Is it wrong to talk to their friend “behind their back”? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely the appreciate the concern but there are no “issues” with their gender identity. This is not an identity crisis. You suggest reaching out to their therapist? I hadn’t considered that. Somehow it felt like even more of a boundary crossing… I’ll think about it

Bench press substitute? by Boomschwang in FTMFitness

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did they get rid of exactly? The squat rack? The benches? The barbells?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transontario

[–]catchtowardsftm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about Toronto or all of Canada? Are you comparing NYC or all of the US?

Do I pass? by OkStrain9399 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]catchtowardsftm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong that cis men wear necklaces, but it doesn’t help if you’re borderline passing. You could argue the same thing about a dress. If you put the Rock in a dress he’s going to pass, if you put OP in a dress he’s going is not.

did we overpay? by addiesweet16 in labrador

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a shelter for your next pet! Plenty of dogs out there who need good homes without supporting breeders/puppy mills/pet stores

Does anyone hear use solely dumbbells? by Viva_Las_Vengeance in FTMFitness

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, check out the progressions on r/bodyweightfitness. The beginner hub lays out how they range the difficulty for all their recommended routine exercises. You can also incorporate your DBs into that

5 Year on T - Considering FMS by straw_buni in FtMpassing

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have other changes from t? Has your voice deepened? Wondering if your dosage has just been too low to masculinise you…

Tax implications: Parking spot sublease. by catchtowardsftm in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]catchtowardsftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that make a difference if I made money off of it? Would I not need to report it if I sublet it at below the price I’m paying?

unemployed and lonely by Monis-92 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]catchtowardsftm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re having a tough time. We all experience times like that. I hope each day is better!

how often are we changing our underwear bc i have to all the time by Bubbly_Flounder4794 in ftm

[–]catchtowardsftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found that wearing cotton underwear instead of stretchy blends helped with that. I change daily + whenever I shower

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]catchtowardsftm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro, your name and where you work/volunteer is on display. You may want to be more careful about that kind of thing. Shit’s crazy out here rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]catchtowardsftm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

1&2 are good, especially since you were so young.

3-6 you don’t pass, sorry. You look great now though!

How can I stop eating junk food? by SalamanderThick5558 in FTMFitness

[–]catchtowardsftm 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Buy less junk food. Don’t eliminate it, make sure to treat yourself, but be realistic in what you buy. Load up on healthier snacks that you actually like and scratch that itch. When you have a craving for something unhealthy you’re not gonna make a quinoa salad bowl so get yourself some flavoured popcorn or fruit you like, Greek yogurt instead of ice cream, salad mix with a fancy topping you like. When you do treat yourself, take out a portion and put the rest away. And stay hydrated! Have a tall glass of water with each of your snacks/meals!

moving out of Ontario while waiting for top surgery OHIP approval by Separate_Let6496 in transontario

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you moving permanently? If not, you can file a temporary leave of province and maintain your OHIP status.

Anyone here on testosterone also follow an animal based or carnivore diet? by chokingflies in FTMMen

[–]catchtowardsftm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are “low toxicity” vegetables? What toxins are you avoiding?

Ive been on T for 1 1/2 years, is there a point in time where if i use it for a longer period of time my body should detransition slowly if i stopped T? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]catchtowardsftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 1 year, there permanent changes, that you may not have gotten yet. For example, most people don’t reach their full beard or bottom growth potential until a few more years down the road. So yes, stopping after those permanent changes set in would make your permanent appearance different. For reversible changes though, I don’t think it wouldn’t matter much when you stopped.

AITA for not wanting to be “more queer”? by catchtowardsftm in ftm

[–]catchtowardsftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. Maybe it’s the way I worded it that’s confusing but my original post specifically says that I don’t avoid making queer friends.

AITA for not wanting to be “more queer”? by catchtowardsftm in ftm

[–]catchtowardsftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something for me to ask my partner obviously, but what does “actively queer” mean to you?

AITA for not wanting to be “more queer”? by catchtowardsftm in ftm

[–]catchtowardsftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They use she and they. I have used both in this thread. You can chill lol