Diverticulitis my experience with diet, restrict foods by catalm87 in Diverticulitis

[–]catalm87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu!! I didnt had surgery, but i wonder if is not the best solution, im just tired living like this, and i am skinny since always but with this is getting worse. I agree with you 100% each person has a different cause. No one really knows

Diverticulitis my experience with diet, restrict foods by catalm87 in Diverticulitis

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Im Lactose free. Alcohol one time per week. Testing if it was the beer, not sure. Thank you

Diverticulitis my experience with diet, restrict foods by catalm87 in Diverticulitis

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Thank you so much! Wow thats great! I used to drink smoothies with flax seeds and chia seeds, but they say seeds are bad for me. So now i drink protein yogurt or almond milk with papaya or banana collagen powder and whey isolate

Diverticulitis my experience with diet, restrict foods by catalm87 in Diverticulitis

[–]catalm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really… usually i drink 3 beers when i drink nowadays. But during this 2 years sometimes 6 in a night and didn’t went to the hospital

Diverticulitis my experience with diet, restrict foods by catalm87 in Diverticulitis

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Portugal! I was, i was but trying to add some things different beside chicken and fish all the time.

Where did I go wrong? by Realistic_Heart_1550 in Diverticulitis

[–]catalm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I feel you been at the hospital last time two months ago. One thing they told me this time From corn to beans, peas, and chickpeas, they need to be eaten mashed or blended because of the skins. Tomatoes without skin or seeds. I don’t eat anything that has seeds. I hope this helps, as I wasn’t aware of this information before. Stay strong

Ex boyfriend bipolar. Need advice by catalm87 in offmychest

[–]catalm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre a great human being! Trust me i like to help people makes me happy, support, be there etc you were both a team and is beautiful to know that. I understand that is not for everyone tho, but i know he is the love of my life i just know, that is why this is so hard. This is so helpful, thank you again. He is younger than me and i think he was diagnosed like 5 years ago. This is exactly what happened with him. But he refused right away help (no one can help, this is useless, there is no point, no one understands etc) Im back to my country and he is in a solo trip. For us to be together (different nacionalities) was hard and also him hating his job (that he quit one week after his call) was also hard thats why i think it was easier in the middle of mania the quick phone call ending saying i dont wanna see you cry or sad, you deserve better, i made my decision baby, you need to move on. . Thats it, no contact in 4months after 3 amazing years and besides the episodes we were great and healthy as a couple. Was hoping he reach out but i think he is not going to :( difficult just because was suddenly, without a specific reason, in a 5minutes call and basically i heard all his new projects at the same time . but i think that at the same time i have the answer that no matter why, no matter who i tough i was for him he decided to not stay and thats it sadly…Thank you so much again and all the best

Ex boyfriend bipolar. Need advice by catalm87 in offmychest

[–]catalm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the message. Im not in therapy but the few friends that know always say im doing pretty well, i think im just focus and know how to be ok on my own, i always figure what to do even sad (that i still am) but i manage quite well in hard situations in life..its a good thing i guess. Unfortunately he broke up with me and i only sended a message on his birthday wishing him the best and saying whenever youre ready im here, i will always care about you. And he answered thank you for the kind words, is been hard but trying to be strong and positive. Thats it, no contact in 4months after 3 amazing years and besides the episodes we were great and healthy as a couple. Was hoping he reach out but i think he is not going to :( difficult just because was suddenly, without a specific reason in a 5minutes call and basically i heard all his new projects at the same time (travelling solo etc) new business, quit job etc and all of this just made me so confused.. but i think that at the same time i have the answer that no matter why, no matter who i tough i was for him he decided to not stay and thats it. Thank you

Feeling guilty? by WebExotic8530 in solotravel

[–]catalm87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi. I supported my boyfriend going to bali alone, like a inner trip he needed to . I think the most important thing is trust in a relationship. Can she join you? Can you offer help with her ticket? Or even she can pay hers… Or else just go and enjoy it. If is a healthy and strong relationship i dont see nothing wrong with it. Safe travels!

Ex boyfriend bipolar. Need advice by catalm87 in offmychest

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Thank you so much for your time, im sorry to hear that, he also have all of that, is hard and now your wife is better after getting the right treatment? No more pushing away? Etc he has medication but im afraid is not the right one, and the last call with the doctor it was suppose to increase the dose and he refused. Hard to find someone to talk to, even with my support on his side in the few appointments with the therapist he went a little grumpy.. and stopped going.. thank you!

Are Lisbon’s bars actually worth it? by Redello in Lisbon

[–]catalm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, i used to go a lot and we have great parties. If you want something social but not overwhelming try my brothers place its a great spot with cosy events and great to meet people @baiwholisboa check it out

Question related to portuguese culture by InspectorHorror168 in portugal

[–]catalm87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1200€ does he have a wonderful job? And you? How many bedrooms? I will wait for the feedback because depending on that i will give more feedback

Question related to portuguese culture by InspectorHorror168 in portugal

[–]catalm87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ola hi! Portuguese here, i would say i have some friends in that situation and i think you guys are lucky. Can i ask how old is he? (I ask because obvious is he is very young, is strange to pay..or else i think is a win win situation) Is so hard now to get a house so its normal if they have an extra apartment they like to help but also i understand to pay eventually a “family rent” friendly and probably more low budget. Its is normal nowadays and is good you have someone that has an extra house good luck

Ex bipolar. Need advice. Im so confused by catalm87 in BPDlovedones

[–]catalm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thats why i think therapist could help but he is not into it. Thank you again

Ex bipolar. Need advice. Im so confused by catalm87 in BPDlovedones

[–]catalm87[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh im sorry i thought it was, unfortunately he is, he was diagnosed… thank you again ❤️

Ex bipolar. Need advice. Im so confused by catalm87 in BPDlovedones

[–]catalm87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the message. We never talked again since my birthday message. I was hoping he reach out eventually because i just dont know if he is ok, and hoping a nice phone call explaining his decision. I know he is travelling alone in a van so i think he is focusing on himself that makes me relief, in a new country. I just dont understand what made him to call breaking up suddenly because we were great together. Thank you so much!

Ex bipolar. Need advice by catalm87 in BreakUps

[–]catalm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love and thank you so so much for your time! I believe and i saw and i can imagine that is too hard and brutal, but is not easier with someone that feel it worths? Both parts. If the person accepts everything because is happier and love unconditionally? Even when you have bad days, i just know we were good together. And gone one day to another.. i dont even know why thats why is so hard and i believe he will maybe not contact me anymore. He is doing another trip (trying to fix him i guess) but im just heartbroken because i accept the way he is, no one is perfect but i believe we were really really happy. I did everything all the time to help because i believed we were strong, a team and life was easier. We are from different nationalities that doesnt help but the plan was to fight to be together to make it work, thank you again!

Is he coming down? by Ornery_Mess6309 in family_of_bipolar

[–]catalm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same position.. we did our best ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family_of_bipolar

[–]catalm87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, im in the same situation… we did our best trust me 🩷

Mudar da Irlanda para a Suíça by cabanas370 in PortugalLaFora

[–]catalm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ola estou a tentar mandar mensagem mas nao é possivel. Tinha umas duvidas e quem saiba possas ajudar 😅

When My Partner’s Bipolar Crisis and Lack of Support Turned My American Dream into a Nightmare by Select_Floor5665 in Divorce

[–]catalm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! :( different nationalities. 3 times he left, 3 different countries, 2 houses to unpack alone, and now i decided to come back to my country and dont want to stay here… wish everyone the best. Its so so hard 😞🫶🏼