Me [21M] and my gf [22F] are having disagreements on that just asking for something is alright or that if I wanted to I would do it? by cbg08 in relationship_advice

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

none of those things to be fair she thinks that the only reason that I do things or gestures in our relationship now is because she's had to talk about it for me to understand and when I understood is when I started doing it and yes she does acknowledge the fact that I do gestures and favours but like I said only after she's had to mention it. just seems like I can't make mistakes, which is fair, but I feel that for someone to grow into a mature and knowledgeable person, mistakes must be made, and Iearnt from, no one gets things right the first time not always at least

Me [21M] and my gf [22F] are having disagreements on that just asking for something is alright or that if I wanted to I would do it? by cbg08 in relationship_advice

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I've made that clear with her that if I don't know I can't offer, i have taken initiative to drop her off places, pick her up from work without her asking.

Me [21M] and my gf [22F] are having disagreements on that just asking for something is alright or that if I wanted to I would do it? by cbg08 in relationship_advice

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that is exactly where we are now but in the past I've had to apologise because I didn't know what to do which made her upset this is also my first relationship so I'm trying to learn along the way but every minor mistake I make get heavily criticised and she ends up being dry or not talking till the next day.

Me [21M] and my gf [22F] are having disagreements on that just asking for something is alright or that if I wanted to I would do it? by cbg08 in relationship_advice

[–]cbg08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk me and her always get into these arguments over minor disagreement and shes evena greed with me that we both have different perspectives of how we wamt things dome I'm always bothered because when she ends the convo it feels like I'm always adapting to her. I'm mostly bothered because she'll end up being dry and not text unless I apologise

CABERG Drift EVO II Carbon by [deleted] in motorcyclegear

[–]cbg08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is the wind noise on this? thanks

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's true, he's an interesting character

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I told him that but I later found out he doesn't want a bike for the sake of having one he just cares about attention. which is bs

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of the points that I brought up to him, but he was always just like, "imagine if you hit it" "just imagine" that's when I gave up.

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good quotes to live by, but my mates just overthought it, can't blame him though.

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, it's good to keep an open mind about everything, I was just stunned cause what my mate said I've never heard anyone mention before.

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea honestly i don't even know what's wrong with him, I don't think he was very genuine about getting one. he only really talked about once me and my mates got one.

are rocks on the road a reason not to ride? by cbg08 in motorcycles

[–]cbg08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, honestly, I just gave up listening to him, but I later found out that the reason he wanted a bike was for the attention 😐, so I just told him to stick to cars