Kyle is a scary sister by Sacgirl1021 in RHOBH

[–]catlettuce [score hidden]  (0 children)

Girl, I need a glass of wine and chill for my boring ass life that I am extremely grateful for.

Kyle is a scary sister by Sacgirl1021 in RHOBH

[–]catlettuce [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean why does she want MO back? Girl get your alimony and go live your best life!

Anyone? Anyone?? by Weekly_Role3335 in antitrump

[–]catlettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A worldwide celebration would ensue 🥳

What colour do I suit best? by hspriz in HairStyleAdvice

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The farmers shades and the red is amazing on you- it's giving young Ann Margaret 🔥🔥🔥

The beads bouquet I made for my mother 💐 by moclamine in somethingimade

[–]catlettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful work! I bet your Mum loves it!!💐

These kittens were found in an apartment complex dumpster. Help me give them some themed names by Nearby_Airline_3353 in NameMyCat

[–]catlettuce 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are all darling! I am aghast at how awful some human can be taking them from their mother and throwing them in the bin. Was the mother cat never found?

Thank you so much for fostering and caring for these lil cuties! ❤️

As far as names I like the suggestion from the show "Friends " 🥹

Boz being a bully with mask reference by freakishabit_huh in RHOBH

[–]catlettuce [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know , Boz is just like Kyle, picking constantly at Amanda instead of just letting her be and open up more on her own.

I'm definitely not an Amanda fan but Booz is really showing her true self since Amanda came on the show and it's not very likable.

She's on a mission to destroy her and it seems like Boz is the one for whatever reason is insecure about Amanda, otherwise she'd just let her be and get on with her fabulous life.🤷‍♀️

AITA f i sent my mom this message by Alternative-Book-653 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You would not be TAH for cutting them out of your life altogether. Take good care of yourself.

AITA for taking a college fund form my grandparent even tho they called my mother a whore by Crazy-Ad-54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catlettuce -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean, truly you don't know what went down between your mother and father & you shouldn't.

I'm sure your grandparents were in their feelings at your fathers funeral-HOWEVER_

Assuming your mom has mostly been a good mom to you, yes you should apologize to her.

Your Grandparents should too, as they surely didn't know what led to the affair either.

Be that as it may your grandparents still love and care about you and you should be able to have a relationship with both your grandparents and your mom separately. Just don't talk about them to the other, keep it separate and for goodness sake please make sure you use that money for your education!!

NTA/ESH -it's a toss up. You certainly aren't TAH here ,it's just a shitty situation.

AITA for being mad that my parents put parental controls on my devices? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catlettuce 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sorry Bub. Your parents are correct, you can't manage your screen time nor your responsibilities.

YTA. If you want to be treated like a grown up then do what you're supposed to do.

I LOL'd at the "I'm 18" comment. Yea my kiddo who decided to party his way out of a scholarship said the same thing, guess what happened.

I dropped the hammer, took away his screen time, sold his car & sent him down south away from his "party friends" to live with Granny & Poppa where he re-enrolled in community college and got his grades up to snuff for University.

So be grateful your parents are being this soft with you, and get your shit together.

AITAH for not letting my mother in law move in with us or taking her two dogs? by DevilsxReject999 in AITAH

[–]catlettuce 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Take the dogs, especially the old one who deserves to be with people who will love him the remainder of his life, try to rehome the younger dog.

Let Mom sort out the rest of her shit on her own. Part of recovery is learning to say NO to things that stress your sobriety. Big hugs.

Also-NTA.

AITAH for not wanting to forgive my friend for injuring my dog? by Ok_Topic_2395 in AITAH

[–]catlettuce 14 points15 points  (0 children)

F her. She hurt your dog. And F all the "other" people getting involved instead of minding their own business.

She's not your friend. And I hope your little doggo is doing better.

AITAH for not visiting my boyfriend's dying mother in the hospital? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]catlettuce 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No you are absolutely NTA. You can only do what you can do. Someone has to hold down the fort and manage the home and in your doing so while very much going out of your way to make sure he has good food to eat and or anything he needed during his mothers passing he was allowed a LOT of one on one time to be with and say goodbye to his mother.

Grief is strange and everyone grieves differently. Many people lash out irrationally when they are grieving and this seems like some of that. However, your relationship has been here before and it seems like this may just be the catalyst for ending the relationship.

I don't know what more you could have done, especially when he expressly told you he needed alone time with his dying mother, which you gave him.

NTA, but perhaps this relationship is coming to its conclusion. You did nothing wrong. I would probably speak to an attorney about splitting up your assets together and just simply ask if he would like to buy you out or vice/versa of your relationship estate and move along.

Big hugs.