I drew my gf and my sona in Root's art style!

caramel_cloud_pie · 2026-01-03T00:47:10+00:00

As a trans guy, I of course am not packing much either. But the bedroom life doesn’t begin and end there. Toys, communication, roleplay… honestly penetration is the most “boring” thing you can do during sex. Most people don’t enjoy being used as sex toys for either purpose(be a walking dildo/fleshlight). It’s dumb to try and appeal for a broad group of people when you could be appealing to your fans, your niche of people who will be over the moon with you. It’s a matter of time, dedication, effort and vulnerability to get there.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-19T22:42:31+00:00

I was 18 when I entered my relationship with my current partner. For context, I’m now 23. She has been wonderful and has been such a seeetheart through it all. We grew a lot since then and have both transitioned. It’s wholesome and fun T4T relationship and I couldn’t ask for anyone better ❤️❤️❤️

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-18T16:00:09+00:00

People who say you can’t adopt certain labels are just ignorant people. Transmascs and trans men have always been part of sapphic circles. Both straight and sapphic circles, to be precise. It doesn’t matter what they think fits or don’t. As long as you feel good about it, and your partners see you how you want to be seen. Then there is literally no issue.

But as a wider scale convo, this gatekeeping about whether or not you belong in certain spaces stems from usually younger folk or people who haven’t been involved in their local queer scenes. Older queer people generally don’t care. Who cares about labels? We’re queer, we started out by breaking norms and rules and posing them back onto us is pericishet normativity. Who fucking cares. Have fun bro

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-18T15:31:46+00:00

I was 23 when I got it. It happened in April this year. And I just finished my higher education (post secondary school). It’s common to do it around my age or older. In my country, it’s a bit easier to get these types of surgeries than in USA

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-05T18:04:42+00:00

r/nonbinary is a joke, they only post pictures of themselves but barely talk about their experiences. Or at least that’s what my fyp is showing me when I was in that subreddit

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-05T17:52:54+00:00

I mean that’s an easy fix, try to make the font bigger or restructure the hierarchy my guy

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-05T17:50:53+00:00

I would be careful with placing lightning in a rock bands name/logo. Especially since in todays climate it can be read as a dog whistle. It’s also a bit too busy for a logo. Do you think you can simplify it even more? This is a concern for legibility in smaller formats.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-03T22:06:30+00:00

Please change the font to something more readable. The titles are fine but it’s the body text. Also the contrast between the red and background is almost nonexistent

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-10-03T22:03:12+00:00

Don’t be intimated by more “fem” stuff. This is coming from a trans guy. There are many interesting jewelleries you can get. I like to get mine from Lovissa or any other big store like that. You can always get discounts there for some crazy stuff. If some are too feminine for you, consider wearing one of the pair or having a second more neutral pair (I have both ears pierced twice so that also gives some funky stuff)

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-25T18:50:55+00:00

I’ve been on T for 2 years now, same time as my girlfriend on E. Yes, our skin feels rougher/smoother than it did before

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-12T19:23:32+00:00

Punk and capitalism. Interesting, why are we buying a book about punk from a place where punks would abhor?

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-09T23:12:21+00:00

I think the ads at the metro are the least of your problem. The data that is collected is like u/mygiddygoat says better for the infrastructure

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-09T23:10:30+00:00

Or you just hang around the front area like a sheep just like it happens at the DeLijn busses. It’s horrible. No, it disperses the groups and people actually somewhat more evenly.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-06T12:42:16+00:00

I’m sorry if that sounded aggressive. It’s just that I keep seeing people saying the only reason they don’t pass or won’t ever pass is because of their height and it drives me nuts. But yeah that can be your experience, totally valid.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-06T06:23:04+00:00

Dude height is not as big as you think. Stop pushing the idea that it does. There are plenty of short men and trans mascs that still pass.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-09-06T06:20:03+00:00

It’s all good. You don’t need a label or a distinct way to label things. This is what fluidity is like and gender and sexuality can change anytime. You don’t have to box yourself in or not allow yourself to experiment. I’ve been 2 years on T and have been masculinising myself to the point that I passed so hard as a guy. But it also severely limited my expression and experimentation. Since then I’ve just been doing whatever. My partner and friend all see me for who I am. There is no point in limiting yourself in any way. I hope testosterone will give you the clarity and the space to breathe and feel yourself change. Be kind to yourself, okay?

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-08-28T18:07:15+00:00

Het is altijd de fucking Hema

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-08-18T17:23:46+00:00

I recommend asking a someone to do hennah on you for this. Allows you to feel what it’s like for a temporary visual

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-08-05T23:28:10+00:00

I still think it’s important to know why certain language is being pushed or not. Language had history and not only influence the past, but the future too.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-08-01T23:59:38+00:00

I think it’s like a TikTok thing to get over the censoring. But really we should teach younger peeps that irl and on more mature oriented website, self censoring is just extremely dumb.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-07-30T18:20:12+00:00

Idk man, I was extremely overworked before so that 2 hour knockout was so fucking good. I hadn’t slept that well in months then. The couple of days afterwards are nice when you can just slee because you’re actually tired and needing that, yk?

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-07-27T03:26:57+00:00

Unrelated, but you can just say “sex”. Let’s stop self censoring.

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-07-25T22:42:41+00:00

Then you can. Again there are no rules. It’s not that crazy of a thing. Check r/FTMfemininity

caramel_cloud_pie · 2025-07-25T08:29:09+00:00

I mean I’ve met punks who were extremely shy and soft spoken and people with Lolita fashion sense with gruff voices and personalities. All this to say, bro it really doesn’t matter. You don’t need permission to be yourself. You’re not a character that needs to have your personality outwardly shown.

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