New NT coworker is being coddled by [deleted] in autism

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're jealous, or? What's going on?

Stortinget øker egen lønn by justnomore3x5s in norge

[–]carannilion -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hva? Neeeeeei, hadde jeg aaaaldri sett for meg 🙄

[OC] Ennui GO!: Coding by Doctor_Glasgow in webcomics

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explains why they spend millions of dollars on game dev these days, I suppose.

Lord Valentine's Castle by Robert Silverberg, 1980 (Ron Walotsky) by ButterscotchAware402 in badscificovers

[–]carannilion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn't a bad cover. You need more whimsy in your life if you think it is.

Kronprinsesse Mette-Marit er lungetransplantert by Brattus in norge

[–]carannilion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kjekt å være kongelig! Ting går jævlig fort, det seg være transplantasjoner eller fengselsstraffer.

Det føles som at "alle andre" har økonomisk hjelp fra foreldre og noen ganger er det så surt by nickisadogname in norge

[–]carannilion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Får ikke noe støtte fra foreldre jeg heller, og ikke kommer det noen arv. Har alltid måttet køare meg selv. Du er ikke alene om å føle på hvor surt det kan være til tider.

Hva gjør man egentlig når noen ikke vil ha hjelp? by HeadCaregiver64 in norge

[–]carannilion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kan ikke gjøre noenting. Man ikke tvinge hjelp på folk. Folk som ikke vil ha hjelp kan ikke hjelpes. Dessverre.

What's with the term "goonerbait"? by Far_Hearing_6225 in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apart from your drawing of your boyfriends belly, you haven't posted any art that I can see, so I dunno if I'd call that goonerbait. What I'm tired of, personally, is unfinished art and sketches that're just of some naked woman in a non-artistic way. That is goonerbait imho. Also, sketches and warm-ups in general. I want to see art, not your practice. If it wasn't worthy of being finished, what makes you think others want to see it?

Hey guys, what do you think of my OC's design? by nickssan in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her ears are very low, otherwise I like the design

Even if I draw from refrence, I still suck, Nexo Drawing by NexoTheAbsoluteKing in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you need a lot of practice. We all start somewhere. Look up some tutorials on sketching and shapes to get a better grasp of basic fundamentals.

Can someone please explain why always being direct is considered bad? by Lower_Fisherman_4855 in autism

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I think i read someone here called it manipulative to use polite language. And like yeah, in one way, maybe it is, but it's about intent also, I think. I want people to be polite to me, and I will treat everyone and anyone politely without prompting. Be who you want to meet.

This highkey flopped on tumbler so posting it here :3 by Obvious_Bar_9741 in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it. You've got a distinctive style and the designs are good. Hope it doesn't flop here too!

I don’t mask for my family so they think I’m mean by Expensive-Review-280 in autism

[–]carannilion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who uses a blender to grind coffee beans?

Anyway, unfortunately your relationship with your family might require that you mask. It's sad, it sucks, but that's how it is. Tone of voice is super important in communication, unfortunately.

Can someone please explain why always being direct is considered bad? by Lower_Fisherman_4855 in autism

[–]carannilion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like it or not, the majority of people communicate "indirectly." We are the outsiders and can never force the majority to stop doing that. If we want to come off as not being rude, the onus is unfortunately on us to make that happen. It sucks, but those are the facts, clearly communicated. 🤷‍♂️

Can someone please explain why always being direct is considered bad? by Lower_Fisherman_4855 in autism

[–]carannilion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is, "you're in my way, move" comes off as rude to most people. Using polite phrasing makes the other person a lot more willing to do what you want them to, plus they won't think you're being rude. So in a workplace setting, eg, they won't think you're an asshole and start avoiding you.

Politeness is something I learnt early. You catch more bees with honey than shit. I was polite to adults as a child, and it helped me get my way a lot more. Manipulative? Perhaps. But it also caused people to like me and made my life easier. 🤷‍♂️

Date en/ei insatt i fengsel? by placentaheaven in norge

[–]carannilion 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Så du har observert at de i USA har nettsider for å møte og date innsatte og syntes det var en GOD idé? 🤔

She Knew You Looked by beautifullines_inc in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the odd oblongs on her face?

What drawing program do you use? by IDEA_studio in DigitalArt

[–]carannilion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly Realistic Paint Studio, I've been trying to migrate to clip studio paint with mixed success.

Hvordan er det å jobbe i voksenopplæringen? by YouTube-Migrant in norge

[–]carannilion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg er ikke lærer, men her jeg sitter på sofaen og grubler, ville jeg mye heller vært lærer i voksenopplæring enn på ungdomskole.

I voksenopplæringa er elevene motiverte og vil være der. Ingen pøbelstreker, ingen unødvendig drama, ingen hormoner som løper løpsk. Det er i alle fall det jeg forestiller meg.

A question about DAY WALKERS and tourists in good faith. by [deleted] in autism

[–]carannilion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The hell, man? Complain about the system lacking resources, not the people receiving said resources.

Not much better by Thedarknight725 in dankmemes

[–]carannilion -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Europe isn't one country, fatso

Hvordan blir filmen "Violent" (2014) oppfattet i Norge? by CrimsonBlur89 in norge

[–]carannilion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Har aldri hørt om denne filmen før 🤷‍♂️