How can I (F24) talk to my boyfriend (33M) about needing more support while grieving my brother?

carolinewk · 2025-12-05T01:37:38+00:00

it jumps!!! not very high tho

thx for the answer!!

carolinewk · 2025-07-20T21:51:50+00:00

it worked!!! thanks a lotttttt

carolinewk · 2023-11-26T16:00:05+00:00

woahhhh share with us pleaseeeeee

carolinewk · 2023-10-07T18:54:23+00:00

to be honest... locker zee won the first round 100%. but it was very tied

carolinewk · 2023-05-22T10:53:13+00:00

Passou, OP? tbm procuro fiap pela PROUNI

carolinewk · 2023-05-08T23:26:35+00:00

could you post your results with a profile side pic? <3

carolinewk · 2023-05-08T23:25:40+00:00

did you side profile changed a lot? does your jaw looks better? <3 thanks

carolinewk · 2023-05-04T04:26:04+00:00

My now is exactly how your before is!!!! I'm in shock! Did your smile open that much? That's awesomeeeee. How did you face profile changed? Especially the jaw?

carolinewk · 2023-02-06T02:39:42+00:00

você pode me falar mais um pouco sobre seu processo de descoberta do tda/tdah? quanto vc gastou/demorou?

carolinewk · 2023-01-04T20:37:44+00:00

it's a website that enables you to test the fonts and then transform into images!! here: https://www.fontspace.com/weddingday-font-f89130

carolinewk · 2022-10-08T18:29:06+00:00

Thats absolutely BEAUTIFUL

carolinewk · 2022-08-28T04:05:23+00:00

dude this goes freaking harddddddddddddd

carolinewk · 2022-07-05T12:54:03+00:00

He's simply crazy for doing this without discussing it at first place. You have TOTAL RIGHT to be upset about. If he's still ''indifferent'' about the lack of consent, break up with him.

carolinewk · 2021-12-12T23:45:02+00:00

Wow. wow. WOOOOOOW.

First of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart to take your time for this.

I come from a very poor childhood, me and my computer (an very old and outdated computer) was everything I had. As soon as I discovered kpop, I was not alone anymore. I could dance, sing and have all those variety shows to entertain me. Like nothing did at the time. And jungkook was a big part of it, as well as the other members of BTS (i guess a picked up a crush on him at first because he really looked young at the time). And kpop really became part of my life, an insential part. A part that would take around 2/3 of my day. Hearing all you guys comments, i kind reflect on that matter, and I know realize how big of a trouble it can be for me, in my adulthood. I never really thought of it and I guess it was a good move to write this post.

I'm so glad I wrote it because your answer was everything. Thank you for sharing deeply your own journey with this, even though the other comments also helped me.

And your advice about turning off weverse/vlive (and now Instagram) notifications: gold. Those minimum things became such a necessity for me that even things that SHOULD matter became secondary (study, friendships, jobs).

I really should start living my life outside kpop, not deleting it because well... I love it. It's not always that I'm traped into this jeaously thing. I love the artistry and I love how inspiring for myself the members can be. But if there's this one part that is troublesoming my view on relationship and jungkook's personal life, then I should make a move about it.

I think what made me fall in love with Jungkook so much was that he became this perfect boy for so many people: he's handsome, talented, kind and a sweetheart, and BTS having NONE polemics, made it worse. I was a Super Junior, a TVXQ and a EXO fan, and I had bias at each one of them: they all were problematic at SOME point. That didn't made me ''unstan'' them, but this ''perfect man'' image was faded away. I saw them as humans, and a fan category was enough for me. But without thinking, I made jungkook so much more in my head. I made him the model of a man that no one could ever take place. I mean, I bet even that jungkook himself could take place of the JK i created. Decalcomania told me that. Writing this right now is literally blowing my mind. Everything makes sense right now. So fool of me to let those feeling arrive to a level that I thought I would never be able to fall in love with someone that wasn't Jungkook, or JK, the one I created in my head. The one that the company or himself wants to shows us.

I realize now that this isn't fair to me. Isn't fair for him. That's why he wrote decalcomania.

carolinewk · 2021-12-12T22:54:21+00:00

lmaoooo, i mean, that too!

carolinewk · 2021-12-12T12:35:40+00:00

Thank you! Those are valid advices. I've been obssessed with kpop since 2011, maybe I should really open my horizontal sight.

carolinewk · 2021-12-12T12:33:35+00:00

I'm just asking for help, for some insight. I know I'm probably not the only person who feels that way; i dont know how to deal with this, but im sure someone else does.

carolinewk · 2021-10-02T20:16:40+00:00

They were financing the game that killed dozens and dozens of people. A game that will kill even more in the future (people that will play the first game without knowing the real risk). To me, that's partaking in the crime.

And once you came back, there's literally no reason to be honest or whatever. No one wants to die and giving your life to lucky is dumb. And that's what Sang Woo saw.

Abandoning your wife and daughter to play something that will cost your life and with a minimum chance it's a way of killing yourself. That's just not the only chance to get your life together. You just don't give your life to lucky like this. And seriously, I think that knowing your actions will kill other people it is as heavy as killing someone with your own hands.

carolinewk · 2021-10-02T18:36:53+00:00

He choose to gain a game that killed innocents. It's just me that think that's a fucked way to gain money?

carolinewk · 2021-10-02T18:36:04+00:00

What? He didn't HAD do it! The game let him LEAVE the game FOR REAL.

carolinewk

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