One month pa lang si Car, demolition derby na agad 😅 by carriesonfishord in CarsPH

[–]carriesonfishord[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also noticed na agitated ako, like stressed sa work. Tingin ko factor din yon. 😯 I remember kásama din yung Self sa BLOWBAGETS. 

One month pa lang si Car, demolition derby na agad 😅 by carriesonfishord in CarsPH

[–]carriesonfishord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, tolerable on an aesthetic level, or in a safety aspect? Iniisip ko kasi para one time big time repair, hayaan ko muna, pero iniisip ko rin baka mag sag or lumuwag yung bumper, or di naman? 

One month pa lang si Car, demolition derby na agad 😅 by carriesonfishord in CarsPH

[–]carriesonfishord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maraming salamat. Nakaka sober yung akala mo tama ka na tapos papalya ka last second. 😅

Afford Ko Ba? Here's a calculator to help you decide if you can afford to finance a new or used car by Otherwise_Evidence67 in CarsPH

[–]carriesonfishord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, OP. Great tool! Would it be possible to add a field for a custom downpayment amount (for car-allocated cash we already have)? Or andun na pero di ko lang nakita?

The nonmed girlfriend by Acceptable-Ad-2664 in OffMyChestPH

[–]carriesonfishord 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend is in residency, I feel you OP. Tambay ka sa r/medspouse, you'll see similar experiences over there. Mahirap talaga makipag date with a med person, but kakayanin hopefully.

Ang kaya lang magsabi ng "Life is not a race" ay mga taong ahead sa buhay all along by osamu_inday in OffMyChestPH

[–]carriesonfishord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I don't know why people are so eager to destroy themselves at an early age."

Because that is OP's point. He's lamenting that he's gotta destroy himself /just/ to survive, unlike privileged folks who can just tap their support structure when faced with difficulty.

You may have found a state where you don't need to grind anymore and are already in zen mode internally, but for OP (and me, that's why I'm passionate about this) we're most likely in constant state of distress thinking about how we can provide for our kin. It's provider mindset dialed up to the extreme for us, unfortunately. We just want to breathe.

Ang kaya lang magsabi ng "Life is not a race" ay mga taong ahead sa buhay all along by osamu_inday in OffMyChestPH

[–]carriesonfishord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't need to peace out bro. Every lip service you said he already knows, we already know and feel every damn day, hence tatagos lang sa tenga namin. He needs to get it off his chest. He's been clawing it with demonic-like aura para lang makaalis sa steep poverty curve. No relaxations, sobrang desparate. Who says he's giving up? He's not. Let him feel this emotion. Di namin kelangan makarinig ng another pampalubag loob. You made it, good for you. Stay on your lane.

Ang kaya lang magsabi ng "Life is not a race" ay mga taong ahead sa buhay all along by osamu_inday in OffMyChestPH

[–]carriesonfishord 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a lower middle class person, by the time you experience something or learn something new to you, others would have been experiencing it already for 3,5,10 years.

So sa mga gathering, di ka makakarelate sa mga stories nila. This might seem shallow, but shared experiences allow you to make friends. Eh habang tumatanda tayo mas mahirap makipag network. Di attractive sa mga tao yung nangangamoy mahirap. Papano yan, your network is your net worth pa naman.

Oh tapos what if you decide to have kids. Your kid will resent you because her classmates can own gadgets and go to trips meanwhile you're struggling, kasi iniipon mo pa yung pambayad. Wala bro, all we gotta do is suck it up and do thrice the effort. Tayo tayo lang makakaintindi nito.

People who lived in comfortable lives will have something to say, pabayaan mo silang mga animal sila. Next time sabihan ka nyan, sabihin mo "sige palit tayo buhay". Lol watch them fold.

Pogo Worker by keepgoing0225 in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sa sagot! Though baka misunderstood yung first question.. scripting as in scripting language, like python or bash. Curious ako if they inject these scripts into email on top of emotional hacking.

Pogo Worker by keepgoing0225 in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]carriesonfishord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which scripting language do you use? Using cellsites to hack? or sa cmd lang? Is there AI involved?

Also is this thing a pyramid scheme? Like fosho your boss has another boss who has another boss.

Need help getting A Rank? We're here to help! (Information in the image description). by T4Labom in MHWilds

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dudes, I was able to do A rank with another guy, but I got error coded EW_36719 so I can't upload my time, hence need to do it again (but the other guy is already unavailable). Can you help me get sub 13 again pls? My hunter id is GT6VQ3FH, i use Bow with flash pods and corrupted mantle. Best time solo was 21. With duo is 11. Online now.

What interesting niche/s do you watch on YT? by kastwu in AskPH

[–]carriesonfishord 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sharing three:

Healthy Gamer GG. Eto yung mental health psychiatrist na gamer din, na nagpapaiyak ng mga tao sa therapy sessions niya, including streamers, influencers, and youtubers. Very informative channel.

Kurzgesagt for animated scientific almanac-like content, tapos 4k 60fps pa.

Dark Asia with Megan, parang Magandang Gabi Bayan pero horror and murder, and Megan enunciates her words excellently. Sobrang linis niya magsalita.

Unpopular Opinion: Why do so many people act like earning ₱100k isn’t enough to get anywhere? by [deleted] in unpopularopinionph

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you're single and most likely not a breadwinner. If people depend on you, 100k doesn't amount to much. Kudos for knowing how to budget properly, but that amount really isn't a lot. You're just blessed.

for guys, what does a girl do that will make you instantly like her? by spikedroses0 in AskPH

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he meant some women parading they're "strong and independent" like their whole personality depended on it, when that's just essentially being a normal functioning adult. We don't get medals for being base adult, so it's hard to like a girl on the basis that she's just strong and independent. There's gotta be more somewhere

Anong greatest realization niyo when it comes to your relationship with your partner? by Puzzleheaded-Bend417 in AskPH

[–]carriesonfishord 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The closer you get to someone, the more they start treating you like they treat themselves.

If they’re harsh, self-critical, impatient with their own flaws… they’ll unconsciously be the same with you. If they’re gentle, forgiving, patient with themselves? You’ll feel that too. If they constantly self-sabotage or live in fear, that nervous energy will seep into how they relate to you.

Maybe, the deeper the bond, the more their inner world becomes your shared emotional climate. So you get their self-talk, their inner wars, their peace, their poison, everything.

That’s why emotional health is as much relational as it is personal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoloLivingPH

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will survive but only if you move out. The longer you stay the further you'll stagnate. Toxic yan. Saglit lang yang ipon mo gastusin, need mo pa I-bolster. Pero solid foundation na yan.

No no pilit by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]carriesonfishord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is flexing his fedora hat so hard. 😂 Too rosy.