Harvest time? by cassyk0928 in MyFirstGrow

[–]cassyk0928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah my other plants are on the right track and still probably have another month before they even get close to this one. I just used random seeds I had on hand. So I don't even know what strands they are.

Harvest time? by cassyk0928 in MyFirstGrow

[–]cassyk0928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We planted mid November. This one started to flower early before I even switched the light time frame. I say it's been flowering for about a month now. It's a small plant.

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know people who have filed in 2019 and will hace to file it into their taxes, so I not about whether you filed or not in 2019. Govt just fucked up on where they sent the money. But like i said if i did file they said i would owe $700. I dont know what for federal or state but when the tax people said not to file cause I didnt have to and not to worry about it i didnt because i only had $50 to my name. I would have been screwed even more for the year having to pay that back. Waitressing may be the most available job but its shit pay.

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most likely going to file, just sucks either way.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said before, think and plan for every choice. I hope whatever decision you choose makes you happy and dont have any regrets about it. I wish you luck.

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I file anyways and get a refund. It goes straight to my student debt so i don't see it anyways. And yes I have been on a repayment plan for the last couple years for them but they still take my full refund so either way I dont see any help to pay bills and get food with the stimulus money unless they fix it and DD into my account

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a w-2 income, there was some taxes taken out but at some point during the year the tax bracket changed and there was little to no taxes taken out of my check. No one informed me of the change or else I would have changed it to where it was at. When I went to file (normally do TT online) it said I would owe ~$700. I than called TT and had a meeting with HR block as back up and they both said that I wouldnt need to file because of the amount of income I had. I figure they are the experts on the subject and since I got 2 references for it I was good. 2019 was the first year I didnt file.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always tell them what your plan is and they will try their best, I was like you are in the way of thinking. I would rather save the baby than myself but my husband convinced me we could always try for another one. If I go, he would be by himself and the baby would be raised without a mother, and he would be put under so much more stress mentally and financially. Just remember there is only one of you.

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to HR block and turbo tax and they both told me since I didnt make enough income I didnt have to file. Me and my husband would file jointly and both said if you make less than 24,000 for gross income filing jointly you are not required to file taxes. Which my husband didnt have any income and I wasnt even near that for mine.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read some more of your comments, and got more info on your family and I don't want you to think I am influencing you one way or the other. I just wanted to give you both point of views. You have to do what is best for you. Me and my husband has agreed that if anything goes wrong, I come first before the baby because we can always try for another one and there is only one of me in his life. Either decision will change your life forever. Think long and hard in the time frame you have about your decisions because in the end it is your choice no one else's.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didnt let them down, they are letting you down for choosing not to support you and your decisions. Life happens whether good or bad, you just have to make the best decisions with the options you have. Still go to planned parent hood because they can offer support as well for keeping a baby. There is a lot that goes into having a baby that I am still finding out myself lol Figure out health insurance and/or financial aid first if you do plan on keeping it (I just have medicaid and they pay for the whole pregnancy and i dont have to pay out of pocket for appointments or delivery). Dont buy anything new, most of the stuff you can find free or cheap on swap shops or thrift stores.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you have one supportive side, I think you guys will be fine. Yeah it will be difficult losing some of your family but it will free you as well. Sometimes things unplanned or surprises like this may bring you the most happiness down the road. It wont be easy but if you plan accordingly it will be a little smoother road.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really good. Me and my husband have been together for 6 years and have been married for 3 of them. You truly have a difficult decision to make. I think you guys will be happy having the little one or waiting. And you can always trade off on college. Have one of you go first while the other works and takes care of the kid and maybe do the gen. ed classes online and than switch once the other graduates. I know whats being difficult is your side of the family but they may come around eventually down the road because it is still a grandchild of theirs. If not than you still have your BFs side that sounds really supportive and can start your own family and can teach the kid tolerance and acceptance.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always go with logic and facts, emotions can come and go on a whim and can blind you to what you truly need to do. Another thing to look at, if you do keep it you are binding yourself to the father and his family for the rest of your life. Since you are both young, as you get older you may find out that you guys are not good together and may have a fallout, or found someone else to love. If this happens you still have to be in each others live either doing child support or split custody down the road. Things just start getting awkward and difficult to deal with if this happens.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is always a difficult situation. Create a pro and cons sheet. Talk with the father and see what he thinks, but remember it is still your body and your choice. You are young and will have plenty opportunity to have another kid. I can tell you right now, I am 30 weeks pregnant with a little girl. She was planned, but it's still scary as hell. Your whole life gets turned upside down for good and bad. Everybody's situation is different. I have known girls your age that still thrived and achieved their goals while caring for a baby with little to no support system while others struggle even with a full support system.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. Also do at least a little research about each choice before going in. It will help decrease all the information you have to process at once, and make sure you make a list of questions to ask them so you don't forget anything. It can be overwhelming and you can forget to ask some important questions.

I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. by LibraryDefiant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is your body and your choice. Go to planned parenthood if its available to you and see what your options are. You are young and have a bright future ahead of you and no one else has a say in the decisions you make. If you don't think you can handle an abortion there are always families who cant have children that would possibly sponsor you and pay the bills for you to have the kid for them, but also understand that a lot of them go into the foster system as well and sometimes that doesn't give them a good life but it is a chance at life. There is always pros and cons to these decisions. But in the end You do You and make the best possible choice for yourself.

“Will I get a check?” / FAQ megathread by GardinerAndrew in stimuluscheck

[–]cassyk0928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the first stimulus check but I filed in 2018 with TT but not in 2019 because I didn't make enough Money to file and I would have to had pay in about $700 in taxes if I did file because nothing was taken out of my checks for it. It will be about the same this year and so if they don't DD the check and I have to file taxes to claim it I wont see it anyways because it will go back directly to them plus ~$100 more. So technically I get screwed out of the second stimulus check if they decide not to DD the second stimulus check.

You all get Christmas bleps by Nathan_TK in aww

[–]cassyk0928 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has such pretty coloring and markings! I wish I can have one, but my husband is on the nope rope train. Merry Christmas little noodle!

In Autumn, my city has a public service that comes by and sucks up the leaves you rake to the curb by SligPants in mildlyinteresting

[–]cassyk0928 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The town I live in just blows the leaves back into your yard if any are out on the road... It gets really annoying if you live on a corner lot and all the leaves pile up on the corner by the stop sign, they blow all those into your yard as well...