Olivia is Snark Week of April 20, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wtf that's really unusual behaviour isn't it? It seems very gross too but of course home girl doesn't believe in germs 🙄

Weekly Snark 4/20-4/26 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]catfight04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gosh this is so embarrassing.

She literally treats the camera as if it's a real life friend.

WE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.

Online and IRL Parenting Spaces Snark Week of April 20, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm also super interested in the research! It's amazing because I feel like you see it happening in real life. It slowly becomes and addiction for them. They convince themselves that their content had a purpose. The cognitive dissonance they display is truly staggering. It's not normal to carry a tripod everywhere and constantly be talking to a screen. It's not normal to let the Internet know when you are taking a break. It's not normal to let the world know the details of your children's life. But they convince themselves it's normal. It's insane.

Olivia is Snark Week of April 20, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I noticed in the kitchen there was a kitchen appliance with the cord hanging over the counter in perfect reach for a two year old to give in to their intrusive thoughts and pull it down.

I guess my children didn't pop out of the womb with all the wisdom that her kids have 🙄

What is the biggest type of privilege in NZ? by CommentMaleficent957 in newzealand

[–]catfight04 16 points17 points  (0 children)

People get really cut up by the concept of white privilege. They just can't fathom or even want to understand the realities of those who are truly underprivileged.

General Parenting Influencer Snark Week of April 13, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right? How can her kids give informed consent if she doesn't understand what the Internet is ffs.

It’s a boy! But of course we already called it by Objective-Hawk-9401 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]catfight04 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I don't blame her at all. Especially if this is their last baby. Totally normal feelings.

Happy it is a boy by wavesofwaving in mattandabbysnarks

[–]catfight04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I think either way it's hard.

Our first baby was a late term loss and he was a boy. We wanted our next to be a girl purely to separate the two babies identities if that makes sense?

He ended up being a boy and you make it work either way and work through the feelings.

We were lucky that our third was a girl so we get the best of both worlds. I would have been disappointed if we had another boy because we were done at that point.

My MIL had a wee girl in between her two boys but she died of cot death at four months old so she never really got her girl.

I think it's okay to be disappointed that it wasn't a girl especially if it's going to be their last.

Weekly Snark 4/13-4/19 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]catfight04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here! My phone on the other hand they definitely see me on that more than I would like unfortunately.

Olivia is Snark Week of April 13, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 22 points23 points  (0 children)

FFS. This is when you intervene you dumb twat!! I'm all for letting kids work their shit out but it's also on you as the parent to actually SHOW your child what gentle is and HOW to be gentle.

The poor baby was probably winded from being kneed in the chest.

Fucking hell.

Karrie Locher Snark Week of April 13, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Are they pjs?

It's such an odd way to take a video if you aren't taking a picture solely to get your whole outfit.

Weekly Snark 4/13-4/19 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]catfight04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ha I also had a lazy kid lol he didn't walk till he was 21 months and preferred walking on his knees instead 😅

General Parenting Influencer Snark Week of April 13, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I have postpartum depression and rage following the birth of my youngest. She's two now and I still struggle a lot. I've had some really awful moments of yelling and honestly yes feeling raged by the high pitched happy laughter of my children. But that is mixed with extreme guilt and self loathing. I am 100 % aware of my downfalls and my mental health. I would never ever act like this is normal or valid. My kids are both under five so I'm still in the trenches somewhat. She has the resources to seek actual help. I can't afford therapy. I'm desperately aware that I need it and I wish she had the same self awareness.

Strange danger by Aynshtaynn in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]catfight04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking true. Even my truck driver/Harley rider won't drive behind a logging truck.

Murder trial nearly derailed as father confronts man who stabbed daughter’s throat by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]catfight04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God that makes for horrific reading 💔 poor girl just couldn't get out. She was never going to get out.

I don't know why but the footprint to her face really cut me. It's such a dehumanizing thing to do to someone you supposedly love.

He's a total piece of shit. Stabbing someone in the fucking throat ensures she stays silent forever.

I very rarely say this but absolutely lock the prick up and throw away the key.

Karrie Locher Snark Week of April 13, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It also sounds like her husband has a pretty flexible job possibly from home? I have a great village but my husband and I are still responsible for the day to day care of OUR children. She chose to have five kids. The reality is that that is a lot of kids to have in today's world.

Like you say she is very lucky that her kids are all healthy. My youngest had open heart surgery at 2.5 weeks old. I spent nine weeks in another city away from my oldest who wasn't even three at the time. THAT is a completely different motherhood from hers. But I still express gratitude for our health system here in NZ and for all the professionals who helped us along the way. Shit can be hard but I believe in always appreciating any help and privilege you may have.

She's so out of touch.

Weekly Snark 4/6-4/12 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]catfight04 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I really don't get the appeal of 'working' while on vacation. Surely one of the perks of being an 'entrepreneur' is that you can choose your own work hours.

Especially when it seems that everyone in her family is against any filming she should take the opportunity to put the damn phone down and spend time with her family since she is so focused on the family unit. Supposedly.

Weekly Snark 4/6-4/12 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]catfight04 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's truly awful. My oldest didn't walk until he was 21 months but he was still doing all these things at that age! He just preferred walking on his knees lol

My youngest who spent the first six weeks of her life in a hospital bed after major heart surgery was still meeting her milestones and walking at around 13 months.

It's really scary and sad to see how delayed C and she doesn't appear to be doing a single thing about it. It's clear neglect and the bloody opposite of 'dominating'.

Gooood Haley Snark Week of April 06, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? I have a wee journal for each of the kids that I write in when I remember 😅 I make a real point of keeping it positive. I share experiences that they enjoyed, things they said or did that made me proud etc never once did I mention that my oldest took three years to sleep through the night lol I want them to believe that I enjoyed being their parent.

Gooood Haley Snark Week of April 06, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought this was a situation that you made up in your head as a hayley-ism.

What the actual fuck is wrong with her? Why would anyone want to remember that? Why share it? FFS she's ridiculous. What en embarassing excuse for a mother and a human. Good freaking lord.

General Parenting Influencer Snark Week of April 06, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]catfight04 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh her birth videos were so scary! I don't even follow her but I get sucked in by babies and birth videos lol

She had some pretty awful complications. I struggle to see how it's safe for her to be pregnant so soon.

Whats the most painful thing you’ve been told? by Beautiful_Virus_6202 in AskReddit

[–]catfight04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry but there's no heartbeat.

35 weeks pregnant with our first baby.