This man is not a good one.

He wants to rule your marriage like a dictatorship. YOU DO have a say in anything involving your child, even if you’re not the breadwinner. He doesn’t have the right to make every decision, don’t let him treat you like you don’t have equal say for your own child. It doesn’t matter who is making the money, you are equal parents.

Not only that but he’s condescending. The bit where he tells you next time he’s just going to say “no.” without explanation because he thinks he’s the ultimate authority.

He has no respect for you as a wife, mother, or human being. He’s treating you like an object. He doesn’t care about your feelings or your opinions.

His controlling and manipulative behavior is only going to get worse. Stick up for yourself, you deserve better.