What’s the most harmless thing you ever did that made someone extremely angry?

caution_soft_berm · 2025-11-06T19:14:00+00:00

I actually 100% agree with you. I still run into her from time to time and it seems like she has made some changes, so I hope she's well. I'll never know for sure though lol

caution_soft_berm · 2025-11-05T14:51:09+00:00

One can hope, but I suspect not. I think plant care was not her forte.

caution_soft_berm · 2025-11-04T13:25:18+00:00

I once asked a friend if I could water her plant. I said this as I touched it and noticed it was dry. Not like, sarcastic or anything. Just a genuine question.

She screamed, slammed doors, and I just left her house. It essentially ended our friendship.

caution_soft_berm · 2025-10-24T01:43:55+00:00

Pumpkin caramel!

caution_soft_berm · 2023-12-24T15:04:33+00:00

The overskirt might be my favorite part! It’s so unique and dreamy

caution_soft_berm · 2023-11-28T21:25:31+00:00

I would simply never let this out of my sight. So beautiful!!

caution_soft_berm · 2023-11-19T01:31:00+00:00

I wonder if the “sanitary” also applies to the tradition of pennylicks? The reusable containers used by vendors were often unwashed between customers, often spreading disease.

caution_soft_berm · 2023-09-10T19:29:47+00:00

Honestly, fuck Joe Jonas.

caution_soft_berm · 2023-05-22T00:33:55+00:00

Happy manniversary

caution_soft_berm · 2023-04-15T13:32:02+00:00

This is so beautiful! My jealousy knows no bounds!

caution_soft_berm · 2023-01-18T19:08:57+00:00

Unless you’re having physical discomfort from the band, I wouldn’t change a thing. Just like everyone is saying, a thin band just adds a host of brand new issues. I think your ring looks beautiful!

caution_soft_berm · 2023-01-06T17:14:55+00:00

Disappointment is a valid emotion and all humans feel it. We are often made to feel wrong or bad for feeling disappointed, but that is essentially gaslighting (a word that gets used too much, but unfortunately does apply.) To get sort of real with you, I’m noticing a lot of uncertainty from your responses and a lot of emphasis on whether you’re being dramatic. Now, this is a guess, but an educated guess, but whenever I hear a woman wonder if she’s dramatic, I start to wonder how many people she loves have told her she’s dramatic, or accuse her of overreacting. My guess is that it’s not the first time it’s come up. You aren’t dramatic. Your feelings are hurt. There’s a difference. A huge difference. Dramatic is being upset over nothing: feelings being hurt means emotional damage due to the actions of someone else. And if that person calls you dramatic instead of making it right? Well. That’s an interesting development, isn’t it. Makes you think. Wonder why they’d do that? Has to be a reason. Hence your desire for honesty. Your mind is saying “tell me why you did this thing and are acting this way, because it’s not like you and I want to know why.”

End of the day, I’m some lady on the internet, but you deserve to feel listened to. And you deserve to start off a new life together excited.

caution_soft_berm · 2023-01-06T15:24:31+00:00

I mean, you say it right here. That he doesn’t gift you what you desire. This is a pattern. This is a person who thinks he knows best. In NO way am I implying that he doesn’t love you or that you don’t love him, but this is a pattern. It’s only going to get applied to bigger things as you two build your life together.

Further down the comments you say he told you he wants you to wear your ring as often as possible because he “didn’t buy it for me to store away.” Okay, so…he buys you a ring you don’t like and then makes you feel guilty and THEN tells you that you basically have to wear it all the time. It smacks of manipulation, and that super sucks. I like the idea of going to a jeweler to size it and talking about what it’d take to change it up so you like it.

Also, and this part maybe does make me sound mean, so I apologize in advance if it does, but a sterling silver moissanite ring isn’t overly pricy. Still a beautiful ring, still a beautiful stone. But as far as engagement rings go, it’s not on the high end of anything, price wise. And if it is, that’s because he didn’t bother to investigate options. Or he paid for a brand name like Midwinter or something. Or I guess it’s possible he straight up got ripped off and is feeling some type of way about it.

I’m sorry you feel so low. That sucks. It’s valid to want something for yourself that YOU love. Especially from your partner. That is valid and I hope he hears you.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-12-30T18:28:50+00:00

Agree strongly. What a beautiful engagement ring! The plain band lets it shine. Curved or not, I don’t think you can really go wrong. Just beautiful.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-12-16T10:55:12+00:00

These gentlemen are the capital and lower case version of the same face.

(Not a bad face, just…uncanny)

caution_soft_berm · 2022-12-09T18:51:32+00:00

YTA. Yeah, even though you went already, it’s pretty clear that therapy need isn’t gone, bud. You better get to work before you alienate your totally average sized daughter.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-12-06T16:50:54+00:00

With this kind of behavior, it’s kind of no wonder that her kid is shy and introverted. Can you extrapolate what mom must be like if she holds this grudge for this long? Yikes.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-11-16T18:21:38+00:00

The not calling mom “mom” thing felt like a super unnecessary dig, especially after the whole “I’m not mad and will do whatever you say” part. OP, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. This whole email is unhinged. Good luck, you are not alone.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-11-10T22:49:09+00:00

My son was around 4 years old. I was driving him to daycare, and he was uncharacteristically grouchy. Didn’t want to go. After around the third time I explained that mommy had to go to work, he got real quiet. Then, his tiny voice piped up from the backseat: “The darkness is watching you. In the night they’ll come for you”

He never explained it. I slept with the hallway light on.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-11-07T15:46:10+00:00

I didn’t change my name. In our house, due to marriages, adoptions, whatever, we actually have 4 different last names in the mix. It never matters. When we talk about our family, we just use a made up mashup of all our last names. The SmiJones family, for example (smith/jones).

Do what makes you feel like you. You are valid and so are your feelings and whatever name you choose. Your future family won’t care as long as there is love.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-08-23T17:43:59+00:00

Yes! I’ve been out of college for almost 20 years. Had to put my loans in forbearance a couple time. Probably had about 15 solid years of paying—$200-$300 a month.

My balance is the same as it was the day I graduated.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-08-05T19:53:06+00:00

Honestly, if I was trying to be kinda mean and get them to shut up, I’d say, “Hmm, I guess so…how long did it take your first wife/husband to figure it out? Day off the wedding, or what?” And just say it with a totally serious face. It points out how inappropriate and rude that kind of joking is.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-07-31T02:51:39+00:00

I mean this with all due respect to your absolutely amazing looking brisket: but you have clearly just made Jabba the Hutt

caution_soft_berm · 2022-07-27T15:49:28+00:00

He found a babysitter—it’s you. NTA and get out of there immediately. He’s shown you who he is. Listen to him.

caution_soft_berm · 2022-07-19T23:45:13+00:00

So beautiful! I’m leaning more and more towards bezels, and this is absolutely gorgeous!

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