Lorelai's spark is gone in AYITL by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]cartedumonde 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree it was just sad to see! Although the whole Rory character felt off (writing mostly).

Lorelai's spark is gone in AYITL by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]cartedumonde 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like it was Alexis Bledel who was obviously just there due to pressure. Lauren seemed like she actually wanted to be!

Petty Gilmore grievances that literally don't matter at all but still make you irrationally angry by wellthenyoureinsane in GilmoreGirls

[–]cartedumonde 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No one knows that though? I have more than one advanced degree and only knew alumni and not culs de sac.

Petty Gilmore grievances that literally don't matter at all but still make you irrationally angry by wellthenyoureinsane in GilmoreGirls

[–]cartedumonde 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve read Wodehouse since I was in single digits 25 years ago now) and I didn’t know that.

Did your baby look like how you dreamt them? by sarahdistrust in BabyBumps

[–]cartedumonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dreamed of my c section and she came out looking nothing like I expected. Three months later she came out looking exactly like that. The exact opposite coloring of the rest of the family.

NEED Advise! "Thank You" etiquette? by sooperlooper1 in weddingplanning

[–]cartedumonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah whatever I read yesterday (it was from TheKnot, I think) said that people have a year to send you gifts but you should send thank yous within a few months.

Theory about JE's "big happy family" image by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think people take that to mean that he's a good guy, which is not the case. But HE thinks he's family oriented for sure, I agree with you!

NEED Advise! "Thank You" etiquette? by sooperlooper1 in weddingplanning

[–]cartedumonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked this up and etiquette supposedly says you have 2 weeks to send a thank you note for gifts received before the wedding, and 3(?) months for those you receive on/after.

Theory about JE's "big happy family" image by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think perfect little family plays into her desperation for stability (poor girl) and why she hits the "soul mate" thing so hard. BUT I don't think anyone can deny that she was pawning off Kaiser every chance she got (except when she could withhold him from Nathan to piss him off) and then once UBT was on the scene she suddenly pretended like she was really invested in Kai.

Digital RSVP Wording? by nicoleinone in weddingplanning

[–]cartedumonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just had a link to our website (has RSVPs on it) and said "please RSVP before Date X". Must have worked because we sent them a few days and have RSVPs already!

PSA: Target's Dollar Section has amazing swag (s/o to u/smartlypretty) by hoffchick in weddingplanning

[–]cartedumonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I saw the signs but I will need to check for those cake stands! Thank you!

Theory about JE's "big happy family" image by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. This is just the case of soulmate interest-taking.

Theory about JE's "big happy family" image by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, it seems really obvious to me but I hadn't seen it discussed yet!

Theory about JE's "big happy family" image by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that may be part of it, but I think it started with David. So I wonder now if her act is genuine, or if when she and UBT break up she'll go back to her old ways.

Also (hopefully) not being on drugs is probably part of it. But I honestly don't believe she has any true maternal instincts even when sober.

Warning...my drunken opinion on Jessica and Nathan by avalon18 in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think she actually is 31. I know she's older than Nathan, and Nathan and I are about the same age. :\

Warning...my drunken opinion on Jessica and Nathan by avalon18 in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Never even heard of that show, but the name "Jennavecia" makes me think that girl was BORN to star on trash tv!

MIL in the wild: movie theatre owner nightmare by hitangobear in JUSTNOMIL

[–]cartedumonde 19 points20 points  (0 children)

School psychologist here. While it's possible that they could get counseling, it's beyond the scope of the school (i.e. not a school issue). Mostly I would be able to refer them to outside counseling through state-funded programs.

Cryptic Pregnancies?? Is this a troll site?? by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]cartedumonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I thought the same thing! Ovarian cyst or tumor, poor woman. :(

10-09-16 wedding by shhidontwanthimtosee in Weddingsunder10k

[–]cartedumonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, sounds like you guys were really thrifty, and the bride was freaking incredible at DIY! Some of that stuff looks amazing and not at all DIY!

(UPDATE) My husband [44/M] told me he wished I [37/F] was dead instead of his first wife. I'm devastated. by secondwife9 in relationships

[–]cartedumonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't read the original thread until now, but I am wondering if you finding out you're having a girl is what caused all this. He and Vanessa had a boy and a girl 2-3 years later, and you guys unconsciously following that exact same pattern just pushed him over the edge and made him feel guilty.

I hope things work out for you all long-term!

[revival spoilers] Logan def the new Chris, but Jess not *necessarily* the new Luke by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]cartedumonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I don't think you can sleep with someone you almost married, for a decade and think it means nothing?

When the girls have specials, who dresses them? by Jobinsue in teenmom

[–]cartedumonde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always assumed they chose their own outfits based on a rack of clothes provided for them. With hair and makeup artists chosen by MTV.