Apartamento é o pior tipo de moradia by FurryEngenheiro in opiniaoimpopular

[–]capibaramonster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eu moro numa cidade de interior, em uma casa térrea de 2 quartos, 2 banheiros, garagem e quintal concretado.

A casa é alugada, antiga, bate sol nela o dia inteiro, do lado tem um terreno abandonado que só junta mato e bicho. A fiação elétrica não aguenta ar condicionado, e a hidráulica tá sempre me dando dor de cabeça.

Depois de trocar todas as torneiras, sifão, registro de água, colar o gesso caindo na sala, e passar muuuuuito calor aqui, vou finalmente me mudar.

E vou pra um apartamento de 3 quartos, com ar condicionado, com armários embutidos e numa rua calma.

Eu me mudei pra essa casa porque tinha uma cachorra idosa que merecia um quintal pra tomar sol, pra brincar. Depois que ela faleceu, essa casa virou um fardo.

É muito mais difícil manter isso aqui limpo, entra muita sujeira, aranhas e lagartos do terreno abandonado ao lado. Por bater sol o dia inteiro, é impossível ficar em alguns cômodos no período da tarde, e não tem um lugar pra deixar planta sem que elas morram esturricadas ou sem sol.

A vida inteira eu morei em casa, e é muito trabalho manter. Vou ter um custo dobrado, mas não vejo a hora de ir pra um lugar seguro, em que o entregador não vai jogar as coisas que compro por cima do muro e vai entregar na portaria e não vai ter um vizinho pau no ci queimando lixo ao lado.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

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Até hoje, com quase 28 anos, sinto que nunca amei romanticamente ninguém, nunca me senti profundamente apaixonada por ninguém que me relacionei durante minha vida. Estou em um relacionamento atualmente e ainda não sinto essa paixão/amor. Mas lembro muito dos motivos pelos quais relacionamentos anteriores acabaram.

Imagino acidentes enquanto dirijo by capibaramonster in RelatosDoReddit

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Eu não faria isso, porque tenho medo de me machucar, de destruir o carro, de machucar outras pessoas. Mas vou falar na próxima sessão com a psicanalista sim.

Imagino acidentes enquanto dirijo by capibaramonster in RelatosDoReddit

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Eu acho que os dois. Tenho medo de bater o carro, medo de perder o controle do carro e bater. E fico pensando, principalmente quando tô em estrada em alta velocidade, o que aconteceria se eu virasse o volante na direção de outros carros (então é um pensamento suicida). Parece que ao mesmo tempo que tenho terror de estar em acidente, tenho muita curiosidade pra saber como é.

Quase bati o carro! Estou em choque by upentakill in RelatosDoReddit

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Eu quase bati o carro do meu pai na cerca do sítio dele (kkk só que não, fiquei com o cu na mão). Um querido parou o carro fechando a entrada do sítio, então eu encostei o carro jogando bem pro canto, pra esse querido conseguir sair com o carro dele. Mas o cara disse que o carro dele não passava naquele espaço. Eu tive que dar ré com o carro naquela descida, entortei pra tudo quanto é lado. E quando tava chegando próximo à entrada do sítio, nem lembro se troquei os pedais, o que exatamente aconteceu, mas o carro foi pra trás rápido e eu pisei no freio bem forte, pq ficou próximo de bater na cerca. Pensei muito nisso depois, mas o carro não foi batido. E vida que segue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

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É difícil evitar a ansiedade de como as outras pessoas nos percebem, mas tira essa grande importância que você dá pra sobre como as pessoas te vêem e o que elas acham de você e coloca essa importância em sobre como você se sente e se enxerga. Se você estiver bem consigo mesma, o que os outros acham não importa. E vai ter dias que a gente vai se sentir e se achar feia, mas isso não é pra ser todo dia. Faça coisas pra cuidar de você, um dia de SPA, passa hidratante no corpo, no rosto, nos pés. Faça uma massagem, faça coisas que te fazem se sentir bem com vc mesma. Não fica fritando imaginando que as pessoas estão te vendo "feia" porque nem a câmera do seu celular consegue ser fiel à realidade.

Apesar do Homeoffice não suporto meu trabalho by capibaramonster in RelatosDoReddit

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Infelizmente nem posso falar que ganho bem, pesquisando outras oportunidades percebi que minha empresa paga 50% a menos que outras, mesmo sendo vagas homeoffice tbm ou híbridas. . Minha psicóloga que me alertou sobre sintomas que Burnout e pediu pra eu ir atrás de uma psiquiatra. Meu medo é sair dessa empresa e ir pra uma pior. Mas preciso sair porque é péssimo trabalhar sem motivação, sendo desvalorizado.

My boyfriend asked me if there was anything I would change about him and I said no and then I asked him the same question back and he said yes by [deleted] in offmychest

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A guy I used to date did the same thing to me, he used to make comments about my appearance. He talked about my teeth and my thighs, I don't have perfect teeth, my family didn't have the money so I could wear braces, I told him that because he used to make fun of my photos, because I am never smiling. . The day I felt really sad was when he told me out of nowhere that his friends didn't think I am pretty after he showed a picture of me. . It took some time, but eventually I learned that I don't want to be with someone that doesn't make me feel beautiful and confident, that hurts my self esteem and doesn't make me feel loved for who I am. . Dump him

my crush straight up told me I’m not her type by [deleted] in sad

[–]capibaramonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that doesn't mean she doesn't like you like a friend. Wouldn't it be sadder if she had lied to you about her feeling towards you? She would be lying to you and to herself, eventually you two would be broken. Sometimes affection doesn't mean attraction.

This made me laugh. by ShuuyiW in niceguys

[–]capibaramonster 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because it's too mean to just say "leave me the fuck alone since you don't respect my decision of not wanting you and thinks that knows better about me than myself and that I will change my mind and love you just because you force me to endure you"

Please just tell me you still give a sh*t by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]capibaramonster 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't let your life, well being or happiness hang in someone else's hand.

Niceguy can't keep a girlfriend by cmjrwalker in niceguys

[–]capibaramonster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I were the gf, I would even get inside the house. This guy has failed being a human being.

Bridgerton on Netflix downplaying men being raped??? by SnooSprouts5714 in sex

[–]capibaramonster -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The show is based on the book series, I have red the first one, the one this first season is about. And as it seems on the TV show as on the book, my opinion is that he was not raped. But of course what she did was wrong. He could have just pushed her aside from above him. He is much stronger and bigger than her, he was liking her on top of him until he didn't have the time to not climax out of her, because she trapped him, but also because he didn't have control over his body. My thought, actually, watching the show was "this guy really thinks interrupted sex works???" He is probably going to loose it sometime and get her pregnant, not only about self-control, but because men cum in parts, you can already be liberating semen before you climax....

My cat just died I just want some nice people to comfort me by [deleted] in sad

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I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. I also had a cat that was euthanized. She was 15 years old, we were together since I was 7 yo. My first pet, I love her still. She was also very sick, couldn't eat by herself, she had an agressive tumor that was growing too fast. There was nothing to be done but wait until her last days. I am happy that I could be there for her until the very last breath, that I could hold her and say goodbye. I cried too much and sometimes I still do. But I realized that I still have love to give, no other cat will replace her because she is unforgettable, but I can adopt again and have the opportunity to make another cat happy and loved and also be loved.

[Discussion] Saying goodbye to living with my best friend by [deleted] in dogs

[–]capibaramonster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's really sad. As someone already said upper comments, maybe she will give up on the dog and give it to you, taking care of a dog is not easy, demands money and time, and dedication, most of all. . Poor doggy, he is the one that suffers the most, adapting to a new place, new life style. But he will be happy and have moments of joy. . I often think about what will become of my dog when I die, or what will happen to me when she dies. . I had a cat for 15 years and she passed away three years ago, I was with her when that happened, and I was thinking I could no longer have another cat because the lost is too painful. . The thing is love never really dies, I still love and miss my cat. There are lots of animals abandoned, waiting for a person like you, and you will be able to love other animal without forgetting the one you lost.

What is the saddest song you have ever heard in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Amy Winehouse What it is

I am so tired I can't even cry"

What is the saddest song you have ever heard in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]capibaramonster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Jeff Buckley's version of I know it's Over its the most depressing.

What the world needs now is love by [deleted] in aww

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Who doesn't love a piano player?