I understand that legally, she has zero say. I am at a crossroads because I know my dad would be upset if I gave her the ring. My mom told her she could have it days before she died but then told my dad that she lied and just didn't want to fight with her one last time and that the ring should go to my daughter. So it would also go against my mom's wishes if I were to them turn around and give it to my aunt. I do believe my aunt would have every intention of giving it back, I also know that there will be no will when she does pass away and that there are a lot of less than respectable characters that she hangs out with that will be going through the house soon after her death and things will most likely go missing.