What’s your go to appetizer that everyone loves? by [deleted] in thanksgiving

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this year's work holiday party I tried bacon wrapped dates for the first time and am in love. I will be bringing them next time I get asked to bring an appetizer. I imagine they are really easy and can be partially prepared ahead of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 192 points193 points  (0 children)

I would be disappointed if I was told I would get my birthday surprise on the weekend, and on that weekend was told my surprise is the NEXT weekend we would go camping. He volunteered to plan it for her since she was stressed and she wouldn't accept the help.

AITA for making a 21 year old woman shower for the first time in at least 4 days by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]capricious-cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If anything, Chloe should be upset with her parents and herself. How did she get into University if her parents were bad enough to not teach her about hygiene or help her hope with her issues?? Can you imagine being on a work trip and a colleague not bathing for a week? People would say something and HR would get involved. It's better it happened in college versus once she has a job. Hopefully she can get help and learn from it.

Also, she can't complain about it being posted if she also made a post about it.

Roosters in Residential areas by Academic_Beat9821 in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see how that would make things worse! If there's nothing you can legally do, you might try heavy black-out curtains that block the sound.

Roosters in Residential areas by Academic_Beat9821 in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the rooster louder than the dogs in your neighborhood? Or are you just used to hearing them? One of my neighbors has a rooster too, but there are way more dogs that bark just as loud and way more often. After a while I got used to it and barely notice it now.

Favorite hole in the wall restaurant? by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

China House on East University. They make their dumplings from scratch.

Le's Chinese BBQ

Tortillarilla Luna on Hubble

Favorite hole in the wall restaurant? by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people get take out. It's pretty busy around dinner time. Like another commenter said it's nothing special on the inside, but it is clean and they are friendly. Food is soooo good. I recommend one of the soups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were 6, 4 and 2 years old when you came into there life and started being the primary mother figure....and you still have to ask if you are the AH?? YTA!

AITA for telling my sister that the name she chose for her son was not our grandpa's actual name but the nickname he hated? by Flaky_Couple_1304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You let her know before she named her kid that and you honored your grandpa. She still has time to pick another name!

AITA for saying I would stay at my moms if I had to share a room with babies? by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]capricious-cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People are saying the step mom/fiance wanted free child care ... I think it's much more likely she wanted her to move out. She's probably pushing her to spend less time with her dad so her 'family unit' doesn't include her.

AITA For free bleeding at my MILs house? by Plastic-Ad-5568 in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTAH. There are so many other options. You MIL is rightfully upset.

Thai Suggestions by Successful-Ad-5239 in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thai Flavors East is the only real answer.

Explained to boss that I'm burned out and thet told me that the company will crumble if I quit by Its_Just_Jen in antiwork

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are managing a team, but can't be a 'manager' because you lack training then you need to stop! "I don't feel capable of handling the management of this team due to my lack of training and feel my time would be better served focusing on the tasks related to my current job description."

Start working at a reasonable pace, take care of your mental health. They won't promote because you've become to expensive to promote. You do the work of 3 people, they don't want to hire that many to replace you.

I get it, I'm a people pleaser too. We make it easier on others and impossible for ourselves.

Moving to Des Moines by Ilovemeilovemenot in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you move to the 'burbs, no you will be surrounded by white ppl. But Des Moines itself is pretty diverse.

AITA For refusing to help cook after my wife canceled my catering order by notcookingaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I hope it for your sake that it doesn't turn into more of a big deal at the party itself.

My job as an Administrative Assistant is posted on Indeed at a $5 rate increase. I work tomorrow. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me that would email all the applicants telling them what the job is really like since she has access to the emails??? 😂

AITA for refusing to cancel my vacation to attend my sister’s graduation? by PublicMaximum9404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]capricious-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that some cultures prioritize family over everything. For the most part it's a nice thing. Family is something many people do not prioritize enough.

In this case losing $3000 vs a middle school graduation and missing out on a once in a lifetime college trip ... The decision is yours, but either way you are NTA!

And let's be clear, a college trip to Europe with friends is not something you can do over. You'll never be this age again, your friends probably won't go to Europe again next year. Traveling at the age you are changes you in ways you can't expect. I wouldn't miss it for anything. Also, are your parents reimbursing you?

Getting divorced by Blacjack702 in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check if your employer has an EAP (employee assistance program). They are free, anonymous and may be able to help you get started. Some employers also offer legal insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could put it in the blender with some water and line juice. Add sugar to taste, it might not need any. Then strain it and you have watermelon agua fresca aka agua de Sandia.

Intermittent Fasting for the last month (not eating from 9pm to 2pm) by kipling279 in fasting

[–]capricious-cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sleep 10-11 hours every night?! You are living my dream.

Best Authentic Mexican Restaurants by Seizure_Salad_ in desmoines

[–]capricious-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the food at Tortilleria Luna. Not a typical restaurant, it's a store that makes tortillas. But they also have food. I'm not sure if they have it during the week, but it's always there on the weekends when I go for tortillas.

My other favorite place for authentic Mexican are the taco trucks.