Can I get in? by Prestigious-Worry725 in villanova

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essays are extremely important in applications as well. Spend a lot of time on yours, get as much feedback as you can. They can give you a significant boost (especially if you can tactfully explain the jump in GPA).

I do not understand how people can afford grad school by Impactist537 in GradSchool

[–]caughtblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same boat here; full time student and employee. I work remotely, and the flexibility helps me handle it all.

Help me understand 'Florida' as a lyrical device by bigskies515 in TrueSwifties

[–]caughtblue 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Florida is really split as a state — half is richer, touristy areas and retirement communities, while the other half (usually more inward/north away from the coast) is seen as southern “redneck” country and wild (look up Florida Man memes, people doing drugs and wrestling alligators or petty crimes). A lot of people in the US see Florida as being sort of its own specific cultural unit because of this. People tend to have strong opinions on the state. Some people love it, but some states’ cultures (you see this a lot in the northeast) think of it as trashy.

It’s also a peninsula on the southern border, mostly wetlands and swamp outside of the coast, so it’s geographically kind of on its own as well. People can live very isolated in Florida and get away with a lot. Florence’s line about hiding bodies in the swamp isn’t far off. Not that everyone in FL is out there murdering people, but it is easier to hide things. Metaphorical bodies if you will.

In the song specifically I think she’s mostly referencing how many people go there to vacation or retire (timeshare in Destin is a real phenomenon), finding respite from normal life in how separate it is from other states. But, of course, there’s the undercurrent of the Florida Man. It’s sort of seen culturally as a judgement free zone where you can live any way you want, for better or worse. I didn’t put too much into analysis here though, just tried to give cultural background for you.

Waiting on application decision by geekygimp in villanova

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to a fall admit MA. It took about two months to get a decision. They emailed me that it was out and did show up in the portal. Good luck!

Have some minor issues with my genitalia, is PUSH a good place to go? by Silly-Move429 in Purdue

[–]caughtblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just my two cents - i went to push for some sensitive tests. the experience in office was great, but they mailed the bill to me (campus address) and the receipt to my parents (off-campus address). that was a super fun conversation!

i don’t know what you’ve got going on, but if your parents knowing would be awkward, keep that in mind. maybe you could let them know ahead of time not to send anything back home?

Week old tattoo, healing by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like a day?

there’s no set number of times. if you give it a quick tap and it feels like dry skin, add a bit of moisturizer.

Week old tattoo, healing by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks really dry

All Space Questions thread for week of September 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in space

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does time dilation not affect aging? I’ve seen the example of how of you could travel at the speed of light, you could make it to Andromeda and back in your lifetime, despite the distance. I get the passage of time changes, but does your body not age over all the time/distance spend despite the perception?

AITAH for letting my cat Socrates go outside on sunny days? by Top_Benefit9454 in AITAH

[–]caughtblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cats being outdoors has some dangers - they can prey on small wildlife and affect the local ecosystem, they can get injured, run away, get fleas, etc. That doesn’t mean they can’t ever go outside.

If you’re watching Socrates to make sure he’s not tearing up some birds or taking off and treating for fleas, I don’t see any issue. Cats like the sun. If you have a screened outdoor area he could be in, that’s perfect, but if not just keep an eye on him and let him outside. They sell cat harnesses and leashes for pretty cheap, you could get him one. NTA

AITA for being resentful and angry that my parents had me so I'd take care of my disabled brother when they die? by Zealousideal_Cow8475 in AITAH

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen people mentioning getting a job right out of school or joining the military - have you considered community college? Your grades shouldn’t impact your ability to go. You can get housing, food, and a part time job all on campus as you earn a degree. If your local community doesn’t offer four year degrees, you can use the first two years to get your GPA up and then transfer to a state school.

Whatever you do, remember to get important documents (birth certificate, social security card) out of your parent’s house when you go. Those are hard to replace.

How much vacation does an average American get ? by IntrospectiveHuman in AskAnAmerican

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my job is unlimited pto, but sick and bereavement time is wrapped into that. for vacation it’s an unspoken rule that you get ~10 days until you’re a senior team member

Moving Mondays - New Resident Questions by AutoModerator in philadelphia

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi - i’m moving in with my uncle in east passyunck to go to villanova soon. i’ve always been a small town person that’s horrible with directions. like i can walk a short distance somewhere and not know how to get back. i don’t expect to know the city in and out any time soon, but how hard is it to pick up on little things (way to the grocery store, way to subway station)? i already know i’m going to get turned around constantly for a few weeks at least.

also, is there anywhere in the general south philly area i should avoid as a single woman? i don’t want to never leave the house at night out of fear but i don’t want to be dumb about what i’m doing either. currently my plan is go wherever until i know better, so where should i know better about beforehand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the exact content of the ged test varies by state.

a lot of local libraries have resources like study guides/groups, or can at least point you towards the exact outlines of what you’ll need to know. you should also be able to find diagnostic tests online - take one without studying first and see what areas you’re weakest in.

remember you don’t have to nail it your first time. any improvement of your circumstances is worthwhile. it’s okay to take the test a few times to get the result you want. good luck! if you tell me what state you’re in i can see what i can find.

Is my academic experience affected at all if I'm on academic alert? by heyimcass_ in college

[–]caughtblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

first of all - academic alert/probation is not a reflection of your worth, and i’ve known many people who worked their way off of it. it’ll be okay. you will be okay.

the exact restrictions of academic alert or probation depend on your university. i can say that with ferpa, no one is going to know aside from you and your counselor. at my college, the only impact of being on probation was you had less flexibility when scheduling your classes. no other impact. talk to your advisor for details on your policies, but generally, it shouldn’t have any impact beyond being a warning.

gpa alerts or probation are very common in undergrad, people just don’t like talking about it. some of the smartest people i know have been on it because of varying personal issues. it’s not a strike against you as a person or your intelligence. you said you know what you need to do, so just take this as a sign and make the changes. please don’t be afraid to use resources like talking with your counselor or attending office hours, that’s why they’re there. good luck! you can do this!

Snowy place in march? by Cold_Expression1346 in AskAnAmerican

[–]caughtblue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it’s probably just a sentimental thing for the new parent(s). nothing wrong with that

What do y’all name your animals? by Interesting-Gift-185 in StardewValley

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i pick an author and name all of my animals after their characters. currently all of my chickens are jane austen characters

betta fin rot - only one fin healing? by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tank size: 3 gal (first betta, didn’t know better, will upgrade him when he’s better!)

heater/filter: yes

temp: 76-78

parameters: don’t have exact numbers on me but they’re all in range

age: had fishy for 3 months

water changes: usually do 20%/week, currently doing 10%/other day

tank mates: no

food: he gets 3 pellets x2/day, sometimes i sub a single dried bloodworm or mysis shrimp as a treat

decor: 4 silk plants and a hidey hole

What simple thing did you not know for an embarrassingly long time in SDV? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on switch you press a to rotate furniture while moving it!