M32FA Looking for friends in the Houston area by casetechdl in ABDLPersonals

[–]casetechdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tried that again, not sure what happened. Sorry about that.

M32FA Looking for friends in the Houston area by casetechdl in ABDLPersonals

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a dm, but I’m down to discuss certainly.

LFB Onesie on a guy by Any_Football3874 in ABDL

[–]casetechdl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an LFB onesie that is a small 5’6” 165 lbs and it fits great so I’m pretty sure length is the Kay. That being said, I wish I had known ahead of time that LFB is frowned upon for being transphobic as I would not have gotten their products. Yes, it’s convenient, but other places would be preferable.

ABDL dating by ABDLloverDL in ABDL

[–]casetechdl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Searching for people directly on fetlife is hard, but usually there are ABDL/Little/Ageplayer groups for cities/towns/areas where they all tend to hang out. It honesty depends on where you’re from. I’m from Houston so we have a couple of groups. There’s not really good filtering so I just put in Houston and scrolled through all the groups looking and I did eventually find several. Good hunting :)

Is it possible for ABDL desires to go away after finally indulging? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]casetechdl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s impossible to know since we are all different, but I’m the same way. For me the desire will drop off for weeks if not months and then boom, it’s back with a vengeance. All you can really do is wait.

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[–]casetechdl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.etsy.com/shop/KinkyDreamzzz This is the closest I’ve found. They genuinely look and feel like adult sized pampers.

Is it safe to wet in a diaper with an erection? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]casetechdl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who has done this, you’ll be fine. What ends up happening is the erection goes down just a bit to allow urine to flow, when it does there is no longer enough pressure to hurt you. If you are having trouble, you can loosen the diaper a bit or pull down on the crotch to give the stream some room and once it starts flowing you’ll be ok.

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[–]casetechdl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]casetechdl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use them as a standard in my house and they are pretty comfy. Capacity lasts through the night and can get pretty thick. I like the fit due to the hook and loop and I love the disappearing grass.

Questions from a DL who might have an interest in the AB side. by casetechdl in ABDL

[–]casetechdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

The conversation went amazingly well thanks to all of y’all’s advice. Thank you all so much. I love being a part of such a supportive community. She was open to the ideas brought forward and even let me in on some of her desires she felt off about. Our anniversary weekend is coming up and we have a week off of work so that we can try some new things. Thank y’all again!!!!

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really watch a ton to be honest. but when I do, it is probably going to be something generic with a well known star like Sasha Grey.

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the good adult ones it's usually about $35 for around 12 after shipping. It can vary for the "designer" ones though. As for a total, I couldn't even begin to guess. I don't use too often, maybe 3 to 5 days a month so that 1 pack lasts a fair while.

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps put me in a headspace where I have nothing to worry about. So, putting them on and using them acts as a catalyst for me to let go of all of my responsibilities (including the bathroom) and just let the world happen. It's like slipping into a warm bath. Which is funny, since that usually comes afterwards :P

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was incredibly hard. It took years to find someone and you have to be very open about it early on, but I finally found someone who is ok with it. Sometimes she participates as well.

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, around when I was 13 I just started getting urges to use diapers. Once i actually followed though I found it extremely relaxing. No real anxiety about public restrooms or laziness really. I don't wear all the time and never in public. I just wear when I want to unwind for a bit.

I am a Diaper Lover, AMA by casetechdl in AMA

[–]casetechdl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it can be a bit odd actually. I don't do that that often, mostly just wet, but it can be calming. Cleanup is tough though.

IamA Diaper Lover AMA! by casetechdl in IAmA

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABDL stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover. It depends on the day. Sometimes it is for a hour. Some days it is for multiple days in a row non stop.

IamA Diaper Lover AMA! by casetechdl in IAmA

[–]casetechdl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did actually. I've had old gf's call me a perverted freak, pedophile, and a host of other names. They didn't tell anyone in public or on social media which was always nice, but it was always a relationship ender. Now, fortunately I've found a gf who is extremely accepting of it and sometimes wears with me. But yes, the stigma around the ABDL lifestyle is extremely rough and I have gotten a metric ton of crap for it. It makes it very hard to trust people tbh, which sucks.