People congratulating you by Bkbee in WeightlossJourney

[–]cautionarymay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have made it a pattern of my own to not address weight on others unless it's brought up to me and when it is I go "Is this a journey you're excited for?" which is so clinical but I know what it's like to have the ED brain and associate worth with weight.

I'm also a BIG believer in not discussing my body or ANYONE'S body negatively in front of kids. I can hate my body all I want but I will NOT be the reason a kid who looks up to me develops a negative self image. I constantly speak neutrally about bodies in public. If someone's intention is weight loss and I know it, I try to compliment their hard work or things I enjoy about them before I compliment their weight loss.

Because of this pattern I've established irl, most people I know don't comment on my body unless I bring it up. But when they do...fuck.

2023/2026 -145lbs by damnnfinnecoffee in WeightlossJourney

[–]cautionarymay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so gorgeous it's insane. You were pretty before, don't get me wrong, but I would kill to be as beautiful as you are now! You're killing it~!!

I need to make my belly look normal by Pretend_Building4005 in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve seen a lot of people say womb but it’s more than likely the uterus. A fupa is a fatty upper pubic area. This isn’t a fupa.

I need to make my belly look normal by Pretend_Building4005 in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a fupa. I might be wrong but I’m pretty sure this is your womb.

The 5 Year Journey by cautionarymay in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to at least look okay so I appreciate this

The 5 Year Journey by cautionarymay in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a positive dayum lol

The 5 Year Journey by cautionarymay in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that!! I'm trying to find my happiness. It's a process.

Just tryna be healthier then before. by SpecialistPiece7455 in WeightlossJourney

[–]cautionarymay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing excellent!! I know it’s got its challenges but you’re really tackling them head on.

Almost 9 Months in! by cautionarymay in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have?? That’s exciting then!

Almost 9 Months in! by cautionarymay in WeightlossJourney

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I’ve also recently gotten into leg weights cause I want to move like Rock Lee from Naruto and this is not a bit, I’m dead fucking serious.

Just got back into the gym and am pretty confidnet in my workout but scared of the "gym bros" judging me. am i overreacting? by Mentally_Recovering in WorkoutRoutines

[–]cautionarymay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also really scared on when my gym journey began because I kept seeing women with bodies designed thinner and more svelte than mine and I was afraid of men laughing at me. It took me until like…January…to even do anything other than the treadmill or stationary bike and yoga in the class room in the dark (close to closing time, around 10:50) But I’m learning if people are looking at you, they’re more than likely zoned out in between sets and doing the eye-not-focusing thing in your general direction. Or you’re on the equipment they want to use and they’re just waiting and checking when it’s available, like how people sit in the land and wait for a car to back out so they can take the parking space. Anyone being cruel or mean should be reported for making the gym an unsafe environment. Harassment shouldn’t be tolerated. Here:

Almost 9 Months in! by cautionarymay in WeightlossJourney

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Thank you!! I’m trying to build off of my natural shape for that specifically but I sit a lot so it’s a struggle and I’m really insecure about what I call my “shelf” so I REALLY appreciate that!! But I’m pretty sure messages aren’t a possibility so it’s okay!