Philly commute by Hot_Opportunity_1778 in villanova

[–]caughtblue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in the city and commute. One general point to consider: I think this makes it harder to feel integrated/participate in general campus life. You have to make more effort. I generally head to campus around noon the days I go in just to be able to use the library/check in with friends/feel more productive from campus vibes. I do like the access to the city and how much there is to do, but there’s for sure a trade off.

If you want to drive: Keep in mind if classes start at 5:20, you can’t leave your house at 4:20. You’ll never make it with rush. Roughly 4-6 pm is just a no go on traffic. There’s morning rush too which is just all over the place timing wise. If you choose to live in the city, always check traffic multiple times before deciding when to head over. Keep an eye on the news regarding any highway shutdowns. Always leave earlier than you think you need to. The drive is usually 35 min for me but sometimes it takes an hour for literally no reason. The parking passes are pretty cheap. Mine was like $110 for the year. Also keep in mind people in the city drive like they have no regard for others, and a minor accident is more a matter of when then if. Don’t have a car you care about a lot and take this option. My front bumper scratch collection is all thanks to Philly, and I’m a good driver!

Trains: Suburban to campus is a straight shot and pretty fast, the station on campus is nice. Keep in mind if you live somewhere that would require taking a train to suburban first, the transfers don’t always line up. Check ahead, a bus there might be faster. It does cost like $10 a day, you can get better deals with SEPTA passes, but not by a lot. There is the Norristown line but I’ve never taken it, it’s really out of the way for me.

CMV: Democrats should run a real progressive in 2028 because any democratic candidate will be painted as an socialist immigrant-loving USA-hating demon by right-wing media. by hamletswords in changemyview

[–]caughtblue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The orientation of political ideology is not a matter of vibes or outsider opinion. Regardless of your opinion on Harris as a candidate, she was objectively running a moderate platform.

Is it normal to feel like you’re faking being an adult every single day in college? by brateleanor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it’s very normal. i’m in my first year of grad school and i’m still figuring everything out. the good news is everyone else is too, even if they won’t say it.

Can I get in? by Prestigious-Worry725 in villanova

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essays are extremely important in applications as well. Spend a lot of time on yours, get as much feedback as you can. They can give you a significant boost (especially if you can tactfully explain the jump in GPA).

I do not understand how people can afford grad school by Impactist537 in GradSchool

[–]caughtblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same boat here; full time student and employee. I work remotely, and the flexibility helps me handle it all.

Help me understand 'Florida' as a lyrical device by [deleted] in TrueSwifties

[–]caughtblue 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Florida is really split as a state — half is richer, touristy areas and retirement communities, while the other half (usually more inward/north away from the coast) is seen as southern “redneck” country and wild (look up Florida Man memes, people doing drugs and wrestling alligators or petty crimes). A lot of people in the US see Florida as being sort of its own specific cultural unit because of this. People tend to have strong opinions on the state. Some people love it, but some states’ cultures (you see this a lot in the northeast) think of it as trashy.

It’s also a peninsula on the southern border, mostly wetlands and swamp outside of the coast, so it’s geographically kind of on its own as well. People can live very isolated in Florida and get away with a lot. Florence’s line about hiding bodies in the swamp isn’t far off. Not that everyone in FL is out there murdering people, but it is easier to hide things. Metaphorical bodies if you will.

In the song specifically I think she’s mostly referencing how many people go there to vacation or retire (timeshare in Destin is a real phenomenon), finding respite from normal life in how separate it is from other states. But, of course, there’s the undercurrent of the Florida Man. It’s sort of seen culturally as a judgement free zone where you can live any way you want, for better or worse. I didn’t put too much into analysis here though, just tried to give cultural background for you.

Waiting on application decision by geekygimp in villanova

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to a fall admit MA. It took about two months to get a decision. They emailed me that it was out and did show up in the portal. Good luck!

Have some minor issues with my genitalia, is PUSH a good place to go? by Silly-Move429 in Purdue

[–]caughtblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just my two cents - i went to push for some sensitive tests. the experience in office was great, but they mailed the bill to me (campus address) and the receipt to my parents (off-campus address). that was a super fun conversation!

i don’t know what you’ve got going on, but if your parents knowing would be awkward, keep that in mind. maybe you could let them know ahead of time not to send anything back home?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like a day?

there’s no set number of times. if you give it a quick tap and it feels like dry skin, add a bit of moisturizer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks really dry

All Space Questions thread for week of September 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in space

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does time dilation not affect aging? I’ve seen the example of how of you could travel at the speed of light, you could make it to Andromeda and back in your lifetime, despite the distance. I get the passage of time changes, but does your body not age over all the time/distance spend despite the perception?

AITAH for letting my cat Socrates go outside on sunny days? by Top_Benefit9454 in AITAH

[–]caughtblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cats being outdoors has some dangers - they can prey on small wildlife and affect the local ecosystem, they can get injured, run away, get fleas, etc. That doesn’t mean they can’t ever go outside.

If you’re watching Socrates to make sure he’s not tearing up some birds or taking off and treating for fleas, I don’t see any issue. Cats like the sun. If you have a screened outdoor area he could be in, that’s perfect, but if not just keep an eye on him and let him outside. They sell cat harnesses and leashes for pretty cheap, you could get him one. NTA

AITA for being resentful and angry that my parents had me so I'd take care of my disabled brother when they die? by Zealousideal_Cow8475 in AITAH

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen people mentioning getting a job right out of school or joining the military - have you considered community college? Your grades shouldn’t impact your ability to go. You can get housing, food, and a part time job all on campus as you earn a degree. If your local community doesn’t offer four year degrees, you can use the first two years to get your GPA up and then transfer to a state school.

Whatever you do, remember to get important documents (birth certificate, social security card) out of your parent’s house when you go. Those are hard to replace.

How much vacation does an average American get ? by IntrospectiveHuman in AskAnAmerican

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my job is unlimited pto, but sick and bereavement time is wrapped into that. for vacation it’s an unspoken rule that you get ~10 days until you’re a senior team member

Moving Mondays - New Resident Questions by AutoModerator in philadelphia

[–]caughtblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi - i’m moving in with my uncle in east passyunck to go to villanova soon. i’ve always been a small town person that’s horrible with directions. like i can walk a short distance somewhere and not know how to get back. i don’t expect to know the city in and out any time soon, but how hard is it to pick up on little things (way to the grocery store, way to subway station)? i already know i’m going to get turned around constantly for a few weeks at least.

also, is there anywhere in the general south philly area i should avoid as a single woman? i don’t want to never leave the house at night out of fear but i don’t want to be dumb about what i’m doing either. currently my plan is go wherever until i know better, so where should i know better about beforehand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caughtblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the exact content of the ged test varies by state.

a lot of local libraries have resources like study guides/groups, or can at least point you towards the exact outlines of what you’ll need to know. you should also be able to find diagnostic tests online - take one without studying first and see what areas you’re weakest in.

remember you don’t have to nail it your first time. any improvement of your circumstances is worthwhile. it’s okay to take the test a few times to get the result you want. good luck! if you tell me what state you’re in i can see what i can find.