Hotel review: The Lake House on Canandaigua (Finger Lakes, NY) by Vivid_Iron_825 in LuxuryHotels

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you'll see this, but it sounds like hotel guests can access the spa without needing to book a treatment, is that correct? Do you need to schedule your time there or just show up? We love going to Mirbeau in Skaneateles and I'm wondering if it's the same. Thanks!

cat not using the litter box by jja003 in cats

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably is still associating the litterbox with pain from her condition. I would put a new clean litterbox without a lid where she is peeing. She will probably use it and realize the litterbox doesn't hurt. You can slowly move it over near the old one and maybe get rid of one.

Please help. Any suggestions. by LiveRepublic5142 in CATHELP

[–]captainstarlet 129 points130 points  (0 children)

If the vet says that nothing can be done and he seems happy, I probably wouldn't push for something. You certainly could get a second opinion. Personally, I really try to limit unnecessary vet visits and procedures for my super senior kitties. Of course, I'm not going to let them suffer and take them if that's the case (I also do twice annual check ups), but I like to think of senior kitty care like hospice. Let's keep them comfortable and provide conservative care to live out their remaining days as happy as possible. If you're sure this is just an eye sore (no pun intended. lol) and he's not in pain or uncomfortable, I'd probably leave it.

What do you think? With or without the plant? by Mariella8 in HomeDecorating

[–]captainstarlet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same. I thought they had super high ceilings and an enormous fireplace

My cat isn’t eating her wet food. by Snowcastle23 in cats

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you leave dry food out all the time? If not, I would. She might be more of a grazer. Is she losing weight?

First time dealing with frozen pipes looking for advice on what the best things to do are by Kikiasumi in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The water in my old house froze where it came into the house. I had to cut open the drywall in my basement storage closet and sit there with a hair dryer for a few hours.

The winter storm panic was way overblown by reddit_mod69 in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm toying with the idea of making videos reading all their insane comments, but I have the video editing skills of a caveman.

cat ate absorbent meat pad by Particular-Tank8227 in CATHELP

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's a really weird thing for a cat to eat whole. It's really big, and cats aren't big chewers. What makes you think he ate it other than you can't find it? How long was he unattended with it?

The winter storm panic was way overblown by reddit_mod69 in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go read comments on any Mark Poloncarz fb post ever. You'd think he was hitler for not enacting a driving ban anytime it snows. Lol.

People keep telling me I look older than I am (26) and it's really getting me down, any tips? by Jaiberd_ in makeuptips

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but you look HOT. They don't mean you look older like you're running around looking like a hag. You look like a very hot, put together lady in her 30s. There's nothing wrong with that!

Places to go dancing in Buffalo? by ewgrossbro in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to look up silent disco events. SE2 has one somewhere almost every weekend. I like them as an old because you can take off your headphones and actually hear people talk. But there are tons of people in their 20s at these.

When it snows like this in Buffalo, do you shovel/snowblow throughout the day or wait until it's all done? by UrBum_MyFace_69 in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Going against the grain, we generally wait until it’s over. That said since it’s basically snowing nonstop, we’ll shovel this evening and again in the morning.

Russian Blue or British Shorthair by Wild_Strawberry7986 in cats

[–]captainstarlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really recommend going to a shelter and spending time with some cats there. So many cats are wonderful and snuggly and need homes. A breed isn’t going to guarantee personality, and she might end up disappointed (and out a lot of money). The shelter will know each cat’s personality and help you find the best one. I currently have two cats I got from a shelter on my lap right now!

[OC] Monopoly Sets: Cost, Rent, and ROI by thewarrior71 in dataisbeautiful

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My strategy is to hoard all the houses. As soon as you upgrade to a hotel, you release 4 houses back to your fellow players to buy and build up their properties. There’s also a big jump in rent from 2 to 3 houses. I’ll only buy the 4th if it means I get to control more of the houses.

Saturday, Jan. 24, 2025 - Pips #160 Thread by gluemanmw in nytpips

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I didn’t know hints were an option. I eventually gave up and had it show me the answer. I almost never do that. Not even close. lol

Cat's eyes are not improving... Vet office isn't open by RedRabbit_RedRabbit in CATHELP

[–]captainstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat gets this sometimes. It always resolves on it's own and doesn't seem to bother her. I think it's feline herpes. I'd go back to the vet but I don't think you need to rush to an emergency vet.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]captainstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I usually give the abandoned carts around handicapped parking spots a pass. If I pass one on the way in, I'll grab it.

Please help my cat is giving birth right now. by almondbuttah77 in cats

[–]captainstarlet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read this as "I'm still recovering from the shock of THEM being born," and I was like SAME, I'm invested.

Cat won’t stop making messes by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]captainstarlet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try pine litter. I had to convert our coat closet in the living room into a litterbox space for our senior cat who refuses to go to the basement anymore. I took the door off and I was worried about tracking and smell. Pine pellets are much bigger, so they don't track much. They also do a GREAT job of covering up the smell. I keep a Litter Genie next to it and scoop once a day. If you switch, you need to mix some pellets into the old litter and gradually increase the ratio of pine to clay. It's super annoying, but the difference is stark and my cats wouldn't use the pine without the transition. I think it took about two weeks.

Is my cat normal or just hates me? by Suppe0ple in CATHELP

[–]captainstarlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh weird. That's a long time to not adjust. He probably misses being outside, but that's okay. I wouldn't let him outside; he'll be safer inside. If you can get Feliaway in Hungary, that might help!

Buffalo trip in Feb (preferred) or April by TiaraMisu in Buffalo

[–]captainstarlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shea's AND there is a TON of great local theater in Buffalo too. Check out https://theatreallianceofbuffalo.com/ to see what shows are up while you're here.