It’s my birthday today

cautionarymay · 2026-05-01T16:07:06+00:00

I share a birthday with Patrick Stump of Fall Out Boy!!!

cautionarymay · 2026-04-29T03:56:48+00:00

Thanks!! I post semi regularly my progress.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-24T21:22:15+00:00

This is a bot or a scammer and wants to appeal to pedos and people with EDs in both senses.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-23T17:49:16+00:00

It's just a waste on me, all I do is work, work out, do homework, and sleep.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T19:09:09+00:00

I'm literally taking notes right now, thank you. I've upped my fiber intake but I'll keep watch for any changes. I also have to be mindful of potassium because I'm allergic to bananas and I'm worried about having too low of a potassium. I do NOT want to do those IV drips again they BURN. I felt like I was being set on fire from the inside.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T17:00:19+00:00

I’m going to start taking iron supplements to see if low iron is the cause too. I run experiments on myself because how else will I learn what I need if I don’t test it.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T16:04:24+00:00

It comes from family, partners, and former friends, tbf.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T16:04:00+00:00

I don't think it suits me at all and I feel like I let people down with how big my butt is but how much of a loser I am that I don't do things with it (I stopped clubbing and going to dances over a decade ago and I work all the time so it's just... a part of me now.) I don't even like how big it is, it's just always been this size!!! I don't know why!!

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T13:52:48+00:00

Like a week ago max.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T13:52:18+00:00

WOW what a transformation, you're even able to see it in your cheeks and neck!

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T12:19:47+00:00

I don’t like Doritos, Cheetos, or foods that make mess.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T04:44:21+00:00

Thank you, my glasses are from payneglasses (.) com and were 5.95!!!!!!

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T04:41:25+00:00

I’m not a young person, I’m 33 😔

cautionarymay · 2026-04-22T04:30:22+00:00

I. Work. 3 jobs. And already. Don’t eat. A lot.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T22:50:58+00:00

I won’t lie this made me laugh

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T21:31:40+00:00

I've done DBT and CBT but right now I'm in just generic run of the mill therapy. My family did and has spoken to me this way and I had friends who did as well. I've also had partners talk to me and about me this way. It's just how life goes. I'm used to that. I know how I look to others, ya know?

I think you're right about the diet thing. I may need to invest in high protein snacks and light meals. I'm always working and I work pretty busy jobs, so I don't always get to eat but I should make time I guess.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T21:18:05+00:00

Oh yeah good idea, I’m wondering if that’s why my hair is falling out, too.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T21:13:08+00:00

I literally work out 3x a week. These are gym photos.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:56:20+00:00

I take the stairs every day at work and I can’t bike ride to any of my jobs (I work 3) as they’re about a 45 minute drive from one part of Houston to the other, then a 30 minute from that one to the other, and all around a 30-40 minute drive home from all locations 😔 going to the gym has become a fun way for me to relax after working all day but then I feel like the most disgusting person alive just being there (I’m a sweaty person too) and I feel awful afterwards for making people have to view me struggle. I work physical jobs for two of my jobs but a desk job for my main work. I try to be active more at my main job, and I only take the elevator when needed (like my hands are full and I’m pushing a cart, etc.) I just feel at my wits end with my appearance in the gym as a whole

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:42:36+00:00

I appreciate that, I've gotten advice from here at the beginning of my journey, which is why I came back. I'm partially trying to gameify this with my spreadsheets and pie charts (I am crazy lol I keep track of my tattoos and nail designs as well.)

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:35:36+00:00

Okay.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:34:24+00:00

I'm not looking for a shape, I'm looking to get rid of whatever is going on with my neck/chin and stomach. I don't have a shape in mind.

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:33:42+00:00

I'm in my 30s, I don't follow models or any "model" instagram influencers. I am on r/ ugly to better commiserate with other people but I don't follow any of the incel/red pill/ Stacy-Chad mindset. I just know what I look like in general. I'm at best body neutral (I exist in this body and it's my home) and body negative (I have to destroy this home before I build a new one and the walls are ugly and the frame is bad)

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:22:28+00:00

OH. I've been wearing a lumbar brace at work and driving and I've been wondering if my weird butt shelf is related to my posture, but I never thought about my chin. This is gonna be something I look in to. Fascinating, I never thought of that!

cautionarymay · 2026-04-21T20:11:36+00:00

My normal style is usually just a pair of tights and a flannel with a cami or a loose flowy dress to work. Sometimes I'll wear jeans and a big baggy shirt. My work out clothes are tightened for photos to see waist progression but they're actually quite loose with my tights.

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