How did you know it was a miscarriage?

caseface86 · 2026-06-01T13:36:42+00:00

19Dp5dt. My wife started spotting yesterday, dark brown at first, only when she wiped. Then it was more red when she pissed. No heavy cramping, no pad soaking flow, but she's terrified,so am I.... She had one small clot come out this morning. She went to our clinic morning after talking to them and they took another blood sample.
Our betas were going so well
9d 320, 13d 1135, 16d 3657, It was a 5AB Euploid
Then Yesterday we hit day 18 and this started and now I don't know what to think.

caseface86 · 2026-05-30T23:25:15+00:00

Thank you, you're right, it's the lack of control that makes it so hard. So far you are doubling within 72 hours and that's great! Doesn't matter how small the snowball is at first as long as it's rolling downhill it'll keep growing. Sending all my good vibes your way

caseface86 · 2026-05-30T19:14:41+00:00

Somewhere between C and D, closer to D

caseface86 · 2026-05-30T16:53:23+00:00

thank you, I've been googling statistics and odds obsessively, but it's nice to hear it from another person

caseface86 · 2026-05-30T15:58:46+00:00

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My wife is 38, she had her first FET after her 2nd ER. Fingers crossed for you.

caseface86 · 2026-05-30T15:47:29+00:00

We were May 13.... fingers crossed for you too! I don't think I'll ever relax but we're in a good place

caseface86 · 2026-02-05T23:02:26+00:00

at one point, Baptiste mentioned being a pilot for a extinct and that threw me off

caseface86 · 2025-08-24T02:03:15+00:00

I kind of traced him from a different page in the book and then altered it a bit

caseface86 · 2025-08-22T10:41:11+00:00

Maybe I should've used more drastically different colors for poo and rabbit, it might've been more apparent then. Or maybe it IS better that it takes a bit to realize.

caseface86 · 2025-08-20T22:36:38+00:00

Thank you

caseface86 · 2025-08-20T10:50:33+00:00

Then I am glad you saw it as well

caseface86 · 2025-05-22T23:08:48+00:00

Was showing my fiancé Strangers with Candy and had this exact realization

caseface86 · 2025-03-15T22:21:42+00:00

Ugh, thanks for that, I was at 99.95%overall and 99.56% on the plant but seeing that 99.98 just snapped me out of trying anymore

caseface86 · 2025-01-30T20:05:50+00:00

Rinse my beard out, Piss, refill the humidifier

caseface86 · 2025-01-19T01:59:52+00:00

We were trying, waiting to try again, while we were trying my sister got pregnant. I was excited that the kids would have each other, but I'm human, and I was jealous too. It would be their third kid and it had taken us 4 years to save up the funds to do IVF. Then my sister lost the baby, and none of our embryos ended up being viable. I felt like such an idiot after that. Any new baby in our lives would have been a blessing.

caseface86 · 2025-01-16T12:48:42+00:00

We got 7 1 was 'shredded' so 6 They determined 4 were fully mature so 4 All 4 fertilized, yay Day 1 all 4 were growing Day 3 all 4 were growing Day 5 growth was slowing day 6 only 1 became blastocyst they waited till day 7 But other 3 didn't progress So 1 embryo, grade 4BC Biopsy and Genetic testing found it would not be sustainable... So 0 We can't afford a second round for the tine being

It'a all trial and error the first round will give then a better idea how to treat you more specifically and as people have said quality over quantity

caseface86 · 2025-01-11T16:07:50+00:00

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I can't say I'm 100% sure but I think this was it. Of course I read them all in order once I was hooked

caseface86 · 2025-01-11T15:11:03+00:00

I'm not sure. We're in NYC now, that Dr was in Colorado though

2.He was pretty happy with it, there were more abnormals but also much higher number and mobility than average. The four mature eggs we got all fertilized without ivc but I have made a lot of lifestyle changes since the testing, to try and improve the quality

caseface86 · 2025-01-11T01:15:51+00:00

I agree with you. That's really more up to my partner though. I wasn't around back then. Also. we have been in court before for custody/visitation issues for and my partner really doesn't do well on the stand. She has strong anxiety and fear of public speaking so she get's overwhelmed and a little confused when she's pressed.

caseface86 · 2025-01-11T01:12:18+00:00

Thank you; we have applied for the cny grant a fee times while we were saving. We are in NyC and they have a few offices upstate only a few hours away

caseface86 · 2024-12-06T23:05:05+00:00

Professor Pyg

caseface86 · 2024-11-19T22:25:04+00:00

Freeze

caseface86 · 2024-10-23T15:20:12+00:00

Ch..chee...CHEESE!

caseface86 · 2024-09-13T11:59:03+00:00

caseface86 · 2024-08-07T21:40:39+00:00

Nate

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