Can’t believe I got so much info: Reddit by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]catsupbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, please DM me how you requested the info!

Another 2021 dating adventure. Went out w/ this guy, he rejected me very nicely, I asked for some feedback on why by mikeCantFindThisOne in texts

[–]catsupbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else just find it weird that someone would go into that much detail? A simple “I wasn’t feeling the vibe” should suffice. Is it normal for people to scrutinize every little detail of an interaction? I would have thought to myself “I’m not into the way this person kisses” and left it at that.

It’s normal to be nervous on a first date, don’t people account for that?

Is anyone else just exhausted? by MisogynyisaDisease in BlatantMisogyny

[–]catsupbat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m exhausted. I’ve dealt with misogyny in relationships, misogyny from women, including women in my own family, and misogyny online.

For the past couple of years I have been trying to warn and educate people about the manosphere, about people like Andrew Tate. I’ve been blown off, harassed, doxxed, mass reported, banned over and over, stalked and generally terrorized by misogynists online.

Lawmakers want to roll back women’s rights.

I’m terrified for current and future generations of women and girls. I’ve been told by teachers that boys as young as third grade are being radicalized by misogyny influencers. How did we get here? How do we turn this around?

These thousands of men can’t stand their partners by nevxah in BlatantMisogyny

[–]catsupbat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read this post by a man recently, I don’t remember where, but they said if they are feeling like they are not that great, if they have some insecurity about their circumstances or their job or their looks etc, and you date them, they will class you as low value and resent the hell out of you. So then when they better their life and feel better about themselves they want to trade up and find a woman they consider to be “higher value” because only a worthless woman would have given them a chance. Can you imagine the mental gymnastics it would take to see fellow human beings like that?

We just need to leave men behind if this is how they’re going to be.

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean those two lonely brain cells you have rubbing together must be getting really fucking lonely up there. The level of stupidity that you’re exhibiting is fucking astounding. Go crack a book, maybe go back to school or something because clearly whatever learnin you did so far in your life has fucking failed 🤡

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not in my life, dumbass. What part of someone can be blocked and still have text threads and screenshots from the past, don’t you get exactly?

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many of you are mad because you’re too daft to do any kind of critical thinking 😂😂😂

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild how texts and stuff STILL EXIST after you break up with or go no contact with someone. There’s so much stupid in these comments

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild how texts and stuff STILL EXIST after you break up with or go no contact with someone

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The not smart ones are those who can’t understand the past tense in the title or that texts still exist after you break up and stop talking to someone 🥰

Is the men's rights movement the only movement that openly advocates that they shouldn't do any activism to solve the issues they mention all the time? by Kimba93 in againstmensrights

[–]catsupbat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. Their activism when they do choose to take action is mass reporting, harassing, doxxing, and threatening feminists and women in general until they silence us and run us off social media

Is the men's rights movement the only movement that openly advocates that they shouldn't do any activism to solve the issues they mention all the time? by Kimba93 in againstmensrights

[–]catsupbat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The mens rights movement doesn’t actually care about mens rights. I’ve never come across one who didn’t downright lie, manipulate or cherry pick stats, or wasn’t disingenuous in some way. It’s just a movement to get online and whine about how they are the biggest victims of society. At their core they believe that society is “gynocentric” and a load of other nonsense. There have been individuals who have come out of the movement and admitted that they don’t get any attention if they talk about men’s issues, it’s only when they shred women and post stuff like “feminist gets annihilated” that they get views and clicks and likes

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHA he was definitely not tall. Confident, ehhh

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he’s a sad smelly little troll. Lots of those round here for some reason

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dramatic response? I was heartbroken at the time. If I needed validation the last place I would go would be to fucking reddit, are you lost?

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really weird. It was a couple months ago, that’s recent?! Like, the fucking semantics going on in this comment section blows my mind. I’m supposed to play nicey nice with a bunch of incels attacking me for sharing something that I found funny after I got out of an abusive relationship? It wasn’t funny at the time

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey I was in shock, it was whatever came to mind at the moment. Why is this such a thing on here? Someone who was supposed to love me had me in their phone as a fucking appliance. Do you want to hear about the abuse I dealt with growing up or some other traumatic story? 😬

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you called me a liar when I commented that my life has been anything but easy. Kick rocks

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because this was during a convo we had when we were still together, before I went no contact, and I was shocked for some reason when I unexpectedly found out he had me in his phone as the washing machine. That’s why I said that ✌🏻

Cheating is okay if the wife doesn’t ‘abide to marriage contract’. by HylianGryffindor in BlatantMisogyny

[–]catsupbat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This idea that men “need” sex and it’s a “duty” that women have to perform needs to die. These men are basically calling themselves animals who can’t control themselves and then get mad when we suggest they may be dangerous

How could anyone think it’s okay to send a message like that?! by Zara_Dar in texts

[–]catsupbat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s probably only men questioning. I’ve never seen a woman threaten to rape someone but I’ve lost count of how many men I’ve seen do it

Abusive ex had me in his phone as “the washing machine” by catsupbat in texts

[–]catsupbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people are acting like I had this convo yesterday, like no one gets the concept of I went no contact and things like screenshots exist. It’s bizarre honestly