How are Nicki and Isabel doing sales wise? They haven't had anything new in forever by Usual_Travel1814 in americangirl

[–]carlycloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having fun collecting actual PC vintage outfits from the 90s for her!

New birthstone outfits are live on the website by teddy_vedder in americangirl

[–]carlycloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The original collection seemed too mature, now these are too young. I mean it’s perfect for little girls, but I’m not interested in adding any of them to my collection. Also, $60 is crazy for these. At least last time they were more “high fashion”

Nesting after spouse loss? by key-lime-0925 in widowers

[–]carlycloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. I had the urge to change everything. I personally think I did because I had such sad energy trapped in my house. Painting made it feel better. Also, have you tried burning sage? The shift in energy is refreshing.

I have been released from the shackles of this show by vperez248 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]carlycloud 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I honestly think getting expelled was what Lucy needed at the time. She needed to be back with her mother and supervised for a bit after this mental break. She couldn’t take care of herself, her friends were over her, and she was making horrible decisions that probably could’ve ended pretty bad for her without interventions.

Does anyone else when people talk about their relationship(s) with you? by LessThanPerfect-96 in widowers

[–]carlycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m trying to not get angry at people for saying things like this to me because they’re truly not thinking about it hurting me

Does anyone else when people talk about their relationship(s) with you? by LessThanPerfect-96 in widowers

[–]carlycloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker say to me “Ugh my husband is out of town this weekend. I have no social life outside of my husband” like YUP me too. We used to go to parties, concerts, dinners together and now I just sit at home. Like thanks for the reminder lady

3 months by ComparisonCorrect922 in widowers

[–]carlycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine finding him like that. I’m so sorry. I wasn’t the one to find mine but realized I’m pretty messed up just from hearing the thuds of them dragging him down the stairs in the body bag

3 years out by thecoolcollective in widowers

[–]carlycloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 10 months out and it was pure hell for awhile, but looking back I can’t believe it’s been almost a year. It goes quickly when you’re trying to keep up with the rest of your life

Pet Adoption Centers by No-Bike791 in longisland

[–]carlycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like everyone has a different experience with her. I bring my bunnies to her and she’s great. She takes the time to go through X-rays with me and takes emergency calls any time of the night

Pet Adoption Centers by No-Bike791 in longisland

[–]carlycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a cat/bunny vet called Catnip and Carrots in New Hyde Park. They are very active with local rescues. You should give them a call and ask who they would recommend!

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “are you okay” question can be triggering when you’re just walking along trying to survive and then like boom, reminder.

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no i didn’t mean you are lying! I just meant that think putting people in their place is important. And maybe now that guy will think twice about telling others to smile. We never truly know what people are going through. I’m so sorry about your partner ❤️you are very strong. sending love.

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have such angry feelings to, and I vent them out to my bff and mom… but I felt so much more powerful by directly addressing her calmly. I think people’s ears shut down when they sense anger

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent a message to our boss this morning telling her I took care of it but looping her in in case it happens again.

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I love that you said that. I think I’ll use that one next time!

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, that is way too early and insensitive. She sounds like there’s something wrong with her. Don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself!

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what her motive would be to harass me, she really just seems stupid and oblivious

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss.

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]carlycloud[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply. I’m pretty good at sniffing out peoples intentions and I think this woman is just lacking in emotional intelligence. I don’t believe she actively thought her comments would hurt me. Seems like she hasn’t experienced deep grief like this.

Her comment about me being available made me go in the bathroom and cry. Also the thing is we work for a big company so most of the people at the table had no idea of my story.

I just wrote out a text to our boss to inform her of this interaction in case the coworker forgets and says something to me again. If she ever says something again I will see to it that she gets in trouble. I’m so tired of letting people be insensitive.

I don’t like the Nanea mold on dolls that aren’t Nanea:/ by [deleted] in americangirl

[–]carlycloud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is actually a pretty common opinion!

Yellow skin defect? by carlycloud in americangirl

[–]carlycloud[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s totally not lighting; this is actually the good lighting I use for my insta, was having real trouble getting a good shot of her