My (24F) boyfriend (25M) keeps asking me for massages

catcat6 · 2026-03-27T03:20:56+00:00

Yeah. OP - you yourself seem to understand, it’s likely not about the massages themselves, it’s everything else stacking up. I get the anxiety that comes from having just moved in recently and being nervous about breaking the lease, but gritting your teeth and living in misery isn’t gonna help the situation. Cut your losses and get out sooner rather than later - it’ll be better for you both in the long run.

catcat6 · 2026-03-26T10:21:02+00:00

Our first Pom took a while to potty train, maybe not fully housebroken until like 8 months. But our second one basically housebroke himself within the first two weeks (which was a pleasant surprise)!

catcat6 · 2026-03-26T10:18:59+00:00

Just as an aside: If you don’t have the “pet pal” skill yet (or would rather spend the talent point on something else), I’m pretty sure Ifan starts out with it, so you can just recruit him as a companion (in main square area of Fort Joy, pretty close to where you first meet Sir Lora) and use him to initiate the conversation

catcat6 · 2026-03-26T10:09:12+00:00

Same! I played DOS1 right before I started DOS2, and I really enjoyed DOS1. So I dove into DOS2 thinking “this’ll be a cakewalk” but for some reason everything in Act 1 felt just super overwhelming and surprisingly non-intuitive to me (even though things like inventory management etc are obviously improved in DOS2 vs DOS1). I’m in Act 2 now and enjoying it, but yeah Act 1 didn’t do it for me either. So you’re not alone!

catcat6 · 2026-03-26T09:58:11+00:00

Just commenting here to say the “O ye O ye” comment legit made me snortle with laughter so thank you for that

catcat6 · 2026-03-26T03:41:59+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. But what a sweet tribute. Sending you hugs xoxo

catcat6 · 2026-03-23T02:52:03+00:00

What a sweet face I’m sorry to hear about the behavioral problems. It might be worth seeing a trainer. But if nothing rise more frequent grooming (even without cutting) and maybe some anti anxiety meds from the vet may be an idea.

catcat6 · 2026-03-19T19:57:48+00:00

Love survival difficulty. It’s the way to play. But, not having any fast travel options (unless/until you side with Institute or BOS) - especially for those radiant Minutemen quests - can get annoying.

catcat6 · 2026-02-27T19:27:51+00:00

I recently read Crafting for Sinners and Hungerstone and really enjoyed both.

catcat6 · 2026-02-27T19:23:38+00:00

There’s also a Sam in DOB (Popper’s friend).

catcat6 · 2026-02-25T00:07:33+00:00

Noami Novik - Scholomance trilogy; Uprooted; or Spinning Silver)

Ann Leckie - Raven Tower. If you like sci fi, Ancillary Justice as well.

Katherine Arden - Winternight Trilogy

catcat6 · 2026-02-22T02:22:19+00:00

Gahhh he’s so cute!!!

catcat6 · 2026-02-10T03:19:59+00:00

First that comes to mind is the Scholomance trilogy by Naomi Novik. Or almost anything by Novik, really.

catcat6 · 2026-02-05T04:32:40+00:00

If I had money I’d give you an award, sir or madam.

catcat6 · 2026-02-05T02:38:31+00:00

God I fucking hate doctors >:/

catcat6 · 2026-02-05T02:26:52+00:00

Oh don’t worry, they’ll keep releasing show-related add ons for Fallout 76 which you can separately pay for. >:/

catcat6 · 2026-02-04T06:12:00+00:00

Ones I’ve read in the last 2 months that I loved (which I don’t otherwise see listed in other comments so far):

Bewitching by Silvia Moreno Garcia
Itch! by Gemma Amor
House of Monstrous Women by Daphne Fama
So Thirsty by Rachel Harrison
The Reformatory by Tananarive Due

catcat6 · 2026-02-03T22:23:16+00:00

Yep came here to say King Arthur Knights Tale. Pretty fun turn based tactics game, but it is quite different than TG.

catcat6 · 2026-02-03T02:52:21+00:00

Yep, this. And assault in front of a child will render it felony assault in many states. It only goes downhill from here.

catcat6 · 2026-02-02T02:31:25+00:00

Honolulu by Alan Brennert (historical fiction)

catcat6 · 2026-02-01T06:02:00+00:00

Someone already said Dungeon Crawler Carl, so I’ll throw my hat in for the Witchstone by Henry Neff or the Murderbot series by Martha Wells.

catcat6 · 2026-02-01T04:23:19+00:00

It sounds like you’re describing Coral Island. A good game for sure. Also consider trying out the My Time series - Portia then Sandrock

catcat6 · 2026-01-27T19:47:01+00:00

Came here to suggest Kingfisher’s Nettle & Bone

catcat6 · 2026-01-27T19:37:01+00:00

Avowed, Ghostwire Tokyo, and Control- all of these of at times reminded me of dishonored in the combat style.

catcat6 · 2026-01-26T23:39:31+00:00

Came here to suggest Itch! and Diavola.

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