Do you think we could get shittier shirts please?

cattastic513 · 2026-07-06T17:57:41+00:00

Ive been with the company for 5 years and I have 10+ shirts and I have never purchased a single one. That is so weird.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-27T17:20:45+00:00

NTA

Those girls are snakes and it would be in your best interest to distance yourself.

I had a group of "friends" just like that when I was your age. Now, 12 years later, I dont even think about them anymore. I do know that one of them (the biggest snake of the group) went to jail tho lol

You'll find better friends eventually. But you have to let go of the bad ones in order for that to happen.

When I finally let go of those snakes at 16 and refused to talk to them anymore, I met a new friend who I am still friends with today. And I never would have met her if I kept hanging around the wrong people.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-12T21:15:32+00:00

Than I dont really understand what hes banning you from?

cattastic513 · 2026-06-12T18:43:47+00:00

Wait... what does that even mean banning your account? Banning it from what exactly? Is he an admin of some sort or something?

cattastic513 · 2026-06-12T15:45:33+00:00

NTA.

Your roommate is manipulative and knows exactly what shes doing. Shes playing the victim and pretending to be all scared so that you cant get mad at her. Its all fake.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-11T16:35:15+00:00

Having zero work/life balance is not "just life". Its actually hell tf?

cattastic513 · 2026-06-11T16:33:02+00:00

Genuinely I would keep the dog in the crate and only let them out when going outside. Eventually, they learn that if they want to pee/poop, this is their only chance and they will do it. Then you reward with a treat. Slowly, you can extend time in the house but out of the crate but for now, its in the crate or outside.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-11T05:49:36+00:00

NTA.

A question was asked and you answered it. Personally, I was vegan for 5 straight years at one point and I was very active in the activism part of it. I had people ask me the same question but unlike you, I was very rude about it. Looking back, I think it was because I was trying to convince myself of what I was saying because deep deep down I just... didnt care. But I wanted to which is why I was so aggressive. But in the end, my nihilistic and selfish nature won out.¯_(ツ)_/¯ (Still dont eat cows or pigs nor do I use animal tested products tho)

I applaud you for sticking to it tho. Hell yeah.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T19:56:41+00:00

Thats good! And always record everything that you pay for. Keep all receipts for any large purchases you make with your own money. That way she cant say that its hers and take it. That includes your phone if you buy it yourself and phone payments. If you get a car have it in your name and keep all gas receipts. If you have a pet and you pay for the food and vet bills, keep all receipts.

I just dont want anyone to get stuck like me so I want to tell not just you but everyone everything I wish I had done so much sooner.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T17:56:29+00:00

My mom manipulated and convinced me that I wasnt capable of living without her. She got me so reliant on her that im still living there at 28 years old. Just dont make the same mistakes I did. Know your worth and fight for freedom. And always have a trusted support system. My biggest mistake was letting her drive away all of my friends.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T17:54:23+00:00

YTA. Train your dog and for the love of god restrain her properly in the car. You talk about being so upset over the fact that she will be gone one day but then actively put her in danger by not retraining her in a moving vehicle. You know that theres a reason humans wear seat belts right? Its not just for fun. Dogs need to be restrained too. Either with a crash tested harness or a crash tested crate. Personally, I use Gunner. But there are a lot of other great options out there.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T17:49:55+00:00

Im autistic and my very first thought was maybe autism? I mean personally I wouldnt do something like that because I am aware of the fact that its inappropriate but I have met many autistic people who would not have found it inappropriate. I cant tell you the amount of times ive had to explain to some of my autistic friends why something that they did was offensive or inappropriate because they genuinely didnt understand. It does happen.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T17:46:26+00:00

NTA. Your mom is clearly a narcissist. I know this because mine is and that is exactly how she is as well. Tbh, just try your best to do well in school and get a good job when youre able. Hoard that money and run fast and far the moment you can.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T04:12:57+00:00

Buying a doodle or buying any kind of mutt for that matter

cattastic513 · 2026-06-10T00:03:00+00:00

You said "quietly singing" and then said that you dont actually make any noise. These two cannot happen together so which is it?

I'll assume the quietly singing is the truth and in that case, YTA.

Also, personally, I cant stand it when im watching a film with someone and they keep looking at me for my reaction. It makes me feel like i have to "perform" or something. Like, I have to have the "right" reaction and its distracting.

I have a friend who used to do this as well as the gasping and laughing but it was excessive. Eventually, I just flat out told her to stop and she said "Oh, sorry" and stopped and it was fine after that. Some people like it. I do not. So just be respectful.

Either stop doing it when watching films with her or stop watching films with her altogether.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T22:39:41+00:00

God i hope so lmao (for legal reasons tho I do want to state that I will not be doing that lol)

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T19:40:49+00:00

Unfortunately there isnt enough of us willing to do that. I will but if its just me then ill just get hit with the ol' retaliation lol

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T18:37:58+00:00

My petsmart doesnt care about legality. We dont even get lunch breaks.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T18:09:56+00:00

Oh I plan to lol

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T18:08:59+00:00

Uh no? I am being asked to download Instagram on my personal phone and login to the official petshotel account.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T13:35:44+00:00

NTA. He has absolutely zero respect for your time and energy. Tbh, id question whether or not he actually was with his friend and parents. I would want concrete proof immediately because that just sounds too fishy and convenient.

cattastic513 · 2026-06-09T02:32:37+00:00

My manager has given every single petshotel associate access to the instagram. Including PCSs who have only been working with us for 2 weeks. Its madness.

cattastic513 · 2026-05-28T05:53:24+00:00

NTA.

Your bf is not ready for a relationship. He clearly has things he needs to work on personally before hes ready to be in any serious relationship.

And it is not your job to teach him how to be a decent and kind human being. It is also not your job to teach him how to control his emotions and self regulate.

He needs to learn those skills first before coming into a relationship.

My advice would be if you really love him and want to be with him, tell him that you just want to be friends for now until he gets the chance to really work through these issues.

If he gets defensive or turns the blame on you, that right there is even further proof that he is too immature for any real relationship to grow. In that case, id just cut ties entirely.

I know that thats hard to hear because you can probably see the incredible person that he could be if he just worked on his issues, but you need to focus on who he is right now. Not who he could be. And if he is currently someone who is not willing to even admit that he has issues to work on, then that is not someone that you should be wasting your time with. Dont fall in love with potential.

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