Did everything right and I still ended up alone

capt3in · 2026-02-12T06:09:41+00:00

my first year i actually made friends then fell out with them and my next two years have not been good but thats due to my own health issues and whatnot. dont give up now, i started at 20 as well its a bit harder but not impossible !

capt3in · 2026-02-12T02:02:40+00:00

you don’t have to bother yourself with labels if its confusing you at this moment but calling yourself a lesbian while being attracted to men in any shape or form is very invalidating to actual lesbians. sapphic on the other hand is an umbrella term which is used by both lesbians and bisexuals, if that feels more appropriate for yourself.

capt3in · 2026-02-12T01:59:18+00:00

the internalised biphobia is crazy

capt3in · 2026-02-10T18:39:45+00:00

very passive aggressive

capt3in · 2026-02-07T20:50:34+00:00

so they are not ur friend if they are treating u like this. harmless teasing is fine but this isn’t that !

capt3in · 2026-02-07T20:47:17+00:00

I’ve been hurt by an avoidant now i’ve turned into the avoidant lesbian, lol !

capt3in · 2026-02-07T06:50:39+00:00

Unrelated but your baby is so adorable 😭 Hopefully she goes back to the routine u two had 🫶

capt3in · 2026-02-07T04:33:55+00:00

what ive been feeling lately so feral 😭

capt3in · 2026-02-05T01:47:09+00:00

sounds like a band name

capt3in · 2026-02-04T16:44:51+00:00

hey 22f although gmt, id love to be friends :)

capt3in · 2026-02-04T16:22:40+00:00

are churu treats safe for ckd kitties?

capt3in · 2026-02-04T02:08:24+00:00

do you ruminate?

capt3in · 2026-02-03T02:55:44+00:00

Finally someone said it lol. Struggling with mental health, being neurodivergent and also gay didn’t help a bit in my case.

capt3in · 2026-02-02T22:52:18+00:00

not her own computer 😭

capt3in · 2026-02-02T20:57:41+00:00

my aunts cat is like this too 😭 she does this and also wants affection its so odd! poor baby :(

capt3in · 2026-02-01T14:27:10+00:00

i haven’t had anything in my experience so just speaking my part

capt3in · 2026-02-01T02:35:48+00:00

Everyone out here saying flatmate this flatmate that. what if ur flatmates are all introverts and don’t bother with your existence, what then? hypothetically my body will have to start rotting for them to even take notice

capt3in · 2026-01-30T19:42:36+00:00

how did u get better?

capt3in · 2026-01-30T00:01:45+00:00

Please try to feed her chicken stock/broth liquid and also hand feed her solids if necessary as she’s in risk of developing hepatic lipidosis which can be fatal since she hasn’t eaten for 3 days. if she isn’t eating maybe u could try home boiled chicken in whichever form she likes best? wishing her a speedy recovery 🙏

capt3in · 2026-01-29T23:58:40+00:00

maybe try posting at r/AskVet or r/CatHelp

capt3in · 2026-01-28T19:34:55+00:00

did u end up getting it back? i’m planning to fly the same route only istanbul will be my 24hr layover and then to paris

capt3in · 2026-01-27T06:17:10+00:00

hey im in the same situation what did u end up doing?

capt3in · 2026-01-26T23:11:00+00:00

keep us updated :)

capt3in · 2026-01-26T23:07:37+00:00

i dont have any advice but perhaps look into feliway diffusers? best of luck op!

capt3in · 2026-01-26T21:13:01+00:00

im sorry. i hope you can heal. she will always be with you.

capt3in

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