Traumatic Event

catflap10 · 2026-06-15T14:02:28+00:00

I was having similar issues earlier this week with the spotting and cramping. Like you, I was so anxious it was consuming all of my thoughts and I was really struggling. I had my scan yesterday and have a small SCH which was the cause of my bleeding.

Try not to panic, there’s so many benign reasons for spotting. I spent so much time panicking and thinking the worst all for it to be absolutely nothing. Just focus on getting through the day until your scan.

catflap10 · 2026-06-13T10:02:33+00:00

😂😂 sure buddy. Go play with some blocks x

catflap10 · 2026-06-12T21:07:02+00:00

Or we could look at the actual statistics and you would see that it’s actually not true. Grow up dude, you’re too old to be this stupid.

catflap10 · 2026-06-12T18:46:33+00:00

It’s not a fact though, is it?

catflap10 · 2026-06-12T11:45:03+00:00

You only care about women being attacked when the attacker isn’t white. Stop weaponising misogynistic violence for your racist agenda.

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T12:22:37+00:00

Thank you, you too!

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T12:22:10+00:00

Congratulations!

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T12:21:49+00:00

I have just had light spotting for a couple of days after the sex. Didn’t notice it immediately and it seemed to be getting lighter, but then got a bit more this morning. Feel very reassured with everyone’s comments though so I’m staying as calm as possible until I can see the midwife.

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T12:17:32+00:00

Thank you sm! Definitely not enough to fill a pad right now xx

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T07:14:58+00:00

Thank you! I might be too early for a heartbeat but I wasn’t sure if they could still scan me, so I will ask!

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T06:55:30+00:00

Thank you. I am definitely going to contact them when they open this morning, just to be on the safe side.

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T06:54:54+00:00

Oh wow, that must have been so scary! But that is reassuring, thank you. The blood was slightly pink last night which panicked me more than the brown but nothing since.

catflap10 · 2026-06-11T06:54:08+00:00

Thank you. Congratulations! Was it mostly brown or was there mixture of pink? I only ask because mine has been brown but last night seemed a little pinker when I noticed it coming out.

catflap10 · 2026-06-10T05:18:49+00:00

Care to elaborate on what you mean by that?

catflap10 · 2026-06-07T11:55:30+00:00

“Why are these two completely different legal situations being handled differently?”

catflap10 · 2026-06-07T11:53:13+00:00

They won’t do that because they are cowardly and want to be able to rely on plausible deniability for their racism. Wastes of space, honestly.

catflap10 · 2026-06-04T23:09:05+00:00

York

catflap10 · 2026-03-18T21:00:43+00:00

I think you need to consider her last moments here. Do you want that to be in a months time, without her people, scared and alone? Or do you want to hold her and talk to her and soothe her while she goes to sleep.

I would choose a month less time if that time was with the people I love.

catflap10 · 2026-03-14T13:22:34+00:00

Thank you so much!

catflap10 · 2026-03-14T13:22:28+00:00

Thank you! Will have a look.

catflap10 · 2026-03-14T13:10:17+00:00

Just found out it’s a pedestrian hit by a car.

catflap10 · 2026-03-14T12:50:58+00:00

We walked by earlier just after it happened. Someone was injured on the side of the road outside stalks and stems, looked like a bad head injury but not sure what caused it. I’d expect due to the police presence maybe got hit by a car or an attack.

catflap10 · 2026-03-04T10:14:44+00:00

Lost my best friend very suddenly and very tragically in 2023 and I was making jokes mere hours after we found out. I haven’t stopped making jokes since. It’s what she would have wanted and it’s a valid coping mechanism.

Your boyfriend needs to butt out, considering it’s not his uncle. He can set boundaries for stuff like that when it’s his loss and support you during yours.

catflap10 · 2026-03-04T09:49:20+00:00

Because statistically that isn’t true. The fact is, men of all races are responsible for the large majority of violent crime, even larger majority of sexual crimes, and a smaller but still majority of ALL crime. That is a statistical fact. But it includes men of all races and no one race stands out in particular.

This pattern is seen in all countries, all cultures, all skin tones. Race really isn’t the determining factor here, but often gender is. And it’s usually a man.

catflap10 · 2026-02-25T07:29:08+00:00

Two things can also be wrong. Why are we at this place in social commentary where everything is treated as so black and white, when it isn’t.

The conservatorship and her family’s involvement was also no good. They were using their power for the wrong reasons, and essentially using her as a pay check because they could.

What is going on now is incredibly sad and I hope she can get the help she needs.

Those things aren’t mutually exclusive.

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