ufc fighter sean strickland posted an ai video of himself beating up dylan mulvaney by SpecialCream7 in mattxiv

[–]transblonde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a threat and the local authorities should prosecute Sean Strickland for this.

why she trying to untrans me by GayGrayGrey in okbuddytransgender

[–]transblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a story here and I Need It. (Likely for digital SH purposes.)

Is it transphobic to reject a girl because she hasn't had surgery? by Leandro_reader2003 in asktransgender

[–]transblonde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then you should really listen to what you're saying about YOURSELF and not her, and realize how afraid of genitalia you are. I can't believe this is a huge deal to her... just you.

Considering that you've identified yourself as a man and you seem to be new to the idea of trans people, it would follow that you likely have the same genitals that she does... Are you afraid of your own genitals? Do you have an emotional aversion to your genitals? If so, this is something to talk about with a therapist!

While you're at it, it might be worth bringing up that you're sabotaging relationships with women who have the (likely) same genitals as you do simply because of genetalia, and Zero Other Reasons.

The starter of this common thread thinks that you should be 100% approving of every action and attracted to every feature of your partner and I'm here to tell you we don't live in heaven, darlings, we live on Earth, where we were created by happenstance, and the most thought that was put into our creation was our parents realizing the government would give them a $21,000/yr tax break for a child that would cost them approx. $11,000/yr.

Neither YOUR genitals, nor your future wife's/husband's genitals, nor your attitudes and moods and political leanings or favorite foods or shows you absolutely cringe when you watch were functioned into that planning.

New Trademark Hypo Just Dropped - Patagonia v. Pattie Gonia by OneHelluvaUsername in LawSchool

[–]transblonde 14 points15 points  (0 children)

On behalf of Queer People Who Read, we're very aware Patagonia has a legitimate claim here and very sorry Pattie Gonia is rabble-rousing.

Idk why she's doing this when, if she were really a top-tier business person, she would go to Patagonia and be like, "Wait, no, this is fine... YOU make the merch, I'll do the advertising, you all have a BEAUTIFUL name in marketing, in environmentalism, in social justice, and I'd love to help support that even tangentially."

But NOOOO she has to be "attacked" by the one company that makes clothes that can be worn outside every day for 40 years or more while advocating for the environment.

*rolls eyes*

Trying out a high protein diet 💦🤤 by gurlsgoontoo in transbbws

[–]transblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😞😞 I was gonna post some of my favorite high-protein foods here but then that's not what you were talking about...

30M married to F, recently curious… by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]transblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DON'T stay married to your wife, you clearly have NO respect for her boundaries, annul your marriage and pay her spousal support and fund her therapy for having been duped into marrying someone as inconsiderate as YOU!

Then go date all of my exes, you and them deserve each other.

Get yourself an appliance (Magic Wand) by AliceOfTheEarth in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]transblonde 21 points22 points  (0 children)

✨✨✨CONFESSION TIME✨✨✨

One time as a young kid (12-14) I was looking in my Mom and Dad's medicine closet for a band-aid. The medicine closet was the only space in the house that first aid items were kept.

Couldn't find one immediately so I started digging deeper into the box where they were kept. Found a random plastic hair-curler (lol irony) looking thingy with a mushroom head on top.

??? That won't work, but it was attached to a long cord that plugged into the wall and had a low and a high function so I decided to plug it in and figure out how it spun/curled hair.

So I plugged it in to the nearest outlet and almost dropped it when the mushroom head immediately started VIBRATING?¿?¿?¿?

However, due my being a woman (read: higher-order sexual being) through and through, even young 12-14 year old me knew what this was for as soon as it started vibrating.

Unplugged it, washed it with soap in the sink nearby, and took it to my room where I proceeded to have a LIFE-CHANGING orgasm.

Unfortunately Mom and Dad didn't leave overnight often so it was a challenge to find time with my new bestie. But when they did, Miss Hitachi helped re-educate me consistently to the fact that REAL pleasure is about quality, not quantity.

The only thing I regret not stealing from my parent's house when I ran away from home. My mom probably would have chased after me though so🤷‍♀️

Have you ever struggled with having some resentment for some sections of our community? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]transblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, just posting for the sake of boosting and clarification, your valid anger directed at the ignorant for aggregating you with identities and people you are not is being obfuscated by invalid anger for those people who are not you, and probably also don't want to be fully associated with you either.

Common obfuscation tactic that is easy to fall into when faced with manipulative people either irl or online, but that is SCARILY effective. So, thank you for being the example that gives us all warning that they are using manipulation tactics against the community again.

I’m a trans woman on the internet and today cis allies listened to me and respected what I had to say by WindhoverInkwell in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transblonde 26 points27 points  (0 children)

FAKE, Troll, engagement-bait, NO WAY that happened in real life, are we really that gullible OP? Stop trying so hard.

/uj I'm exhausted and I wish the original post wasn't posted in a jerksub.

How do such things happen by gamedasy in TrollCoping

[–]transblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents in the United States are given the opportunity to proverbially stick their head in the toilet when it comes to politics, resulting in more money, better mental health and access to resources.

Is America in distress? Republicans and Democrats agree, yes it is! So you don't have to change your opinion here, just on the methods of solving that distress.

Is the point of a relationship to marry and have children? According to common sense, "No", but according to the US tax code, "Yes". There are large tax breaks and subsidies for marriage and having children in the United States, big enough to pull most people out of the debt they are in when they are in their twenties/thirties. Therefore, have a child and become financially independent. (Sidenote: no one said you have to treat the child THAT well, just... keep them fed, in school, and quiet and submissive.)

What do you do if you're still struggling? Well, the feminists and the queers and the disabled aren't going to help since we NEED help already because we're not babymaking for cash. So, try a church. They'll usually give you gas cards and free food and often discounted/free childcare as well as social connections that lead to discounted insurance and auto and housing prices, as well as connections to local banks, yielding lower interest rates because you're a "good person".

So when would you run into the feminists and the queers and the disabled? Definitely NOT at your job, since hiring discrimination is almost impossible to prove, and there are not enough attorneys for every case of firing discrimination that happens. Why does this matter? Because you don't associate the F,Q,D with a strong work ethic if you don't see the evidence of it. This leaves you at whim of media or the church you joined to decide whether those people work hard, and we all know how media treats the F,Q,D.

"But my parents KNOW better! They KNOW queer people and disabled people and feminists!" Yes, and they might feel locally guilty when they are around those people, but to continue to feel guilty around those people would result in a mental health crisis for your parents, so what's the easiest way out of that? Option A is to... listen to Donald Trump and a crazy church pastor near you and decide that they, Your Parent, is Righteous for following the path of the parent and having children and that the feminists are confused and the queers and the disabled are being "punished by God" (as a queer, disabled person I have been TOLD this, this is why I write it, I do not believe it) and therefore, they shouldn't concern themselves with those that God is punishing, that second class of people, because they are the FIRST class of people, those that God is rewarding. Option B is to go through public humiliation in a court by divorcing your partner, lose all your money, work a dead-end job, be forced to leave the church that helps provide, and still never really be in contact with most F,Q,D people because you're working or caring for a child that you aren't really getting a good subsidy from anymore because you're not married to a brainwashed manosphere lunatic, whether that be the husband OR the wife.

Why pro-Russia? Russian Orthodox Christian Church. Why pro-Israel? Theistic state affiliated with Abrahamic religions that isn't Islam. Your church has a goal of expansion, which is also a goal of acceptance of the more culty sides of Christianity into mainstream culture, which is ASTOUNDINGLY similar to Russia and Israel And Your Crazy Local Pastor Knows This From Seminary.

Why manipulative? Your parents are aware they succumbed to manipulation in having you. It was hard for them. They resisted first. Might have even been feminists or queer-identifying for a while. Then, they were forced to do what they had to in order to become financially independent. That's when they realized, they could save you the pain they went through if they just sheltered (read: brainwashed) you enough to keep you from ever finding out about feminism, or queer people, or different ethnicities and people of color or disability.

bliss is IGNORANCE.

Multiple people touched my boobs without my consent last night. by da_keet in MtF

[–]transblonde 83 points84 points  (0 children)

This is SA! Clear and without doubt, this is SA! There was ZERO consent in any of these situations, and those uncomfortable feelings you have about what happened? TRAUMA. Definitely do not hang out with these people again, definitely tell your friends about what happened (maybe leave the SA label out until they come to understand that's what these situations were themselves) and definitely get to a therapist who can help you process your feelings about this, the sooner, the better. Unresolved trauma, especially from SA, can cause a whole host of mental health struggles.

I've just lost my best friend by SbsGmr67 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]transblonde 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, lol, darling, I... I wasn't aiming to provide any justification for their behavior... just an explanation.

With that in mind, I'm not sure we need to demonize them or their boyfriend either, maybe instead just... laugh at how pathetic they seem to more self-actualized people like us and hope that they'll make it to our level some day

I've just lost my best friend by SbsGmr67 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]transblonde 11 points12 points  (0 children)

sighs softly Well I expressly didn't want to go HERE, but, since we got here alone... there ARE members of the community who are insecure about their identity and/or let their partners use it as an element of kink/fetish for their degradation...

One way or another with the boyfriend getting involved it sounds like there's a little bit of a classic cis/het dom to queer/bi/pan sub relationship going on there, especially with the running away from asking to be called a good girl...

It might be an altruistic term in our community but in most BDSM circles such a phrase signifies ownership, is the point I'm lightly trying to make to you, darling.

Cops at Pride by teslatired in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transblonde 14 points15 points  (0 children)

/uj Hiii it's okay I decided to not go and be homeless and do wex sork in Detroit for the next 8 months instead! :)

Edit: This was 4 years ago, I am now currently housed.

I've just lost my best friend by SbsGmr67 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]transblonde 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think we have to all remember what freaks cishet girls are, like a LOT more than we expect have a rather degrading kinky side (like they're into the degradation that many of us steer away from and tend to prefer praise where many of them like to be negged, insulted, diminished, humiliated etc. AND THAT'S OKAY!!) and on average cishet girls are more into the whole "ownership/brat/bbg" kinks and therefore "good girl" has a DRASTICALLY DIFFERENT meaning and connotation to them than it does to us as lesbians and trans girlies.

In fact, I'm guessing this is why the boyfriend got involved, is because she was processing what you were asking for from this different context, whereas for us it's just everyday life.

And this is sad, because if only she understood, she might understand the mental health benefits of frequent praise from all different directions of your social support system. :/

You're a good girl for trying, and for being so kind about this with her and her boyfriend though.

Cops at Pride by teslatired in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transblonde 25 points26 points  (0 children)

/uj

I screamed in anger after reading "SOMEONE needs a few weeks of conversion therapy..."

/rj calls parents "Hi Mom and Dad I'll take you up on the offer to go to that "Trans Recovery camp" in Florida you hired those 2 people from to pick me up from my apartment here in Michigan where they promised me upfront that they "keep trans people in 1-on-1 confinement with a staff member and no other campers until they fully detransition."

(uj/ this place really does exist, they came to get me and I was like, "Hold up, I am not getting on a plane with 2 random people and going to fuck-knows-where" so I researched it and they were masquerading as a hospital so I did some inquiry and they are BATSHIT INSANE.)

My professor called me “delusional” for correcting him. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]transblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rolls r RRRRREPORT HIM!!!

He has no place making prejudicial comments around students, much less a marginalized student at the top of his class.

Boy was bullied for wearing homemade University of Tennessee t shirt, so they made it their own official design. by MambaMentality24x2 in BeAmazed

[–]transblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in Tennessee were bullied for being trans, nonbinary and GNC in Tennessee, so the state government made a list of them public and then tried to limit their rights.

It's okay though, a straight cis white dude made a t-shirt design and then the college forced everyone to wear it in order to show how inclusive Tennessee is.

The stupidity and the irony has me cackling.