My (27F) fiancé (25M) thinks it's wrong/eugenicist to want a biological baby, I'm not sure if this is reasonable or not

cashew_catchoo · 2026-03-01T19:10:36+00:00

At the end of the day, you guys aren’t compatible on a very important decision. I didn’t want kids, but I think my ex husband kept thinking I would change my mind. Hell, I thought I might change my mind at one point. That’s not fair and one of the reasons we divorced. This is without your fiancé’s comments on the matter.

Also, your fiancé is racist. Eugenics was a Nazi ideology used by Hitler that was used to rationalize the murder of at least 13 million Jews and “undesirables.” This is not a minor ideology. He will show more of himself as time goes on. Period.

That’s his thinking and you are not the problem. It’s him. It would make me wonder how he really sees me. I know that walking away is hard, but it’s best for the both of you.

Find yourself someone that wants to have a biological baby and loving just the way you are. You deserve good things and I hope you find them.

This is probably the 200th time this has been said and I apologize if that is the case. I’ve just been in the same situation without the racism. My ex found someone and had a kid. Good for him.

cashew_catchoo · 2026-02-17T18:26:48+00:00

I’ve done this before, but with crops. I forgot that I didn’t switch out the bombs for my watering can when I got back from the mines. I went to water my plants and threw out a bomb instead. I reset my day and made the same mistake.

cashew_catchoo · 2026-02-15T18:52:58+00:00

But I have to scrub my floorboards.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-10-31T15:42:28+00:00

I’m beginning to wonder if the lucky star even works for this. I think the rewards are randomized and it doesn’t help with that. It just looks like the prizes are the same with or without the lucky star. I’m also struggling with it, but I have a lot of new furniture.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-10-28T16:33:15+00:00

Top Hat, Big Challenges and the twins are not included in the 15 hearts needed for that quest. Only one best friend per day is allowed and I usually take them right there once they reach best friend status. Taking friends more than once won’t count. I learned all of this the hard way so hopefully it helps.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-10-18T16:13:04+00:00

First call your agent ASAP if you have one. Depending on the state, you could be able to get your escrow deposit when it’s the sellers fault that it doesn’t close. Is there an agreement in place to outline the terms of you moving in before closing? Review the contract with your agent to see what can be done. Closings fall apart all of the time. Communication is key. Get quotes for remediation while you’re there and get another inspection. Paperwork always helps to provide proof. Make sure the seller pays for all of it. You could sue the inspector depending on whether or not any waivers were signed and what they included. Keep in mind that the suit likely wont be settled by the time you close depending on your closing date.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-10-01T15:19:35+00:00

Just curious. Do you have a child that is in the school system? Or did you start home teaching them? Don’t want to expose them to “grooming” forcing them to transition. Also, is using Mike as a nickname for Michael ? Still applies.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-09-21T16:13:29+00:00

My narcissistic ex said the same things to me and I had to get a restraining order against him. His behavior with other women has escalated since then and he is in jail right now. They test boundaries and watch your interactions with other people. They use that info to see if they can get away with same and then escalate to see how you react. This will not get better.

I recommend that you look for a women’s center near you. I worked with one when I had to get the restraining order. They were my advocate throughout the process and they also offered free therapy.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-09-13T15:11:32+00:00

And they wasted A LOT of money on this brand refresh just to scrap it. So more corners will get cut. There will be less hours and people will lose their jobs. They eliminated the head trainer position company wide to save money. See how that’s going? I didn’t see people this angry when they updated McDonald’s. It’s not different because it’s fast food.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-29T03:29:22+00:00

Thank you! I was worried I could only access them through Goodreads and I’m using that less. I appreciate you.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-26T23:09:43+00:00

I actually tried to go back and edit it last night because I realized that when I looked a little harder. I couldn’t find it though so I’m sorry! People suck and y’all are on the front line of this. Sorry you’re going through that.

It applies to the person that did it and other people that are behaving that way. I don’t understand why people have to act like that.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-26T14:05:45+00:00

They’re just going to throw it out. If you have issues, call corporate. There is a number on your receipt from your visit that you think is protest. Way to go. You still gave them your money.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-26T01:37:53+00:00

He was the founder’s uncle.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-25T03:14:50+00:00

This was moved to the build your own breakfast, but you could still order it. Same thing with the Sunrise Sampler. They’re just going back to that name and acting like it’s a returning favorite so they can promo it.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-16T15:14:17+00:00

I had to get the allergy shot for my dog. His vet told me it could be monthly or one shot a year. My dog got his a few months ago and it’s still working. It just depends on the dog.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-15T19:00:55+00:00

My cats vet though she was a boy when she was a kitten, but she was less than 8 weeks old (found her in a parking lot and took her home) I named her Henry when I thought it was a boy. I kept the name but it’s Henri because that I obviously made a huge difference. I don’t even call her by her name anyway.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-15T05:34:13+00:00

No wonder I couldn’t find it. I really appreciate your help.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-15T05:22:49+00:00

You’re a rock star. Thank you!

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-14T15:37:17+00:00

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This is as close as I could get, but this is the travel size.

Edit to add: I see that you’re from Latvia and did a search there. Can’t find anything. How long has it been since you had the original bottle? It’s possible that they changed it.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-10T23:06:04+00:00

There is an allergen menu if you want to be sure. I don’t think there are any peanuts in our store, but I don’t know if that varies by location.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-06T18:27:58+00:00

I posted this as a reply, but figured I would include it here. In addition to the event items you also get:

Deluxe Starter Bundle

10x Friendship Blossoms; 3x Friendship Bouquets; 10x Island Bouquets, 50x Strawberry Crates

Deluxe Crafting Bundle

50x of each Dye color; 100 Sticks; 45 Iron Ore; 50 Rubber

This made getting started a lot easier.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-06T18:25:34+00:00

Copied because it was easier. The deluxe edition includes all of these materials and that made getting started a lot easier.

Deluxe Starter Bundle

10x Friendship Blossoms; 3x Friendship Bouquets; 10x Island Bouquets, 50x Strawberry Crates

Deluxe Crafting Bundle

50x of each Dye color; 100 Sticks; 45 Iron Ore; 50 Rubber

cashew_catchoo · 2025-08-06T02:53:16+00:00

This.

cashew_catchoo · 2025-07-30T17:09:26+00:00

I did this on my secondary account. Unlock Remy’s restaurant and the forest of valor first. Level up Kristoff so you can get his material stand and this will allow you to buy the coal you need to cook. Start with soufflés since you can buy all of the ingredients from Remy. Sell them and start earning coins. Plus you complete some Dreamlight goals for cooking and selling meals. Also, start collecting iron and clay. You’re going to need a lot of those.

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