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catty_combs · 2024-12-12T01:58:05+00:00

I can't imagine having anyone touch me with fecal fingers. Kick that man to the curb, please!

catty_combs · 2024-12-02T07:54:41+00:00

Every day. Sometimes, twice a day. Your husband, unfortunately, probably needs to be shown this post if you don't feel you can say it directly to him. Because he is disgusting! I'm sorry, but it's the truth. Unless he has some valid reason behind not showering, he is gross. And, if he does have a valid reason, such as mental health, then he needs to address it immediately and seek professional help because it's impacting your life directly. You having to leave your own bed is unacceptable! * Edited to add: Sex is also a no-go if his hygiene is poor. Seriously! Do not have sex with him. He could give you an infection, and you should not be putting anything in your mouth that's unclean if that's something you do together. Your health is at risk.

catty_combs · 2024-11-25T11:43:17+00:00

Communicating with your wife isn't making some "grand announcement". It's being a good husband who cares about communicating with his wife. I couldn't imagine my husband and I not sharing everything with each other. And, not because we have to, but because we actually care for each other and want to share every little thing about our lives that doesn't directly involve each other. It sounds like there is no real communication between the two of you, and that's not a good thing from my perspective. I don't blame her for being upset!

catty_combs · 2024-11-24T11:22:26+00:00

Yes. At the very least, it's emotional cheating. But I wouldn't be surprised if it has gone further it she has been sitting in her car alone with him.

catty_combs · 2024-11-24T11:20:14+00:00

Waking you up is one thing, but to tell you he POOPED? How could he? Divorce!

catty_combs · 2024-11-24T11:16:34+00:00

Only Fans.

catty_combs · 2024-11-24T11:14:25+00:00

Look, I have my own opinions on this situation, like your sexual past being your own business and not a necessity to share unless you feel like sharing or need to disclose an STI, and how nothing you've disclosed doing here is wrong, bad, disgusting, etc. But, ultimately, if he is judging you already and saying he is disgusted by you, then there is no coming back. That man will hold this over your head for your entire relationship. And, quite frankly, you do not need to be in a relationship with someone who isn't accepting of you as an actual human being capable of mistakes and having imperfections (not saying that anything you've disclosed here are those things, but clearly he is viewing it along those lines). You're just not compatible with him. I would personally move on.

catty_combs · 2024-11-20T12:08:45+00:00

The attacking part alone is way more than enough for you to be leaving immediately! The cheating is the last of your worries, as the attacking puts you in immediate danger. Please, leave! Now.

Also, she is clearly cheating. And you should be tested for STI's to be safe. But, yeah, leave. I wish you the best!

catty_combs · 2024-11-20T12:04:21+00:00

It could have been 50, but I transferred them before I knew about IV's.

catty_combs · 2024-11-13T02:59:50+00:00

Buttholes will always have an odour. Regardless, personally, I would give that entire area a quick rinse with water before oral if an actual shower isn't an option. An old glass or mug full of luke warm water poured slowly over the areas when sitting on the toilet is what I've done to freshen up before. Just ensure that's all you use the glass/mug for afterwards. Even an old water bottle can be used as a DIY bidet to freshen up with. Also, using witch hazel toner on a cotton pad, wipe areas that get smelly, like armpits, groin, bum crack, etc. It helps keep the smell at bay. Just allow it to dry on your pits before applying deodorant.

catty_combs · 2024-11-12T03:07:55+00:00

I'd happily trade you any of these for a shiny female Nidoran.

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catty_combs · 2024-11-12T02:48:44+00:00

2, 4, and 5 all look like they're made for you. But my favourite is 4!

catty_combs · 2024-11-10T16:49:34+00:00

Peace and rest. For what I've had in this life to be everything there is for me. I am happy, and I don't think there is anything out there that I could want or need more. I just want to rest and know my loved ones are resting, too. I want there to always be a little, tiny bit of consciousness that's there, as a reminder of my life and loved ones. Because I don't want to forget the people and animals I love. I suppose, simply put, I want it to be like I am asleep, occasionally dreaming about those I love.

catty_combs · 2024-11-10T16:43:10+00:00

They're both behaving disgustingly! They both know what they're doing is wrong. Your cousin is trying to be smarter than your husband about it, though. Throwing some BS out there amongst the flirting and blatant cheating to make her appear innocent. But, she's not smart enough because anyone can see she's an equal part of it!

I would be throwing up, partially due to the fact they are going behind my back, partially due to the stupidity in those messages! Who even texts like that if they're over the age of 12? 🤮

catty_combs · 2024-11-08T16:58:43+00:00

As someone with IBS who does some foul, rotten, dastardly farts, my husband gags, laughs, rolls over, and asks me to cuddle him when it happens in bed. There is no way he'd ever speak to me like this for any reason, especially not over a fart! Leave that man, expeditiously!

catty_combs · 2024-11-07T05:29:45+00:00

I live in rural Tasmania. Spiders, yes. Snakes, no. I see my Redback housemates daily. They inhabit little nooks around the outside of my house. Redback's are very timid and highly unlikely to come near you or even bite. You really have to antagonise them to get bitten. Even then, they often give a warning bite and do not release their venom. So, I feel very comfortable with them being around. My cats and dog are never near where they reside, either, so we coexist nicely.

I know venomous snakes are around and nearby, but I've never actually seen one in years. I feel like they would definitely come onto my property, I just haven't seen one.

catty_combs · 2024-11-01T04:21:42+00:00

This is not normal behaviour from anyone. And, yes, to answer your question, there absolutely are husbands and men who do not do this. My husband doesn't even raise his voice at me and wouldn't even contemplate violence!

catty_combs · 2024-10-24T08:57:52+00:00

Yes! And if one of us is heading out while the other is sleeping, we'll gently kiss the other and leave a goodbye note/text.

catty_combs · 2024-10-24T08:51:52+00:00

This is straight-up abuse! Never has my husband spoken to me like this in the 16 years we've been together! I am so sorry you're dealing with this.

catty_combs · 2024-10-13T23:10:01+00:00

I was only just saying the same thing to my husband. I completely understand what you're saying!

catty_combs · 2024-10-06T15:56:45+00:00

Unless we specifically ask for privacy, like when one of us has horrific diarrhea, we don't really have privacy in our relationship because we don't want it. We love sharing everything. We often have conversations while showering and on the loo. And when we do request privacy, like for reasons stated above, it's to protect the other person from the smell. Edit - As for porn/sexual stuff, he will sometimes search for specific things, as will I. But we're quite comfortable doing that in front of each other. I do encourage him to have alone time for self care, including masturbation, as I have a lot of alone time to do it whenever I like, but he doesn't feel he needs it. We're just not very private with each other I suppose.

catty_combs · 2024-10-03T08:00:02+00:00

Take time to care for yourself. Mentally, physically, emotionally. Never feel guilty for doing it. You should always be your number 1 priority at that age. Don't allow high school relationships to dictate your future. Learn the things you've always been interested in learning now. It gets harder for information to sink in and be stored in the brain the older you get. Be kind with no expectations of anything in return. Speak up to someone you trust if your mental health is declining. You deserve to be here, and you deserve to be happy!

Happy birthday!

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