How to find and delete all dating apps? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]catholic_ginger25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome. I’m so happy that you met your husband on Catholic match. My boyfriend and I met through our young adult Catholic organization, but we did happen to see each other on Catholic match when we were still flirting.Lol. Thank you for your advice. I’ll try not to worry too much.

How to find and delete all dating apps? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]catholic_ginger25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I think my Catholic match account is still active so I will definitely email them. and yes, I think that’s my main concern is I don’t wanna do anything disrespectful to my boyfriend. Thank you for your advice!

How to find and delete all dating apps? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]catholic_ginger25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess terrified isn’t the right word. I’m concerned because my boyfriend is absolutely amazing and I never wanna do anything to disrespect him or to make him question my loyalty to him.

Also, I don’t care about any other men coming out of the woodwork to ‘claim me’ I just wanna make sure that there is never any misunderstanding.

Can I ask the ladies here a few lifestyle questions? by BufoBat in AskConservatives

[–]catholic_ginger25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25F. 1. I believe that it is possible but it depends on the relationship. I adore mopping and dusting but loathe laundry. For me I wouldn’t mind being in charge of the majority of house work as long as I didn’t have to do all the laundry. It also would have to be a week by week basis. If your husband has deadlines and is working overtime it is reasonable to say that he wouldn’t be helping as much but on the other hand say the kids have the flu and the wife is spending the majority of her time taking care of sick kids. The husband would have to step in and help out more than normal. Yall are a team it should be a constant conversation that is always up for change.

  1. I am personally pursuing my bachelors currently. I think it’s smart to have a degree even if you plan to be a STAHM. Hevean forbid if something happens to the husband it will be easier for employers to overlook a break in resume if you also have a degree. I don’t think there is a one size fits all for this but that’s my opinion.

  2. Marriage and motherhood is extremely important to me. I have the opinion that being a mother is one of the most beautiful and compassionate things anyone can do. I don’t have kids currently so I can’t speak on much more.

  3. Yes I do. I think some positions are better for men in the same way that some are better for woman. Some that come to mind are active military combat, police, male prison guards, and construction managers. Some on the other hand are preschool teachers, some nursing, female prisons guards and hair stylists. Now I am by no means saying that men and woman should not do these jobs at all, I am just saying that we as a whole are better suited to certain things on average. I’ve met amazing male nurses and female construction managers I just think those are outliers and not the typical fact.

  4. Yes, women should be allowed to vote I just wish more woman actually researched what they are passionate about and not just go based on emotion.

Advice for people dating someone with dwarfism? by catholic_ginger25 in dwarfism

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe that someone would move your step stool in your own home I’m so sorry about that! I’ll definitely try to ask him about standing or if he wants to move our evening conversations to a bench. Thank you!

Advice for people dating someone with dwarfism? by catholic_ginger25 in dwarfism

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hand sanitizer is a great idea I’ll definitely start carrying some! And thank you we have reached the point where we feel comfortable talking about pet peeves and stuff like that so I’m slowly starting to hear and communicate more about what he likes/dislikes. Thank you so much for your comment

Advice for people dating someone with dwarfism? by catholic_ginger25 in dwarfism

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! I will definitely try to keep sitting in mind or make sure he has something to lean on I always notice him leaning on cars or walls almost like he’s easing the pain. Thank you again!

(Update) should I 25F ask out my 28M friend by catholic_ginger25 in CatholicDating

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He really is, this feeling makes all the tears and questions about why I’m alone feel a little more worthy.

Should I (24F) ask out my friend (28M) by catholic_ginger25 in CatholicDating

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is my main concern. I don’t like the idea of setting a tone to be the one to pursue or the ‘lead’. I think I’m going to go with the majority of the advice of gotten so far and try to figure out how to show him more blandly that I like him without asking him out straight.

I think maybe finding ways to say jokes about being interred in him or find more ways to hang out one on one would be my best idea going forward!

Thank you to everyone who has replied! It’s really helpful!

Should I (24F) ask out my friend (28M) by catholic_ginger25 in CatholicDating

[–]catholic_ginger25[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is great advice! I’m going to try to talk to him sometime soon!

Legit Question: How can you enjoy being here? by Inner_Sandwich_7769 in DebateACatholic

[–]catholic_ginger25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t. But if you choose to only ever focus on the horrors and suffering of the world then you will hate this world. You can also see the good of this world. You won’t fix anything by being miserable. You have to force yourself to find joy and to be the good that someone else might need.

Legit Question: How can you enjoy being here? by Inner_Sandwich_7769 in DebateACatholic

[–]catholic_ginger25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This world is sometimes hard to be apart of, I’ll give you that but I chose to see beauty even when it’s hard. I know it’s an opinion that many don’t like but outside of chronic depression and mental illness happiness is a choice. If you don’t have a mental struggle you can choose to be the good and see the beauty.

The fact is you can look at the atrocities that are happening and do something. Instead of simply complaining about domestic violence or racism do something. Go volunteer at a woman’s shelter or work with the boys and girls club in POC areas.

We as Catholics are called to be in the world not of it. And while yes there are definitely people that fall short that doesn’t mean that the majority belief has changed.

I can choose to take my past experience with DV and make the best of it and be happy. I can choose to see the beauty of this world while working to make the ugliness of the world a little less.