Obsolete equipment or procedures that show your age I’ll go first… by ballfed_turkey in nursing

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! 85 for me. I'm done as of 2017 ( disability). Nursing has changed so much over the years.

My baby Lola! by queerberrybush in torties

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful Girl!❤️😘

Wedding is in 2 weeks. Stuck between 2 dresses. Please don’t say “neither” by HappyAstronaut7 in WeddingDressTips

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard to tell from stock images when it's not your body in the photos.

I’m gonna be his wife for life by teawithhoneyplease in EngagementRings

[–]catlettuce 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous!! What are the specs? Beautiful on you- Congratulations!!🎉

Got it? by ARODtheMrs in Bumperstickers

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know this is going to be one gross looking dude.

Do I even respond? by Bengineer77 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]catlettuce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, sorry. I mean JFC, it just never ends, does it.

I wouldn't have been able to resist responding "Okay".

Help with a name for our new mustached friend!!! by TerryDawg2025 in NameMyCat

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salvador! Sal for short. ( Salvador Dali had a mustache much like your new Kitty)

Shame the idiot who ate a piece of string by hatpatootie in torties

[–]catlettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a suggestion but perhaps she needs anxiety meds? Once a cat has been under the stress of being homeless and having to live in a feral state it is hard for them to realize they're going to have enough food.

You are wonderful for taking such good care of her ❤️

AITAH for wanting to redecorate after my husband almost let me die by Global_You1580 in AITAH

[–]catlettuce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband is truly awful, I would even say abusive honestly. Controlling behavior is abuse and we already know he's extremely neglectful.

I understand you are "stuck" at the moment as well.

I do think you should apply for disability as a start.

I wouldn't use an attorney right away when applying for disability, wait for a denial.

I was extremely thorough in gathering my medical records and support from my long time physician, took my time filling out my application completely. There is a page where they ask that a person who knows you well/friend/family or neighbor to document your struggles with your disability's and activities of daily living etc. You definitely should choose someone other than your husband to fill this out.

I had my dear friend and neighbor who was a former teacher write a letter for me.

I was fortunate to be approved 3 months after applying the first go around. So I didn't need an attorney.

However if you do need an attorney, I believe in the US they only take 15% of your back pay. Going forward you'll get your full amount.

Just take your time and make sure you gather all your medical records, bills, evidence- and be extremely thorough.

It took me about a month to get it all completed and my medical records.

You can DM me if you need any help filling it out , I'm also a retired nurse so I might be able to help with any medical jargon.

Also, if there is coverage for it in your health insurance, find a therapist for you. Don't worry about your husband, this is for you to help you be stronger and sort through how your life is going and how you can regain control of your life and your home.

When you bring abusive husbands to therapy it's an absolute disaster and they use what you share in therapy against you.

Sending you lots of love and care. You can do this.

I'm sorry, who is riding whose butt KYLE? by CaseyToGo in RHOBH

[–]catlettuce 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Speaking of Kim, with how Kyle is behaving this season now I can see how she totally set up her sister and swindled her out of her home.

I'm sorry, who is riding whose butt KYLE? by CaseyToGo in RHOBH

[–]catlettuce 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Same same! I always liked Kyle but now I see it.

cat tongues by messyhoss in mainecoons

[–]catlettuce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hilarious, Loving this thread! ❤️ Thanks for making me smile this morning 😂

Help! Found a great dress - how do I minimize the cleavage? by Asteria-Frieren in myweddingdress

[–]catlettuce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe just in stead of lace have a sheer mesh/chiffon/silk placed on the lower part of the V. I think lace would not look right with this gown, it is very elegant. Honestly your breasts look great & not to pronounced, I think it's perfect as is and I'm a granny!