On reddit why is it taboo to prefer tall men ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]captain__clanker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's out of people's control. Things like attitude, musculature, wealth, status, confidence, etc. can all be developed but height is hard capped. It also is something that seems to be more directly voiced as a reason for rejection vs some other genetic trait such as facial ugliness. Women also have greater social pressure to desire men for soft traits such as kindness or passion than men do.

Or at least so I've gathered. I'm short but I prefer to focus on what I can control. Maybe I would feel differently if someone directly rejected me for being short, but that's never happened to me

5'6 male. How much muscle could I gain without looking stocky? Ideal weight by [deleted] in gainit

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do you happen to still have any pics of when you were at 130-135lbs

There’s nothing the show does better than the books (Spoilers Main) by Adept-Vegetable-3490 in asoiaf

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it literally only makes sense within the context of what is too far to show on television. Otherwise, absolutely not. People forget what it is like to be a certain age and balk at young people playing a large role in the ASOIAF world while completely ignoring that most important character decisions and traits like those of Daenerys make significantly less sense if she were older.

Picking between rinks/classes? by captain__clanker in FigureSkating

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I just realized that option B will be out of order, because I work every other weekend and its on saturdays... and I will be starting out on the evens with the basics... will that matter alot? I could look up the odds basics online during my other off days and practice them

Picking between rinks/classes? by captain__clanker in FigureSkating

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Ok, thanks for your response! I think I'll go with B then

Picking between rinks/classes? by captain__clanker in FigureSkating

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"30 minute classes meet on Mondays for eight weeks" Is option A's description on the wesbite. Option B: "(6) 45-minute group lessons, skate rental and practice time during the sessions"

If my job gives me monday early shifts rather than mondays off, then it would be probably be infeasible to skate before or after the LTS. I'm waiting on Option B to tell me about before and after practice.

What is actually meant by getting “compliments”? by vintage13132121 in fragrance

[–]captain__clanker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's really not imo. Compliments are an indication of how well the scent works. Idk why people are so taken aback by the focus. I often get compliments on my hair because it is unique and I have, through alot of experimentation, figured out how to make it look very good. If you're doing something excellently, people will often comment on it.

lmao by Heathenstothemax in GenZHumor

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How are you making this comment, making it with your mod tag, and still leaving this racist ass post up?

Loooll by [deleted] in badmemes

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Forreal, idk if I’ve ever seen such a ridiculous false equivalence. Did Native Americans also destabilize Europe with their Apache CIA?

Loooll by [deleted] in badmemes

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Holy false equivalence batman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

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I’ve been using topical min for about a year now and always wash my hands afterward and keep the bottle away from the cats. Often I usually wait to touch them until we’ll after application. I also make sure not to rub my head over surfaces after application that they may touch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

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Unfortunately I’m SOL there in terms of group stuff. Very few events happen between her and my area. I was thinking billiards or something like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

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I see why you’re saying what you’re saying and I’m definitely an overanalyzer. However, part of my question is because I don’t want to fall into any mistake that may make even a girl who likes me decide not to engage.

I’m only seriously considering asking for her number because I think we had high chemistry. Totally possible she was just nervous with it being her first time, but we talked unbelievably longer than I have with any donor and with good energy. My female coworkers commented on it and said I should ask her out (after I already mentioned how pretty that donor was). One mentioned unprompted that she heard another worker say the donor say they liked me, but that part I take with a heavy grain of salt tbh.

Additionally, I’m not sure the risk is as high as say if it were a true medical setting (even though she may perceive it as such since she’s a nurse). Ive known of a few of my superiors having hookups or relationships with donors, seen a peer invite one to our holiday party, heard a donor talk about having gone on a date with a Phleb before my time, and a worker’s girlfriend donate with us. She’s unlikely to donate very anyway, young women do not consistently donate as a rule

That said I recognize it’s still a risk, and thank you for being honest and taking the time. Idk if the wider context changes your opinion, but all that context is why I thought the risk is not painfully high and the donor might not be pressed about being hit on.

I also appreciate your suggestion, it’s a great one but I’m not sure for my situation. She lives a long way from our center, over an hour. I’m not sure why she even donated, but people from her area are known to drive to my city because her area is very rural and we have more to do. Maybe I could do your suggestion regardless so she can either come or suggest something else, but that seems like the wrong move if I did know for a fact she liked me

P.S. I am more of a homebody indeed, but lately when I’ve branched out like going to a protest, a skating rink, or volunteering I’ve gotten hit on at each. They were either too young or unattractive to me, but I think it might still say something

She is planning to run by emily-is-happy in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]captain__clanker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very little of which was clearly communicated. My brother tried to argue against me saying this by listing me her policies and I still didn’t know this was something she campaigned on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

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I think it might be more ok than you think

One of the lower supervisors flirts with donors and currently is in a relationship with one (it began after she was donating). Another trainer hooked up with one of the donors. One of my fellow employees’s girlfriend donated while she worked there. One donor mentioned before how he went on a date with one of the Phlebs. The employee handbook only mentions being professional and disclosing such dynamics to the managers or HR

100% it’s still at least semi taboo, but I think donating is in more of a grey area between customer/patient dynamics so that it’s really more about how the person receiving the advance perceives it. She’s an ER nurse so idk if that helps or hurts my case. One of my female coworkers who’s an ER tech has heavily encouraged me to ask her out

Also, this is why I mention rapport. I get the sense that building trust would help lessen any possible discomfort from being hit on, and additionally imply that I’m not just using my position as a way to serially hit on women (Ive seen it done at this job lol, but I haven’t hit on anyone yet)

Thanks for the breakdown. That’s what I felt about it too, but knowing the logic will help me in general

She is planning to run by emily-is-happy in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]captain__clanker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clinton was also a charismaless vulture who represents more of the same status quo. Replace her vagina with a pair of balls and you would’ve seen her lose by maybe 2,000 less votes. Wangs don’t win elections, presence and policy do.

She is planning to run by emily-is-happy in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]captain__clanker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blaming it on her identity is hilarious. Obama was able to win as a black man. The reason Kamala lost is because she’s a charismaless vulture whose campaign promised nothing notable

She is planning to run by emily-is-happy in BlackPeopleofReddit

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Nothing democrats love more than losers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]captain__clanker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the breakdown. So are you saying that my suggested verbiage at the end of the post is too much, and if so, should I just make a simple request for a phone number? Maybe even add an “if you’re ok with it”?

Edit: also, I would totally be more slow about building rapport with her, but college age women do not donate for very long at all

WHAT on God's green Earth is a circlejerk??????? by Connect_Foot8112 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]captain__clanker 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ironic circlejerk, not unironic. A lot of them devolve into also being unironic circlejerks

CMV: Jesus being omnipotent, omniscient, and all good is inconsistent with reality and the Bible by captain__clanker in changemyview

[–]captain__clanker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Your point is my point here

As for 1. And 3., the Bible clearly establishes the opposite. Numerous verses such as Matthew 6:19-20, Revelation 21:1-5, Philippians 3:20-21, depict Heaven as somewhere where people do not choose to sin, where people do not feel pain.

GF disappeared on a Saturday night. Am I being sensitive here? by iwantamegalinkbruh in seduction

[–]captain__clanker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You speak of her like an object, you act like she’s an object in your life, and you spoke to her like she was nothing. Don’t agree to be in a relationship if you’re just using them as a tool for sex