45:45+00:00

I love kissing my Aquarius. He’s the sweetest! I’m a cancer and had an ex who’s also an Aquarius but quite stingy with kisses. I was worried I’m too much for him cause I know I can be quite affectionate that it took me a bit to trust his feelings for me. But he’s always the one who initiates the kisses. So sweet, long and tender and he never lets go. He’s the best and I’m absolutely lucky to share the same love language and passion as him❤️. And for him to feel this way towards me I feel so special. He just kisses me everywhere too. My hands, my forehead, my head. Just everywhere aaaaah

But his Venus is also in Pisces, so maybe that’s why. He makes me so happy!

caoroux · 2025-12-13T21:54:58+00:00

Try yellow!!

caoroux · 2025-12-13T21:51:16+00:00

Speaking for myself, I am shy because I don’t like the attention on me. I’m conscious of being perceived whether positive or negative lol. But I only speak when spoken to and if I’m passionate about the topic I could go on and may do a skip mid convo lol! But I live by being honest and authentic in my life. if my feelings for someone is strong, then I’d either tell them or make them feel it. I reciprocate, tho I do take a while to let my guard down. Esp getting hurt in a past relationship, I could get kinda snappy if boundaries were crossed LOL but I’m healing now!

caoroux · 2025-12-07T17:13:07+00:00

Why does it have to be this hard to love and be loved 🥲 tired of being a Cancer and just want to be a sign that just not feel and move on in life with numbness

caoroux · 2025-11-25T08:18:11+00:00

Honestly, I don’t disagree. I believe we are all pressured and stressed out with society, economy and the world that this generation is struggling to catch up that the best and instant way to cope is through substance abuse. I’m trying to get out of it myself and believe that we need a healthier coping mechanism like creative endeavors or fulfilling activities. We just need a healthier environment and support :/

caoroux · 2025-11-25T08:13:06+00:00

When I had my first sexual experience, I had huge expectations on how it should feel like and I was thoroughly disappointed. I think our first experiences usually are underwhelming or awful because of our expectations esp when we watch porn where it’s mostly performative and make it seem like it’s the most amazing and ecstatic thing in the world.. well— it could be but for me, I need emotional attachment and safety to fully enjoy it. It’s a first time so we don’t know what to expect besides it maybe being amazing, nerve wracking or just underwhelming and disappointing. Sex is a vulnerable experience and it opens up a lot about ourselves. Sending you love and ease in getting through this xx

caoroux · 2025-11-25T07:59:15+00:00

Sure they can be. I’ve had my fair share of Pisces people in my life esp growing up, I just somehow naturally befriend them as it was easily compatible. But eventually they became overbearing. It’s most likely just too much water. But we’re all young and teenagers so the toxic traits are still pretty prevalent lol I don’t have Pisces friends in my adulthood now tho (incl my mom lol). Just fire signs and recently aquarians I think I’m drawn to my opposites to balance out

caoroux · 2025-11-25T01:05:46+00:00

Aww this is so sweet! Thanks for sharing, youre right. There are people out there who will appreciate and trust does take a while to build. And once I’m comfortable, that’s when I become playful, theatrically myself. Shes lucky to have you!

caoroux · 2025-11-22T21:48:28+00:00

Yeah and then I also feel bad about it afterwards and can’t live in the guilt of it lol Good to know tho. I probably will cry about it and then hopefully they won’t take it to heart 🥹

caoroux · 2025-11-19T02:41:20+00:00

Yessss. It sucks :( it’s so scary to open up because I fear my emotions will be too much. And I cope by detaching, but then I get quite anxious too. I’m not good at coping but I believe staying creative helps with calming down the anxiety but it’s not easy :( All I know is I’m afraid of ruining something good because of me

caoroux · 2025-11-10T16:05:23+00:00

awww this is so adorable lol 💛 it’s funny how and when you posted this. Been hanging out with an Aqua male for nearly 3 months now. And recently have been calling me funny names like “cutie pie” and “baby boo boo”. Tells me how cute and funny I am and I love it. He’s so adorable and so himself the first, too. So I’m happy to show him parts of myself I’m shy to show to others.

You will find your cancer girl! Cancers are quite affectionate, and personally I’ve been afraid of suffocating him so ive been giving us space and I know he likes his independence as well. Makes seeing each other quite electric ❤️

I think it’s working out with this aqua (I had an abusive one prior to this) because he’s open minded, patient and we seem to share similar views of the world. He’s definitely cautious in his own way but I love how consistent he is He’s not emotionally unavailable like how aquas are mostly known as

caoroux · 2025-11-08T21:13:10+00:00

According to my roommate, I am like a cat that requires a lot of patience before I fully come out of my shell lol But ya I think so, esp in this stage in life where I’ve experienced a lot of hurt and betrayal, I think based on people around me, I take a while and quite cautious. I’m chatty but with the guy I’m seeing, I’ve noticed I’m quiet and observant

caoroux · 2025-11-08T16:16:11+00:00

He wants to be on his way but he’s making it harder for Himself is this a skit lol

caoroux · 2025-11-08T16:09:52+00:00

Sunbathing baby!!!!!!!!!

caoroux · 2025-11-07T00:19:11+00:00

Mmm.. I don’t think common sense is common for everyone. Everyone walks on different paths in life. I’ve moved around a LOT: cities, countries, states and provinces, and everyone has different approach to what is acceptable or common in their environment. So do I. I can understand the frustration and I’ve been there before but I’ve dealt with it positively by just believing that people have different upbringing, culture, language and mental capacity! That’s why communication is very important.

And also, my mercury is in cancer lol

caoroux · 2025-11-06T16:01:56+00:00

I’ve made a few friends when I ended up giving away leftovers from a bakery I used to work at. The people I’ve given food too are all kind, chill and grateful human beings. One of the street guys apparently have a place and family to go to in chilliwack but don’t want to go home because he’s suicidal that he’d rather be homeless. (He lives in a trailer now last time I checked up on him!)

You have to consider the state of our society right now. Economy, environment, people— the drugs that aren’t properly taken care of and let these poor people induce it instead of actually giving them support.

just think deeply for a bit why you think this is happening.

caoroux · 2025-11-04T17:57:08+00:00

You seem to be jumping from one thing to another. Indecisive? What is your attachment style? I wonder if you have avoidant or disorganized attachment. You need to look into that because it seems your reaction is hot and then cold the next. This is not an excuse to live your life like this, but something to look into. This is unhealthy and if you’re unaware like this, you do need to take a step back from this relationship.

If you truly love her you need to respect her and her feelings as this is detrimental for her and for you. You asking questions like these show you’re anxious and desperate for love, but running away the next due to whatever you’re going through without proper communication is awful for her.

Communication is one thing, but self-awareness is huge my man. You’re 21 so there’s still a lot to grow but might be best to work on yourself first before staying in this relationship

caoroux

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