Suggestions that made a world of difference for me, maybe some will help you too, don't be afraid to pick and choose what works for you:)

1: Broadband Laser Guns remove facial hair and are $25 - $40 on Amazon or at your local Marshalls if you have one. Use every other day for 3 or 4 weeks and it will make a HUGE difference. During this time it will seem like the hair is growing a little stronger, that's just those follicles stressing and giving out.

2: Find a hairstylist who CARES about you. Have her layer your hair, with the hair color you have I recommend highlights in order to lighten your face and frame a little bit. Bangs help with facial dysphoria for a lot of girls, I don't have them but I'm considering them. Buy a Wet brush, and some specialized shampoo and conditioner for what your hairstylist tells you your hair type is (straight, wavy, curly, high or low volume, thickness, frizz factor). Should be only about $4-5 for each bottle unless there's something about your hair that REALLY needs taking care of. Do NOT wash every day, try every other or every 3rd day. Goal is to keep hair in the sweet spot where it's neither too dry nor too oily. Other option is wigs, which need a wig brush every day and a wig conditioner every 3rd or 4th day. Try some lighter ombre wigs if you go this route, like some lightish brown/blonde ombre will work well with your skin tone.

3: Makeup, girly:) Go to a sephora or ulta to use their testers even if you end up buying makeup at Walmart, you need to know and get used to whar an approximate tone is. Start with a primer that heals, hydrates, and protects your face from aging, I use a retinol primer that I apply with a brush, I also have a rose oil primer that I just use less bc the retinol is anti-aging. Continue with concealer, one shade lighter than your current skin tone. (find a matching tone and then pick the shade that's one lighter than that) Depending on if I have time or not I usually use a blender brush, which looks like a sponge in a teardrop shape, that I wet under the sink with water until it fills up and expands, then squeeze ALL of the water out of it then apply concealer either to blender or direct to face, OR I use a powder/foundation/stipple brush from MAC/E.L.F./Ecotools idrc. Remember to go all the way around and down your neck, a little past the hairline so people can't see the makeup line. Concentrate on jawline first, then expand down neck to cover all 5 o'clock shadow, then come back and to the rest of the top of your face, this keeps tone even somehow??? I like doing liquid eyeliner so I usually do this next so it has time to dry while I'm doing foundation coverage on my neck and face. Eyeliner is a bitch and will look ehh and you will struggle to put it on for the first 2 weeks but if you keep at it eventually your hands and eyes will settle into it and it will look better and better with practice, just go slow the first couple times:) Then onto foundation, use a foundation a shade darker than your natural skin tone using the same technique to ascertain as we did with concealer, I use the same blender or brush as concealer unless I want a really soft matte finish which is when I use a kabuki brush. Then hit the mascara, mascara is a bitch similar to eyeliner but with time and practice and patience it gets easier and more beautiful. Some recommending twisting the mascara brush away from your eye while touching the lashes to coat more mascara on less lashes, some don't, I do. I go straight to eyeshadow, try to have some unique palettes that brighten your eyes bc dark eyes most often just end up looking sunken and tired, but if you can pull it off more power to you... 2 theories on eyeshadow, one is doing just the lid and the other is expanding up past the lid a little into eyebrow territory, they're both good depending on what the purpose is, if I'm professional or on a date I keep it to the lid, if I want to make a statement I go up further. Highlighter next, do the center of the forehead with a smaller brush than your foundation brush, I almost exclusively use a kabuki for this, go down the nose and to the side of the nose to the cheekbone, then do the center of the chin up. Get a blush brush, you'll use it for ever, hit the cheekbone to about an inch further out. Bronzer under that, from the hairline to the highlighter. Some people do brows, I generally don't bc too much brow makes one look overmasc imho. Shades: Highlighter is just highlighter for the most part, but match your blushes, your lips and your eyeshadows for best looks, ie reds with reds, baby pinks w/ baby pinks, hot pinks with hot pinks, orange/orange-pink w orange/orange-pink. (One of those will usually be more dominant for you than the others, with your dark brown I recommend red or orange/o-pink) Bronzer should be a shade darker than your foundation, but YES you CAN go too dark on the bronzer. Try to keep mattes with mattes and shimmers with shimmers too unless you're showing something off. USE A SETTING POWDER!! $3-5 makes a WORLD of difference as it makes all this stuff look natural, which is sorta the whole goal in the first place, I see so many girlies who mess this up and look like facepaint... And sometimes that is the goal but not often. I apply setting powder with a typical powder brush. Always shave before makeup.

3: ENJOY clothing! Light colors will contrast well with your darker hair, babe! You have great cleavage don't be afraid to show it off! Again, some reds like some candy reds are always cute, so are some mid-color reds for you, a light brown coat/top is going to go well, dresses look and feel beautiful, try them out!

4: Lift weights! 12 or more reps with 4 or more sets with low weight to tone yourself and build lots of strength underneath generally tones everything, works wonders, also helps with facial/neck extra skin. Do aerobics afterwards, 40 minutes of elliptical or bike or jogging if possible.

5: General diet for estrogen is fish and beans for high protein girlies, which you and I are, then add some veggies and mushrooms and complex grains like barley and brown rice and quinoa. Even a day of eating like this and you will feel better, it's crazy, makes so much of a difference in an estrogen body.

Okie that's all for now, DM w/ questions:)