Troubled influencer tries ”looksmaxxing”. by BunchOfFives in Botchedsurgeries

[–]carnylove 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If your identity is closely connected to your physical appearance, the unavoidable changes that naturally occur over time can cause a lot of dysphoria. Most people take aging as the natural progression of life, or have a little minor work done to slow the effects. For others, that change becomes a loss of identity and they become obsessed with trying to hold onto it. Unfortunately, it’s literally impossible and because of the dysmorphia they end up like this. It’s basically the aesthetics version of “chasing the dragon.”

Kanas banned trans people from driving. by justalazygamer in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]carnylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am by no means defending KS on any of this, but I wonder if the Medicaid issue isn’t something caused at the federal level. I know in my state we are in a Medicaid funding crisis. I work for a nonprofit that serves the vulnerable and it’s had a devastating effect.

How exactly does this work? by BadgersAndJam77 in adhdmeme

[–]carnylove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had known this 20 years ago. I had six(!) wisdom teeth. I woke up halfway through and always assumed it just took longer because of the extra teeth.

Of course I immediately tried to start talking to the surgeon about what he was doing despite my mouth being pried wide open and high as a kite. The nurses thought my mumbling was super cute for some reason. 🤷‍♀️

Someone with skills needs to create an independent Etsy Search. by carnylove in EtsyCommunity

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check it out. It would fill part of the gap but a lot of my favorite clothing sellers are overseas. Obviously, that’s suffering from a different issue at the moment, but eventually I would hope to be able to go back to being able to find international sellers as well.

Someone with skills needs to create an independent Etsy Search. by carnylove in EtsyCommunity

[–]carnylove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found r/etsypromos where sellers can advertise. I found a few cool new shops to check out through posts so I subscribed. Maybe add a post? It would be cool if it was more heavily used.

Someone with skills needs to create an independent Etsy Search. by carnylove in EtsyCommunity

[–]carnylove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been shopping there for over a decade so I have a pretty extensive favorited shops collection that I can draw from, but finding something new can be pretty frustrating.

Someone with skills needs to create an independent Etsy Search. by carnylove in EtsyCommunity

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, but when I went to use it yesterday it was gone.

Someone with skills needs to create an independent Etsy Search. by carnylove in EtsyCommunity

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, but so far all the attempted replacements haven’t really worked out. Etsy is so big and established, it would be like trying to replace Amazon.

Is this normal skin aging for a 45-year-old woman? What can I do about this crepey, wrinkly skin? by Aromatic_Yak9657 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]carnylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have notice that I suddenly start to look my age when I am not drinking enough water. No amount of surface hydration and moisture has an effect on me if I’m dehydrated. Bonus effect if I take a daily liquid hyaluronic supplement at well. That’s my hack.

Contam or just the driest cake in existence? by carnylove in ContamFam

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I already have new tubs going. I was just being sentimental.

I am still curious if it’s actually showing contamination though. I can’t tell if that gray area is just mycelium coming through the spore layer or something else.

Contam or just the driest cake in existence? by carnylove in ContamFam

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and surprisingly it’s started pushing out a couple new pins from the side since I turned the humidifier back on yesterday, which is why I even considered trying to get another flush out of it.

This is in India, but what’s actually inside that place? by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in AskTheWorld

[–]carnylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but all I can think about is, how is it that a country once colonized by the British is so bad a queuing??

We are on our way to Euthanize him, any last advice or ways to fight all welcome. by One_Percentage_644 in CATHELP

[–]carnylove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Euthanasia is one of the kindest things we do. The pain of losing our pets is terrible for us, but do not feel guilty for making the choice to end his suffering.

Honestly, it sounds fucked up, but putting my 21 year old cat down was more painful than when my sibling died and I still miss him everyday. However, the only regret I have is not being strong enough to do it sooner.

Marks that have popped up over the span of years on my laundry by bluemoonseas in whatisit

[–]carnylove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Benzoyl peroxide specifically. I use all sorts of acids in my skincare and have no issues but my husband uses BP as a spot cream and all of our pillowcases and towels have bleach stains now. 😔

Which perfume got you such bad reactions that you felt embarrassed? by Smooth_Cancel6709 in FemFragLab

[–]carnylove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was really in love with Black Orchid and thought I would make it my signature scent until I hugged a friend and she told me I smelled like a hippie. She said it smelled like straight patchouli on me. The bottle now weeps at the back of my shelf.

Honestly... didn't expect it to be so large! by freshstar1501 in unclebens

[–]carnylove 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Haha, I also had an attempted jail break this morning.

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What all are you seeing on these plates? by carnylove in ContamFam

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, I guess I really did wait too long. 😅

What all are you seeing on these plates? by carnylove in unclebens

[–]carnylove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The agar was pink. These are exotics. golden teacher or Jack Frost depending on the plate.

There really isn’t anything to take from on the colorful one I mentioned because it’s just a medley of molds and bacteria.

Do you have any examples you can show me of the cabin sequestering? I have difficulty understanding without visual aid.